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|How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by kingsots(m): 11:46am On Oct 31, 2008|
Have you ever looked at men who can get any girl they want and wondered, "how do they do it?" Yes, females are attracted to status. Yes, they are attracted to strength and confidence. The art of distracting a woman from all of your shortcomings and making her fall in love with you for who you are is called seduction. Read on to find out how to do it.
1. Manage your image. Before you can seduce a girl, you must have a good, positive image. Make friends and be charming with every one you come in contact with. Never hesitate to tell one person what you admire about another, as it will eventually reach that person and appear undoubtedly genuine. Never argue (arguing is anti-seduction). No girl can resist a guy whom everyone likes.
2. Manage your reputation. While people around you begin to like you, you may start to appear phony or plastic. You must also subtly reveal your human side with talk of sexuality. If you cannot insinuate, skip this step. Occasionally hint to people that you enjoy the company of young girls on a purely platonic level. When you talk about sex, say it in a way that Shakespeare would approve of. For example, "Sleep is my second favorite thing to do in bed" or "my neighbors are noisy during the day, but that's okay because they put up with me at night."
3. Do the opposite of what other guys do. If the girl is dammmmnnnn toooo gorgeous, ignore her(though it’s quite difficult,bt if you are sure you want to get her-idnore her). After hearing about your tight reputation, she will wonder why you are not attracted to her. If other guys ignore her, shower her with the attention she has been craving. It will appear to her that you are smitten.
4. Hint that other girls like you. Women hold each other's opinions very highly and they get jealous easily. Try and make sure she sees you and some female friends.
5. Wait for the sign that she is interested. The gorgeous girl was ignoring you at first and now she flirts heavily. The not-so-attractive girl was shy and hesitant at first, but now she drops (very subtle) hints that she wants you to make a move. Now when I see these signs I give her just what she wants, start calling often, and when she just begins to know me I withdraw for a while to surface after about 7-9 days with excuses of begin busy with work.(girls don’t like idle guys)
6. Speak seductively. Never start a conversation focused on work, school, , or other everyday things. Never talk about yourself. Talk about history, astrology, dreams, fate, sex (sometimes),and anything else pleasurable and intangible. Don't express any opinions except for your preference for pleasurable things and for things that she likes. Keep a powerful gaze while talking about these things with a lovely facial expression and a wonderful smile. The eyes are very important. Never apologize. Never worry when you are talking with a girl, because it will be written all over your face and interpreted as a sign of weakness.
7. Show strategic weakness (optional). This step is optional, but it will speed up the seduction. If you naturally come off as weak, skip this step. For more masculine guys, a flash of weakness and sensitivity will make you seem honest, romantic, harmless, and more akin to a girl's idea of "the one." All girls are frightened of guys on some level. The more feminine and skittish the girl is, the more necessary this step is. The key to performing this step correctly is to bend the truth. Don't talk about breakups or events that you really are sensitive about. Don't lead her into a depressing discussion topic. Add a masculine angle to feminine subjects. I love this step, because am very ticklish and once a girl spots this little weakness she will always like to tickle me.
8. Give her plenty of space. There are bound to be things about you that she doesn't like. Give her time to forget about those things and fantasize about the good things you have to offer.
9. Ask her out. You will eventually learn what the right time is--not too early and not too late. If you flirt with a chick over a long period of time, you will notice that the slow, steady increase in the attention that she gives you is followed by a sharp drop-off. This is a signal that she is sick of waiting and spites you for it(she begins to avoid you). You have no chance after that. Girls are very picky about timing. Make sure it's an offer she can't refuse. It takes attention to detail, practice and luck to pick the perfect first date. I had a problem like this with a girl I once dated, I wasted time in getting into something we could have started long time, then she started avoiding me. When I asked her what the problem was to my greatest surprise she said she sick of waiting for us to have sex, I was stunned.
10. Turn on the charm. She already said "yes." As difficult as it is to blow it now, many guys do by being shy. If you don't show that you're attracted to her now, you will be seen as unappreciative or weak. Girls typically give about ten "nos" for every "yes," so show (don't tell) your appreciation for it. It's OK to bend the truth. If she's gorgeous, insinuate how clever and charming she is. If she's not, insinuate that she is. A great deal of the conversation will be non-verbal. Use ambiguous physical contact. Walk close enough to her that you brush against each other often, touch her lower back when you are on queue making an order in a eatery . If you are nervous when you touch a girl, it will make her very uncomfortable. Confidence is the difference between touching her and molesting her.
11. If she is shy, send well crafted text msgs to her. There are some diamonds in the rough out there. When she is reading a letter, she can enjoy your words of love without worrying about whether you like the way she looks or acts. Each time she reads it (and she will read it over and over again so make it good) she will wish more and more that you are there with her. Make every word count and keep it brief. Whether talking or writing, keep it brief. It is better to say nothing at all than to say something that is not seductive.
12. Obey the correct sequence of physical interactions. Don't move too fast. Wait for her to touch you flirtatiously. Hand-holding is next. Then comes close contact and embraces. Then comes kissing. Then comes the making out and heavy petting and all the rest. The process should be slow, poetic and musical. There is no room for discomfort in seduction.
13. Establish an emotional connection. When you talk to your person of interest, find out commonalities, establish the moment, and you may relate to things she is passionate about or interested in.
• Seduction is an art. It takes as much practice as learning a musical instrument or painting.
• Empathy is essential to seduction. Every woman is different, so tailor your date, your words and your actions to that specific woman. You must know what she is thinking before you can offer her the pleasure she craves.
• Read poetry. Notice the imagery, the ambiguity and the sound. Notice how modern poetry uses colloquial language to achieve all that. Don't use big words or cliches. Your language should be "diabolic" (ethos and pathos) like that of a naija politician.
• If she senses that you are seducing her, she will run away. The pace of your seduction should be slow and the volume should be quiet.
• All women like power in at least one of its many manifestations: money, status, intelligence, strength, etc. You need at least a little before you can seduce the most beautiful of women.
• Many girls will tell you that confidence is what they look for, but nothing will increase your confidence like a successful seduction.
• Insinuation is a must. Only a movie star or a professional athlete could expect success with a brash line like "let's go back to my place and, "
• Don't be a doormat or a people-pleaser. If you are perceived as weak, you will never get a girl.
• Always be honest, meaning don't tell a lie. A lie is something you can get caught in. Don't lie about your income, whether you have a girlfriend or not, whether you are good at sports, etc. Girls can see right through lies. However, bending the truth to achieve a more poetic effect is absolutely necessary. Also, most of the time, the correct answer is to say nothing at all.
• Seducing a woman is like dancing with a woman. Sometimes you hold her close and sometimes you let her shine on her own and watch. If you are too clingy, she will feel suffocated. If you let her go and never come back, she will be insulted.
• Reveal yourself slowly and only when directly asked. Don't show more of yourself than she asks for. When the mystery is gone, the seduction is over.
• Girls with boyfriends make excellent targets. If you can seduce a faithful girlfriend without showing up on the radar, you will have no problem with a single girl.
• Seduction does not always end in the bedroom. If you seduce a faithful girlfriend or wife, she may decide to cut off all contact with you when she realizes that she is in love with you. Mark it as a success and be thankful that you didn't have to break up with her. Do NOT however, go around ruining lives, there are people out there who are happy with each other, and who really don't need you to ruin that.
• Not every woman can be seduced. Yunger girls want to feel mature and older girls want to feel young.
• If the seduction fails for one reason or another, leave a good space of time before attempting to seduce her again. She must completely forget about the bad stuff before you can try to revive the old feelings.
• Women can sense fear and weakness very easily. If you have shown fear or weakness (we all have), it's time to start over.
• If you use this technique purely for the end result, you probably don't have the patience to perform a seduction correctly. Pleasure plays a major role throughout the process. You are not offering her a chance to sleep with you, but rather a chance to FALL IN LOVE.
• Study the biographies, writings and speeches of the world's greatest seducers: Erroll Flynn, Casanova, Lord Byron, Charles De Gaulle, Gabriele D'Annunzio, etc.
Physically attractive seducers will be able to seduce much faster than unattractive ones, because the attraction is already there. However, unattractive men will have an easier time getting close to girls and gaining access to their hopes and dreams.
I wish you the best.
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by Nautillus(m): 12:07pm On Oct 31, 2008|
This your lecture is too long oh haba . . .didnt noone tell you that we folks here have very lil patience for such long text . . .save 4 maybe holyeyes discriptives . . .
Oga . . .Please . . .Summerise abeg.
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by dawgy(m): 12:20pm On Oct 31, 2008|
Oga ur post long o, next posting abeg compress am,
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by ramonacee(f): 12:43pm On Oct 31, 2008|
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by webman(m): 1:14pm On Oct 31, 2008|
All the correct and fire on Professor
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by kingsots(m): 2:06pm On Oct 31, 2008|
Nautillus:would try next time to summerise
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by arramyjay: 3:56pm On Oct 31, 2008|
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by 190: 1:15am On Nov 01, 2008|
cool,kip it up, ,,,this thread is the best of the year, so u mean we shud ignore cuttie pies and mak dem feel unimportant, kinda difficult wud giv it a try
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by kingsots(m): 12:20pm On Nov 01, 2008|
happy you enjoyed it. My brother its quite difficult 2 ignore a hot chick bt dats how ur game can become tight.
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by lobinoxebe(m): 2:22pm On Nov 01, 2008|
Man this is too cool, wowow, its coll, i don get one pasoword be that ooo,
i will give you feeback
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by jadaus: 5:05pm On Nov 01, 2008|
u guyz b boomz,
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by darkage(m): 5:18pm On Nov 01, 2008|
i think you should find something better to say than wasting your time.
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by sesman(m): 9:41pm On Nov 01, 2008|
haba, this long o , the bit i read do actually makes sense, but abeg poster keep it short next time,
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by 190: 10:40pm On Nov 01, 2008|
dark age by the order given 2 me by the fed rep of Nland i banish u and ur family off this land, Nonsense
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by uwalakasta: 5:10am On Nov 03, 2008|
Abbeg next time compress the lecture
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by naijababe2(f): 8:15am On Nov 03, 2008|
i'm sori 4 una.
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by Nobody: 9:16am On Nov 03, 2008|
All this just to seduce a woman?? And I tot we were the weaker sex
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by nana(f): 9:33am On Nov 03, 2008|
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by sammie256: 4:13pm On Jan 12, 2010|
All this just to seduce a woman?? And I tot we were the weaker sex
u girls are weak but highly rarified, so we need this trend
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by Babylove1(f): 4:21pm On Jan 12, 2010|
nice one, but not enough to get me seduced
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by beingme(f): 5:20pm On Jan 12, 2010|
i no see anything
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by waleski(m): 6:09am On Jan 13, 2010|
@poster u for don write book na wen no be say na exam i wan write i go dey read this kind long write up in fact dis reminds me of the art of seduction by robert green na copy nd paste trully trully
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by NET1(m): 8:21pm On Jun 11, 2010|
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by ITgurlie(f): 10:37pm On Jun 11, 2010|
@ poster never knew you have to study to seduce a woman what degree would you call that
and me too
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by Exponental(m): 1:10pm On Jun 12, 2010|
3. Do the opposite of what other guys do.[color=#000099][/color]
there are no real principles to approachin girls. one mans food is another mans poison.
we av ladies that prefer to date older men, whether married or not, while some will speak to their legs once they see this status.
my guy, does this implies that u av gotten almost all girls. how many av u seduced?
if u irritate a lady or she naturally dislikes u, NOTHING can be done!
but I love ur no 3 rule, STAND OUT[i][/i]
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by EFCC1(m): 2:19pm On Jun 12, 2010|
that's the kokomycin to woman emotion, so till it and kip it
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by gowaga68: 3:56pm On Jun 12, 2010|
:-x :-x :-x :-x :-x :-x :-x
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by Sike(m): 5:28pm On Jul 24, 2011|
Long but Conc. U tried
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by george31(m): 6:14pm On Jul 24, 2011|
kudos @poster, but too long
This works for 30% of ladies, while money makes it easier for the rest 70%
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by ds700(m): 11:30pm On Jul 24, 2011|
I like this particular hint.
Do the opposite of what other guys do. If the girl is dammmmnnnn toooo gorgeous, ignore her(though it’s quite difficult,bt if you are sure you want to get her-idnore her). After hearing about your tight reputation, she will wonder why you are not attracted to her. If other guys ignore her, shower her with the attention she has been craving. It will appear to her that you are smitten.
|Re: How To Seduce Any Woman Of Your Choice by ds700(m): 11:32pm On Jul 24, 2011|
What about " How To Seduce Any Man Of Your Choice "
If it takes all these processes to seduce "the weaker sex" I wonder what it will take to seduce a VERY STRONG SEX
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