hi my fellow intelligent guys,

Please i want you all to advice me on what to do,
There is this girl i love so very much, I've been dating her since i dey Ondo state, that is since i was in secondary school (year 2000) . And we used to communicate wella on phone while i'm here in Lagos, No day will pass by that i wont give her a call, atleast we do talk for 5minutes everyday plus the MTN xtra-cool that we do when it is mid-night, I do go to Ondo state to check on her and my parent once in a while but i don't know what is wrong with this girl for the past two weeks now, She has been acting funny each time i call her, Atimes she wont pick up my calls, even when she pick my call she will be talking as if i'm not her boyfriend, I'm so upset with her damn behaviour but i do Love this girl alot

I Love her so very much because i want to marry the girl, yeah that's our plan, She's a 23years old virgin, She's still a virgin, the last time i went home she still told me that she's still a virgin, I don't wanna loose this girl, I never taste her and it will be a great loss to me if i loose her, I dey try prove to the girl say i be big boy for Lagos . Infact each time i go home i do go there in big form and she's always happy when ever she sees me,


Please Is distance the main problem or She has found another guy ?

Some of my friends here in Lagos told me that - It seems the girl has found someone there
Maybe they've told her to find a man to marry now and i'm not ready for marriage
Maybe she's giving me a Test
Maybe she no just Love me as she used to say again

That's the problem now that is running in my brain. Please WHAT SHOULD I DO

my email is( victoverry@yahoo.com)and my phone number is(08080442200)

Hugs

bobsege:

I dey try prove to the girl say i be big boy for Lagos . Infact each time i go home i do go there in big form and she's always happy when ever she sees me,

hey dud£!

juzz b yaself nd stop tryin 2 prove sey yu be "big boy for lagos" when yu knw yu yet to be,

y nut talk to her. . . . . .for yu to knw whassup?

and what should we do with ur personal details? meant to aid our judgement on ur predicament?

I hate it when people come up with the idea of 'he or she is just testing me' what's that? I mean as as how now?
Buddy, she's prolly tired of you, maybe she just met someone else who she's still crazy about or she just wants a little break.

The other only fear is that she might have been stupid enough to let some other guys go into her and she can't face you any more knowing that you know that she's suppose to be a virgin.

Way Forward: Call her for a heart to heart discussion. Tell her your fears and concerns. Tell her what you genuinely feel or think. Please, don't try to be smart or manupulative, just tell her as you think it and re assure her of your love and let her know how you'll appreciate her sincerity and you should be ready for anything you hear including that she's lost her virginity which actually shouldn't be a reason to dump her if you truly love her as you claim.

Finally, Please stop proving the big boy! just be yourself! _{Who knows maybe she found out you're not the big boy you pretend to be afterall}

Oh guys, Thank You , You guys are just too much

Hey dude dat said (Finally, Please stop proving the big boy! just be yourself! Who knows maybe she found out you're not the big boy you pretend to be after all), Bro u no y am proving big boy na, na for the girl as una no say na wetin girls dey like be dat so na de girl me dey prove big boy too oooooo and she dey always feel me wella when i'm with her, Infact her friends there used to be very jealous about us but for u guys advice i don hear and i still need more dude, I agree with what one guy said, He said maybe she has lost her virginity to anoda guy, omo e go pain me if i get to know but what can i do if she don dis-virgin na make we continue our relationship as usual since the love i have for her is there OR WHAT, please tell me


HUGS

I am very sure she has lost her virginity . . . . . . . try to pet her and she will make a confession. mind u, live goes on with a none virgin ooooo