DonCrust: A friend of mine busted into tears right in the presence of over a thousand students when his girlfriend told him she perceives a blunt future ahead of him and all these was simply because of a dinner gown. She eventually dump him via SMS about a week later.

Most Nigerian ladies believe that a guy with potential is that guy who can meet her present needs and as a matter of fact have a robust bank account as that is a guarantee for the future.

As for me, a guy with potential is a guy who documents his plans ahead of time and ready to do everything to achieve them, without compromising.




his vision but dedicated his time, energy and resources to achieve that vision.

pickabeau1:
Potential no dey reach that side oo..lol

Yungwizzzy: A guy who smoke weed

raumdeuter: The girl didnt see in him what she was looking for So she left. Human beings are selfish anyway so I wont blame anyone of them

He too should try and make it, then raise his own bar too very high so that any girl that doesnt have such potential would be dumped even after introduction.

ihedinobi2: Potential is not the same as guarantee, it's merely resident possibility. And just about every man has it.

cococandy: Some guys mistake potential to be plans or dreams. Hence a graduate young man hoping to get a job at Shell while doing some unfulfiling job will think he has potential because he's educated and has big dreams.

Potential is the guy who turns lemon into lemonade.

He's focused and doesn't waste his time regaling the babe with his 'plans' for the future.

He's calculative.
The guy who didn't get a job when he left school but his shop that he started with 200k is worth millions now because he doesn't mind traveling to the north or to Togo to buy goods cheaper and doesn't mind driving a keke napep to deliver his goods to his clients on time. Thereby creating a huge customer base and more success from his little capital.

Potential is not by mouth.
If you're driven,it won't be a secret.

ismokeweed:
Who is this cow? De there. If you have a good job, are rich, and go out late, does that mean you have no potential? Any id1ot will just conment

bootstrap: All this grammar u guys are speaking and dodging the truth so u dnt cut across as shallow, God is watching oh

Who is a guy with potential?

A GUY WITH POTENTIAL IS THAT GUY THAT IS CURRENTLY FINANCIALLY STABLE WITH A HIGH TENDENCY TO INCREASE THAT FINANCE AS THE YEARS PROGRESSES.

In the current financial realities on ground, be earning, at the very least 150k (give or take), hv a job/buisness that can atleast double that revenue in say, every 5yrs ... oh, and I am refering to those under 30. The requirements change as the age increases.

Ladies and gents, that is potential for you.

marieolae: sick nd tired of men stero typing ladies

ololo12: I've said it, time and again. It's a waste of time with Nigerian girls. I gave up on them decades ago.

marieolae: sick nd tired of men stero typing ladies

fruqsy:
lols...i know you'll prefer when his pocket is loudably potential...you no wan follow fry akara.

ololo12:


Bro. It's a waste of time with Nigerian girls..

raumdeuter: The girl didnt see in him what she was looking for So she left. Human beings are selfish anyway so I wont blame anyone of them

He too should try and make it, then raise his own bar too very high so that any girl that doesnt have such potential would be dumped even after introduction.

Pay back time..lol

Tallesty1: The guy has a problem.



Methinks a guy with potential is a guy who has set his goals and is seriously working to achieve them. It can be seen by everybody that he is relentless. This guys rarely have time for distractors(aka girlfriends)

Ramanto:
Does being rich make you responsible?As regards all your insults,i reserve my comment.u r forgiven bt go sin no more

lari03:
A man with potential has a plan.

He also has empowerment to fulfill the plan.

He is obviously different from the crowd when you sample his opinions and idiosyncracies.

He has a strong belief system and he follows up on his convictions.

@OP while you might think I am kidding but that your friend needs deliverance from the spirit of "Arsene Wenger"

ThoniaSlim:

God bless you! I don't know why peeps won't call a spade a spade!

flyca: OP, Personal Experience.

Sometime ago, I started "seeing" one of my sister's old time classmate, an Architect from a Federal University, graduated with a good result and have a Master's degree, and with two year experience too. These were the sketchy details I knew about him before we started dating. So yes!, he has potentials.

Ok. Two months into the r/ship, I noticed this guy was broke, broke with the necessities of basic leaving. I started becoming worried. I lived in a city two hours from his, but he couldn't afford t-fare (not time) once in a week or two to come and see me. Calls nko?, na me dey call most times. Ok o. I was still on it.

Once, I went to his office see him, by the time I set out by 5pm back to my city, I drank a bottle of coke. Even the taxi fare to the park, he didn't give me. Hmmmmm. No need to say, I was "down". Another day, I went back to his residence to visit him on a Sunday o, I nearly fainted at what I saw. His room in the family house even had a leaky roof

The one that broke the Carmel's back, was the day he asked me to transfer some call credit to his phone. At this time, I had completely lost grip!

So am I a gold-digger? Am I impatient? I'm I unrealistic or simply unreasonable? I leave the answers to you.

As much as having potentials is good, if its not translated into financial ability(lack of better adjectives), there is no need to bring out a lady from her father's house to starve her.

Yungwizzzy: A guy who smoke weed

Input:
Then I give up on your sisters and cousins.

You better not work hard and make it, keep on blaming your laziness on Nigerian girls