A man should not bother taking a paternity leave because he needs to be out there making more money for the family. A happy family is one which can meet its expenses. Damn what ami even saying?

cash flow nko?

The truth here is that u, as the man, are supposed to make a choice on which kind of lifestyle u're going to live; whether as a family man or as a complete business/career man. Be there for ur child/children when he/she/they need u the most OR pursue ur most desired ambition & miss the most valued moments (that u can never get) of ur loved ones . Period!

And Oh one more thing; if u must live as a family man, BEFORE u marry, u must endeavour to make sure that there are neccessary provisions (especially fianancially) that will meet up the expectations of ur family when the time comes. For example, choose a job or a career that will afford u enough time (even energy) to be with ur kids.

Reasonable

SAMBARRY: L to the I and A with the R and the S






excuses to keep on yashin the wife that the place has not healed

Some men actually do not touch their wife(s) for months even during sabbatical leave or annual work break. So introducing a paternity leave definitely will give more room for intimacy between the couple.

Kanwulia: No AFRICAN man should get paternity leave!
Except he was PHYSICALLY present in the delivery room and did the OMUGUO himself!
You don't reward idleness with more IDLENESS!

He wakes up early everyday to go to work to give U a comfortable life.

He beat the traffic with all the driving tactics his brain could possibly gather just to ensure He sees Ur happy face before U go to bed everyday. Putting on a calm & happy look for U despite being exhausted inside.

He occasionally buys clothes for the wife & kids just to put a smile on Ur face, without caring for himself.

He pays that ultra expensive school fee (three times in a year) for U & Ur sibling without giving U the faintest idea of what He goes through to produce that money, and will still produce money for christmas & easter cloth and chicken For the kids and His wife (without buying clothes for himself) just to make his family happy.

He is the strong voice that will respond to any strange knock at the gate, just to make U feel safe.

Yet U feel He does not deserve a break simply because no be him enta labour room.

Tell me- who bought all the pampers, napkin, baby oil, bathing stuff, baby food, feeding bottle, baby clothes & all other thing that the mother will use to cater for the baby?
Who payed for the ante & post natal that the mother went through to bring the baby to life?
Even the labour room U are talking of, Who paid for it?
And as a matter of fact, Who put the baby there in the first place?

Na wa for african ladies ooooo.

megabyte2: Paternity leave then what will he be doing

I'm suprised U are asking this question after reading the post.

KillerBeauty: Alright. Where are the remaining 3 points

Sowie it was a typo. They are coming soon.

lastpage:

So ALL Non-African fathers are physically present in the delivery room?

What a daft supposition you just made?

And to think not being present in a delivery room ............is termed idleness?
Jeez, damn the "witch" who robed you of your intelligence, if you had any, ab initio?

Lastpage!

Using you to practice anger management.
*ignored*

popson1st: What is this one saying?

Are the lexicons too big to understand?

OLUJOSHINS:

He wakes up early everyday to go to work to give U a comfortable life.

He beat the traffic with all the driving tactics his brain could possibly gather just to ensure He sees Ur happy face before U go to bed everyday. Putting on a calm & happy look for U despite being exhausted inside.

He occasionally buys clothes for the wife & kids just to put a smile on Ur face, without caring for himself.

He pays that ultra expensive school fee (three times in a year) for U & Ur sibling without giving U the faintest idea of what He goes through to produce that money, and will still produce money for christmas & easter cloth and chicken For the kids and His wife (without buying clothes for himself) just to make his family happy.

He is the strong voice that will respond to any strange knock at the gate, just to make U feel safe.

Yet U feel He does not deserve a break simply because no be him enta labour room.

Tell me- who bought all the pampers, napkin, baby oil, bathing stuff, baby food, feeding bottle, baby clothes & all other thing that the mother will use to cater for the baby?
Who payed for the ante & post natal that the mother went through to bring the baby to life?
Even the labour room U are talking of, Who paid for it?
And as a matter of fact, Who put the baby there in the first place?

Na wa for african ladies ooooo.

Where do you think you izzzz?
In your village farm?

Buy pamper for who?
Na Odi pay for MAMA PURITY aka MERCY JOHNSON OKOJIE'S labor room for H-America?
You must be referring to the 'local' house-wives of women in ya village for shuaaaa. . . . Mtchew!

devigblegble: I GUESS THIS IS FOR MARRIED COUPLE ONLY, not my F business

My definition of a man is a married guy.

flyca: No man should be given any paternity leave except with endorsement from the wife!

The wife should decide if the man is useful at home based on his previous records of home and child care

Otherwise no need to keep an lazy man at home and create more work for the woman sef

Do husbands endorse maternity leave? Despite the liability nature of some wives.

esof1: @ op, why do u think maternity leave is given? If u know why it is given, then u wouldn't talk abt paternity leave.

Anyway, maybe paternity leave would be given when men begin to breastfeed.

I understand that maternity leave is given to expectant mothers & after childbirth. Yet I also feel men also need a break aside from usual work leave. It might not be due to child expectancy or delivery as is the case with women.

Bunsky: Paternity leave for naija.

Yes our men deserve it.

lastpage:

So ALL Non-African fathers are physically present in the delivery room?

What a daft supposition you just made?

And to think not being present in a delivery room ............is termed idleness?
Jeez, damn the "witch" who robed you of your intelligence, if you had any, ab initio?

Lastpage!

Bros Mi Abeg no vex ooooo. Me sef don give am answer.

YourCoffin: I'm not married but I need paternity leave. My dogs need me at home. OP, abeg, how do I go about getting one?

LOL

Kanwulia:

Where do you think you izzzz?
In your village farm?

Buy pamper for who?
Na Odi pay for MAMA PURITY aka MERCY JOHNSON OKOJIE'S labor room for H-America?
You must be referring to the 'local' house-wives of women in ya village for shuaaaa. . . . Mtchew!

what's this one saying?

holyfather:

what's this one saying?

You can''t read. . . you can't understand.
But I have noticed you sha!
If you don't have anything to do this weekend. . . go and use ya azzze to 'market' some ads for Seun. . . he needs some income BADLY! I see 6 empty NL addy squares. . . not even one SINGLE FAKE INSPIRED 'OTU' ONE!

*even some jobless NL RECYCLED OLD BAGGY whooores are putting mouth in this marriage mata too. . . .? Diarrris goodiooooo CHAI!!!*

donmalcolm21: A man should not bother taking a paternity leave because he needs to be out there making more money for the family. A happy family is one which can meet its expenses. Damn what ami even saying?

Once in a while, we all need a break.

galadima77: cash flow nko?

If well calculated, it won't be a problem.

[quote
author=OLUJOSHINS]

He wakes up early everyday to go to work to give U a comfortable life.

He beat the traffic with all the driving tactics his brain could
possibly gather just to ensure He sees Ur happy face before U go to bed
everyday. Putting on a calm & happy look for U despite being
exhausted inside.

He occasionally buys clothes for the wife & kids just to put a smile
on Ur face, without caring for himself.

He pays that ultra expensive school fee (three times in a year) for U
& Ur sibling without giving U the faintest idea of what He goes
through to produce that money, and will still produce money for
christmas & easter cloth and chicken For the kids and His wife
(without buying clothes for himself) just to make his family happy.

He is the strong voice that will respond to any strange knock at the
gate, just to make U feel safe.

Yet U feel He does not deserve a break simply because no be him enta labour
room.

Tell me- who bought all the pampers, napkin, baby oil, bathing stuff,
baby food, feeding bottle, baby clothes & all other thing that the
mother will use to cater for the baby?
Who payed for the ante & post natal that the mother went
through to bring the baby to life?
Even the labour room U are talking of, Who paid for it?
And as a matter of fact, Who put the baby there in the first place?

Na wa for african ladies ooooo. [/quote]

wish i could hit a thousand likes.


i wonder why some "yeye" ladies still come on here and talk all manner
of poo.
talk of insensitivity of the highest order... yet they demand it the
most.

Kanwulia:

Where do you think you izzzz?
In your village farm?

Buy pamper for who?
Na Odi pay for MAMA PURITY aka MERCY JOHNSON OKOJIE'S labor room for H-America?
You must be referring to the 'local' house-wives of women in ya village for shuaaaa. . . . Mtchew!

So it was Ur Mum that paid "ALL" these bills. If it was Ur dad, then permit me to ask: Are U on Heroine? Or what exactly is annoying U?
Don't U know that despite the money some women make, Their Husband still insist on footing the bills?
Did Mercy Johnson tell U she pay the bills?

Kanwulia:

You can''t read. . . you can't understand.
But I have noticed you sha!
If you don't have anything to do this weekend. . . go and use ya azzze
to 'market' some ads for Seun. . . he needs some income BADLY! I see 6
empty NL addy squares. . . not even one SINGLE FAKE INSPIRED 'OTU' ONE!


*even some jobless NL RECYCLED OLD BAGGY whooores are putting mouth in
this marriage mata too. . . .? Diarrris goodiooooo CHAI!!!*

I don't need you to notice me.
you're probably the one jobless.I scarcely have time for people like
you,just that i couldn't get myself to ignore that poo you typed up
there.
and let me ask,u've got a man in ya life?
if u've not,go get one and start learning how to love him.men are
precious.
#justanadvice

holyfather:


I don't need you to notice me.
you're probably the one jobless.I scarcely have time for people like you,just that i couldn't get myself to ignore that poo you typed up there.
and let me ask,u've got a man in ya life?
if u've not,go get one and start learning to how to love him.men are precious.
#justanadvice

Hmmmm. . . .

Only a desperate woman will type such trash!
Men are precious indeed.
Because you never knew ya daddy! And you had STEPS. . . SNAKES AND LADDERS brothers and uncles who could not keep their fingers OFF YA CLITO! Prolly gang---rap ing ya anuuus too from conception to death.
EWU!

*now phock off my posts. . .holyfather indeed! holy murderer!. . . .i don't plan to start or end my day with an ijjiot likey ya*

Donvilo: The truth here is that u, as the man, are supposed to make a choice on which kind of lifestyle u're going to live; whether as a family man or as a complete business/career man. Be there for ur child/children when he/she/they need u the most OR pursue ur most desired ambition & miss the most valued moments (that u can never get) of ur loved ones . Period!

And Oh one more thing; if u must live as a family man, BEFORE u marry, u must endeavour to make sure that there are neccessary provisions (especially fianancially) that will meet up the expectations of ur family when the time comes. For example, choose a job or a career that will afford u enough time (even energy) to be with ur kids.

No job or career will afford U "ENOUGH" time and energy to mingle with Ur kids

interesting

OLUJOSHINS:

Do husbands endorse maternity leave? Despite the liability nature of some wives.

Maternity leave is a rest period for a woman who has just given birth. How can a woman in this category fall under your "liability" description

flyca:

Maternity leave is a rest period for a woman who has just given birth. How can a woman in this category fall under your "liability" description

1) Some women tend to activate an ultra "gluttonic" lifestyle after birth with the excuse usually being that the child is draining her breast.
2) Some women have disastrous hormone issues that make them break all the glass connected things and breakable plates in the house. Some husbands en up spending a lot to replace such items.
3) Unfortunately, some women have health issues that stops them from having a normal childbirth. Some of these women will need "1gallon" of blood to survive the birth while others might need a specialist to perform an operation on her to remove the child.

There are lots of reasons why some women fall under this liability group.

chimoz: When I have a kid, I will participate actively in everything concerning their baby-sittng I so much love kids.

I luv it when guys love kids, I really hope u will be like dis till then

OLUJOSHINS:

1) Some women tend to activate an ultra "gluttonic" lifestyle after birth with the excuse usually being that the child is draining her breast.
2) Some women have disastrous hormone issues that make them break all the glass connected things and breakable plates in the house. Some husbands en up spending a lot to replace such items.
3) Unfortunately, some women have health issues that stops them from having a normal childbirth. Some of these women will need "1gallon" of blood to survive the birth while others might need a specialist to perform an operation on her to remove the child.

There are lots of reasons why some women fall under this liability group.

By your definition, this is what makes a human being (male or female) a liability Before you quote me again, check the dictionary meaning of the word "liability".

I reiterate, if a man cannot help his wife with house chores during her maternity leave, there is no need to grant such a lazy man "paternity leave"!

erico2k2: This would be good xpecially now women want equal rights

. By equal rights, u mean men should carry pregnancy too and go tru delivery processes?