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A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 2:10pm On Oct 25, 2008 |
You can enjoy and be revived daily, she's God's perfect match for you, maybe a change of attitude will help. read on ! When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 12:33am On Oct 31, 2008 |
Can we share the lessons learnt in this testimony so that we can all benefit from it? |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:09pm On Nov 08, 2008 |
My prayer is that may the good Lord give us wise and patient wives that will build their homes even when their husbands are trying hard to break it. |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by ekas(f): 8:59pm On Nov 08, 2008 |
Is a man not the head of the family?why then should he seek to destroy his home and then expect the wife who is to submit to him as head be expected to amend the tear. men you have got to learn how to be a good head and leader so that your wife and children will follow suit what u sow u shall and will surely reap plenty folds 1 Like |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by dbaptist1(m): 10:06pm On Nov 09, 2008 |
man that was a masterpiece i loved it and here i read it with my madam who is married and she learn t a whole lot from it i did also we as human beings a times forget the essential part of our lives and we go for trivialities. imagine a man with a wife who loves him and a kid whom they both share ,a product of their love looking for love outside of it well,thanks for that and i pray may God bring sanity to our homes |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by StMichael2: 5:26pm On Nov 10, 2008 |
A wise woman builds her home, that woman was in the Spirit, really !! |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:48am On Nov 23, 2008 |
St Michael: That is a good observation. The Bible puts it precisely below: "Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands." Proverbs 14:1 |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by plappville(f): 12:57pm On Nov 23, 2008 |
OLAADEGBU:But this doesn't means men should take their wifes forgranted, as the head of the family i think men should put more effort to save their home than wifes does |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 5:33am On Nov 29, 2008 |
plappville: I believe both spouses should put equal effort if not trying to outdo the other in their effort to build their marriage. We have the best injunction in the Bible that helps us to know our responsibilities in marriage, "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord . . . Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave Himself for it." (Eph.5:22,25). Now tell me which one is easier? May the Lord help us all. If only one of the spouses takes this injunction seriously marriages will be difficult to break even when the other spouse tries hard to break it. |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by otokx(m): 5:15pm On Nov 29, 2008 |
This is so cool |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by lawyer(m): 10:32am On Nov 30, 2008 |
Well this is an Internet Story and not really what happens in real life. 95% of divorces are settled 3 months ahead in the mind of that person. Go to the divorce section at the Ikeja High court and see the massive queue of people waiting to annul their 2 years to 50 years old marriage. People go tired and wary of staying with one person especially this generation and people just need to move on atimes. While this story might seem inspiring for some, none theless, it doesnt apply in the real world! Most divorces are meant to be and it has nothing spiritual or emotional to do with it. Its just an absence of communication and attraction! Cheers! |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by olabowale(m): 1:15pm On Nov 30, 2008 |
@Olaadegbu: Let me use you as a whipping board this morning.
Your wife was right, in the above statement. lol. Manhood is a state of mind and not just the physiological, alone!
This alone, is enough to put you to death! If you are a muslim, I mean. Just imagine if the shoe was in the other foot. If your wife, in the first year of your marriage had met a more debounearing younger man who was more successful than you a "still struggling and older man", and then decided to walk out on you. I am sure you would have cried "murderer". [/quote] |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 6:45pm On Dec 07, 2008 |
Dads should take a moment to contemplate the roles they play in their children's lives. Our children are learning by examples, they are always watching to see whether our actions are congruent with our words. Watch this short video below. http://www.godtube.com/view_video.php?viewkey=5486ae62fd502645138e |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 4:20pm On Dec 29, 2008 |
lawyer: This is not just an internet story but is a true story of someone whose marriage was almost dissolved, and I believe that we call all learn practical lessons on how to keep our marriages intact. It is almost disheartening to realise that is always the women that are the ones keen to keep their marriages than men, but we have to go back to the basics and to the Person who instituted marriage in the first place. Marriage was not man's idea but of God who said that a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife (not wives) and not Adam and Steve, and both of them shall be joined as one. When we acknowledge the initiator and maker of the marriage institution as the third party in our marriages will our marriages be able to ride the storm that is affecting our society today. |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 4:43pm On Dec 29, 2008 |
olabowale: Must you always attack persons in all your posts? And when you don't see someone to attack you start on anyone in your imagination, this is what some ideologies does to some people's minds. olabowale: Am not surprised that you are still thinking in the stone ages. The lesson you learnt from the post was that you should put someone to death. I wonder if you think or teach any other things to your adherents other than death, and when death presents itself you then say that you are not ready. (O ko we si ijogbon, igbati ijogbon de tan o wa so pe ko s'aye mo) olabowale: This just shows the easy way out, if you have marital problems get another one to divert the attention away from you. I am sure not many women on this forum will be willing to share their man with a rival, not in this day and age unless the marriage is for convenience sake and in such marriages intimacy is out of the window as it is only to satisfy the man's sexual urges. And if you think that Islam practices equality among men and women why don't they allow the women to have another man when they have problems in their marriages? Except that you use them as properties to be heard of and not to be seen. |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by uzwu: 5:08pm On Dec 29, 2008 |
Oh that was wonerful! I learnt a lt from it. Thanks poster |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 4:17am On Dec 31, 2008 |
d-baptist: God bless you for taking practical steps to learn from the experience above, may the Lord keep together what He has joined together in Jesus' name. |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 4:25am On Dec 31, 2008 |
uzwu: May God bless you and keep your marriage blessed and fruitful in Jesus' name. |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 6:32am On Jan 02, 2009 |
Adam and Eve must have been the happiest and luckiest couple in the world. -Neither of them had a mother-in-law. |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 8:03pm On Jan 14, 2009 |
I wish all married couples in NL a fruitful, loving, intimate and happy married life this new year 2009 and the yet to be married to find the bones of their bones and the flesh of their flesh very soon in Jesus' name. |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 6:10am On Jan 17, 2009 |
Watch this married man sing a song about his marriage blues: http://www.godtube.com/view_video.php?viewkey=afa4d76f3d66dcf6df8e |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by Taken(m): 10:02am On Jan 17, 2009 |
This story depict an example of a wise woman that keepeth her house. You women should be careful in marrying a man that would want to breakup his years of marriage cus of you. After marrying you, be rest assured you are the next to go after another one like you comes around. |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by microgiant: 10:26am On Jan 17, 2009 |
if u are so versed in the bible how come u wanted to ditch your wife in the first place, or is it after that you started to study the bible? |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by microgiant: 10:29am On Jan 17, 2009 |
OLAADEGBU: are you inferring that your mother or mother-in-law is part of the problems? |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by microgiant: 10:30am On Jan 17, 2009 |
OLAADEGBU: are you inferring that your mother or mother-in-law is part of the problems? |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 5:53pm On Jan 17, 2009 |
Taken: Thanks and God bless you abundantly for diligently observing salient points that we can learn from the real life scenario in the opening post. As for the mistresses, what goes around comes around I guess. |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 5:58pm On Jan 17, 2009 |
microgiant: microgiant: How do you read? Must it be that I am referring to myself before you can make any sense out of my posts? I guess that you think like Olabowale, who cannot decipher personal testimonies from scenarios of other people posted on the internet. |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 1:25am On Feb 15, 2009 |
Valentine's Day February 14, 2009 " Who so findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD." (Proverbs 18:22) Embedded in many of our customs and holidays are a mixture of pagan and biblical principles. Saint Valentine’s Day is no exception. Mystery surrounds who Valentine really was. He was probably a priest martyred in 269 A.D. at Rome. Among Roman Catholics, he is called the patron saint of affianced couples, beekeepers, epilepsy, fainting, greetings, happy marriages, love, lovers, plague, travellers, and young people. He is one busy (and confused) man! In the Western world, the emphasis is on human expressions of love and friendship. That is certainly of importance and, when guided by the biblical principles, a godly ardor worth commemorating. Here are a few guidelines to remember this season: • "Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good" (Romans 12:9). • "Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart" (2 Timothy 2:22). • "See that ye love one another with a pure heart fervently" (1 Peter 1:22). • "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it" (Ephesians 5:25). • "Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares" (Hebrews 13:2). The objective of every kind of biblical "love" is stated in Paul’s prayer for the Philippian church: "And this I pray, that your love may abound yet more and more in knowledge and in all judgment; That ye may approve things that are excellent; that ye may be sincere and without offence till the day of Christ. Being filled with the fruits of righteousness, which are by Jesus Christ, unto the glory and praise of God" (Philippians 1:9-11). HMM III http://www.icr.org/article/valentines-day/ |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:03pm On Apr 06, 2011 |
Porcupines Like these porcupines, we humans can be prickly creatures at times, and we can hurt those who are close to us without meaning to. We must learn to forgive and allow those hurts to be healed (Joyful 'toons).
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Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:19pm On Apr 07, 2011 |
St Michael: I salute our mothers o!
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Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 9:44am On Apr 08, 2011 |
Here is another story of how a Christian minister restored a marriage that was on the brink of divorce. Dr. George Crane was a newspaper columnist and at the same time a Christian minister. He said of the story of a frustrated wife who came into his office seeking a divorce. She said: "I do not only want to get rid of him, I want to hurt him as much as he has me." Dr. Crane suggested an interesting plan: "Go home and act as if you really love your husband. Tell him how much he means to you. Praise him for every decent trait. Go out of your way to be as kind, considerate and generous as possible. Spare no efforts to please him, to enjoy him. Make him believe you love him. After you've convinced him of your undying love and that you cannot live without him, then drop the bomb. Tell him that you're getting a divorce. That will really hurt him." With revenge in her eyes, she smiled and exclaimed, "Beautiful, beautiful. Will he ever be surprised!" And she carried out the Doctor's prescription to the letter, pretending to mean it. This she did for 2 months by showing kindness, (neither nagging nor insulting), giving, sharing, showing love and affection. When she didn't come back to Dr. Crane he decided to give her a call and said: "Are you ready now to go through with the divorce?" "Divorce?" she exclaimed. "Never! I discovered I really do love him." |
Re: A Must Read For All Married Couples And An Eye-Opener For The Yet To . . . by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:13pm On Apr 08, 2011 |
OLAADEGBU: [img width=500 height=500]http://www.answersingenesis.org/assets/images/media/cartoons/after-eden/20010709.gif[/img] |
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