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Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by rafeelly(m): 8:30am On Sep 19, 2014
have been drawn into some heated argument with my female comrade over this dispute. why most believe its obligatory u ask her out even after telling her how u feel and she also admitting to d feeling been mutual, she still expects u to ask her out before she acknowledge she is your gf. this brings me to the question; is "asking u out"or"proposing" as a lady a yardstick before u acknowledge u are dating and guys av u dated a girl without asking her out
Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by simplemach(m): 9:25am On Sep 19, 2014
As dem don ask me now, who i go come ask...?

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Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by rafeelly(m): 9:51am On Sep 19, 2014
simplemach: As dem don ask me now, who i go come ask...?
grin me sef dey wait romance section prof to answer.. tallesty1, rozzay, naijaboiy ur attention is needed
Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by Nobody: 9:56am On Sep 19, 2014
Hmmmm it depends dear, sometymes u guys start out as friends b4 u know it u start doing everything lovers do nd everyone starts calling u both a couple, while @ oda times wen u don't rily know each oda dat well a request for her to be ur gf is necessary, cos u might just find out dat she s taking u for a friend nd will introduce anoda as her bf, to me it all depends on d situation.

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Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by tosyne2much(m): 9:56am On Sep 19, 2014
In African countries 'YES' otherwise 'NO'

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Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by Ivanspring(f): 10:06am On Sep 19, 2014
Asking her out makes it official. It is an unwritten agreement between the two of you. It also gives the girl the boldness and confidence to introduce you as her bf.

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Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by naijaboiy: 10:10am On Sep 19, 2014
Some girls just want it to be official so that whatever they do,,it will be legal in their own eyes...

There are many girls that won't have sex with you,,unless you ask them out...no matter how close you people have become... undecided

They just want that official thingy....

For me it's not necessary,,but what can a man do than to go with the flow tongue

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Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:17am On Sep 19, 2014
Don't mind this modern girls even if you ask em out again they will still be proving some attitude whereas deep down they into you...#note all girls you better let your feelings our before you lose your future husband
Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:22am On Sep 19, 2014
But do u also knw in most situation d girl may av feeling while d guy will b tinkin d babe is of high class whc he cnt manage d relationshp whereas d girl neva mind abt it....in dis process d girl may lose d guy to andr babe
Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by rafeelly(m): 11:18am On Sep 19, 2014
Ivanspring: Asking her out makes it official. It is an unwritten agreement between the two of you. It also gives the girl the boldness and confidence to introduce you as her bf.
so in essence if he tells u how much he luvs u and u re very sanguine that he ain't lying abt his feeling but he hasn't ask u out and introduces u as his gf to the public u wud rebuff him
Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by rafeelly(m): 11:20am On Sep 19, 2014
naijaboiy: Some girls just want it to be official so that whatever they do,,it will be legal in their own eyes...

There are many girls that won't have sex with you,,unless you ask them out...no matter how close you people have become... undecided

They just want that official thingy....

For me it's not necessary,,but what can a man do than to go with the flow tongue
things men do just to go with the flow.. I concur sire grin
naijaboiy: Some girls just want it to be official so that whatever they do,,it will be legal in their own eyes...

There are many girls that won't have sex with you,,unless you ask them out...no matter how close you people have become... undecided

They just want that official thingy....

For me it's not necessary,,but what can a man do than to go with the flow tongue
things men do just to go with the flow.. I concur sire grin
Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by rafeelly(m): 11:22am On Sep 19, 2014
rozzay: Hmmmm it depends dear, sometymes u guys start out as friends b4 u know it u start doing everything lovers do nd everyone starts calling u both a couple, while @ oda times wen u don't rily know each oda dat well a request for her to be ur gf is necessary, cos u might just find out dat she s taking u for a friend nd will introduce anoda as her bf, to me it all depends on d situation.
exactly my point it ain't a must depending on d situation
Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by naijaboiy: 11:32am On Sep 19, 2014
rafeelly: things men do just to go with the flow.. I concur sire gringrin
That's just it man... cool

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Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by Ivanspring(f): 11:44am On Sep 19, 2014
rafeelly: so in essence if he tells u how much he luvs u and u re very sanguine that he ain't lying abt his feeling but he hasn't ask u out and introduces u as his gf to the public u wud rebuff him

Was that what you understood from my post? Telling me you love me doesn't mean you want me to be your girl...it could be brotherly love. To ask a lady out means, asking her to be your gf. So, yes. A guy must ask a lady out or vice versa as it is the case these days.
Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by izaray(f): 12:51pm On Sep 19, 2014
@Ivanspring, i agree with u, a man must ask a lady out b/4 anything order tin happen, there are no two ways about it. Men must submit their application for our approvals, weda dey like it or not!
Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by rafeelly(m): 1:04pm On Sep 19, 2014
izaray: @Ivanspring, i agree with u, a man must ask a lady out b/4 anything order tin happen, there are no two ways about it. Men must submit their application for our approvals, weda dey like it or not!
u got me cracked up @ weda we like it or not grin

in other news d girl on ur dp in endowed :p
Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by Ivanspring(f): 1:48pm On Sep 19, 2014
izaray: @Ivanspring, i agree with u, a man must ask a lady out b/4 anything order tin happen, there are no two ways about it. Men must submit their application for our approvals, weda dey like it or not!

grin Yes ooo... very necessary.
Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by izaray(f): 2:04pm On Sep 19, 2014
rafeelly: u got me cracked up @ weda we like it or not grin

in other news d girl on ur dp in endowed :p
Lolz, u can say dat again, but hope u are not been pissed up by my comment...it has already be signed and stamped already!
Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by rafeelly(m): 2:25pm On Sep 19, 2014
izaray: Lolz, u can say dat again, but hope u are not been pissed up by my comment...it has already be signed and stamped already!
lolz stamped and sealed... am not pissed off by comment... if I cud fall in luv u then asking u out Na small case... just saying it must not be necessary


talking about approval waiting for ur follow back grin
Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by rafeelly(m): 2:25pm On Sep 19, 2014
izaray: Lolz, u can say dat again, but hope u are not been pissed up by my comment...it has already be signed and stamped already!
lolz stamped and sealed... am not pissed off by comment... if I cud fall in luv with u then asking u out Na small case... just saying it must not be a necessity


talking about approval still waiting for ur follow back grin
Re: Ladies: Must He Ask U Out Before U Acknowledge He Is Your Boyfriend? by Tallesty1(m): 6:12pm On Sep 19, 2014
rafeelly: grin me sef dey wait romance section prof to answer.. tallesty1, rozzay, naijaboiy ur attention is needed
profshockedshockedshocked

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