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/ by Nobody: 8:57am On Aug 11, 2014*

Re: / by Tymax(m): 9:02am On Aug 11, 2014

Learn to hug. Hugs are easy to learn na. I even googled it once...just to learn new styles grin

Kissing is easy, watch any hollywood movie.

Put effort and don't go all stiff on him like u always do. angry

okay?

Re: / by McWhillion(m): 9:05am On Aug 11, 2014

Tell him to teach you how to kiss and show romantic affections, if he doesn't teach you, who will?

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Re: / by Jerrick(m): 9:05am On Aug 11, 2014

Cut it out, its obvious you don't luff him. undecided

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Re: / by Tymax(m): 9:09am On Aug 11, 2014

3cycle: I want too but i just dnt knw hw too
I'm too reserved, shy, and may be frigid too

You need to drop your guard. He is the love of your life na. Haba! Do you want to push him into the arms of another babe? Don't frustrate him.

Re: / by Mikkie31(m): 9:17am On Aug 11, 2014

Is he the only man u've ever been in love with? If he is,that explains the reason why you are stiff on him. Guess you are the shy type. Ask him to teach you,it'ld be a wonderful experience. Unless you have trouble asking#

Re: / by McWhillion(m): 9:21am On Aug 11, 2014

3cycle: Not a fast learner in that area

I think the problem is you are damn too introverted, shy and uptight. Don't forget you're talking about your HUSBAND here, the two of you are meant for each other for life. The man definitely needs lots of love and affection from you, don't be the reason why he will start looking out.
He is your husband and more reason you've to be very free with him. Please be bold enough to learn to be romantic. If you don't learn, there are many girls out there who are scholars and are willing to dish love out to any man, married or not.

Re: / by Nobody: 9:25am On Aug 11, 2014*

Re: / by Nobody: 9:27am On Aug 11, 2014

[quote author=McWhillion][/quote]Not yet my husband, still in the process

Re: / by McWhillion(m): 9:31am On Aug 11, 2014

3cycle: Not yet my husband, still in the process

My opinion is even more valuable than ever, he isn't yet committed to you and he is already saying you're unromantic, better learn or else you don't love him.

Re: / by Nobody: 9:34am On Aug 11, 2014*

Re: / by itsValo(m): 9:43am On Aug 11, 2014

I can teach you, but we have 2 see f2f..... *it requires practical*

Re: / by echobee(f): 9:44am On Aug 11, 2014

3cycle: Not a fast learner in that area

Ok. Fast learner in which area? shocked

Re: / by McWhillion(m): 9:46am On Aug 11, 2014

3cycle: Love shouldnt be expressed verbally atleast my actions should prove a thing to him.

Of course, that's what am saying. Nobody is telling you to tell him that you love him rather show him that you love him and that's by being romantic. It's evident that your actions are not enough.

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Re: / by itsValo(m): 9:58am On Aug 11, 2014

3cycle: Ok, na only me go waka see you f2f?

Of cos!! Yes.... No b only you wan learn grin

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Re: / by farano(mod): 10:12am On Aug 11, 2014

Tell me how to pamper a man www.nairaland.com/1805232/best-ways-pet-guys
Now is how to be romantic
@op na only you wakacome? lol

Re: / by Ivanspring(f): 10:18am On Aug 11, 2014

My dear, you have no other option than to learn how to be romantic. Even if you don't show it now, you'd definately have to when you're married.

Re: / by sexylogan(m): 10:26am On Aug 11, 2014

3cycle: I dont know how to hug/kiss him when he returns from work

I prefer sending a text to say i love you rather than saying it to his hearing

He said i dont chat dirty nor talk dirty with him ( i dnt know how to sex chat)

No PDA's! too shy for that too

But i love him ALOT. How do i make him understand that

You don't kiss + You don't hug + You only text "I love you" = You are not romantic undecided

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Re: / by Nobody: 10:29am On Aug 11, 2014

my dear,u av to learn it ni ooo.....am very sure dere ll b many gurls out dere ready to kill to av a nyt with him....n if dat happens,he s gone......u can visit a sex therapist (if its in naija oo)....

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Re: / by sexylogan(m): 10:39am On Aug 11, 2014

3cycle: Atleast am better than some doctors romantically
Jokes apart i need help

I'm definitely not one of those you are referring to

But you sef, you no dey watch foreign romance movies? How hard can it be to kiss?

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Re: / by Nobody: 10:46am On Aug 11, 2014

3cycle: I dont think he would ever leave me for some one else. He loves me more

...well,no-one s disputing d fact dat he loves u....but do u knw wat frustration can turn a man into??...do u knw if he ll b able to withstnd d pressure n temptation wen he sees someone doin wat u dont do??....do u knw if he has ruminated abt d issue so many tyms,b4 he eventually let d cat out of d bag huh

....yes,he loves u alot...dats y he s comin out...he doesnt wanna cheat on u....he also wants to use it as a point weneva u catch him cheating if u dont chnage...i ll advice u hold ur man like ur life depends on it...

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Re: / by Ivanspring(f): 10:47am On Aug 11, 2014

3cycle: Yeah am fasting right now so God can intervene by his power so i can be more better

That's good. I'd wanted to suggest prayers but i didn't want to go into religion. Once you ask God to change you, He will.

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