Pavore9: I still insists on living right and your loved ones will remember you with fond memory.

beeevan:




Isn't it obvious?

beeevan:






Yes( if I go hurting people) , just as yours will catch up with you, stop cheating on your wife so your heart won't be beating fast wherever dead cheats are mentioned. Zip up your trousers, its not hard, humans shouldn't hump around like animals. It's obvious I struck a raw nerve with my post, repent so no one will wish you are dead, its that simple.

iykedare:


i can imagine the kind of things u are going through in the hands of your husband. We go sense it through your comments here. Bloody liabilty.

cococandy: Iykedare and beeevan
Since time immemorial

beeevan:



He can't have enough of my exfoliating bee juice, dude is so obsessed with me .

beeevan:



He can't have enough of my exfoliating bee juice, dude is so obsessed with me .

iykedare:

lol. dont take these things too hard. Your comments here are always filled with so much venom. Marriage must really be tough for u. Whenever the women here say beautiful things about marriage,no one sees you around. But when u sees silly stuffs being written about naija men,you will suddenly come alive. If you ve ever been with a good man,you wont be this bitter about men. your husband,your choice,your pain. Deal with it.

beeevan:

iykedare:

lol. dont take these things too hard. Your comments here are always filled with so much venom. Marriage must really be tough for u. Whenever the women here say beautif
ul things about marriage,no one sees you around. But when u sees silly stuffs being written about naija men,you will suddenly come alive. If you ve ever been with a good man,you wont be this bitter about men. your husband,your choice,your pain. Deal with it.

uglyogre:
we have sisters, cousins, daughters, aunties and neighbours who are suffering in the hands of cheating men, one does not necessarily have to be married. just look around you. they are everywhere

thandii1:

This is so hilarious..OMG

It can make someone cry..

uglyogre:
we have sisters, cousins, daughters, aunties and neighbors who are suffering in the hands of cheating men, one does not necessarily have to be married. just look around you. they are everywhere

iykedare:

you don't get me. Have you seen that liability, beeevan, make any positive comment about naija men. Its simply means that she is a lesbo or the man in her life is a lowlife. Simple!!!

beeevan:



For each time you mention my name your life span decreases by 10%, keep reading you mother 's story and attributing it to your NL crush .

iykedare:

you don't get me. Have you seen that liability, beeevan, make any positive comment about naija men. Its simply means that she is a lesbo or the man in her life is a lowlife. Simple!!!

Chillisauce:

you and beeevan, leave the woman alone, she is married. Gadammit!

dont you have small small 200naira chikalas to pursue. ah ah.
This your stalking style, na so e dey take start, before you know na, you go send pm.

aisha2: Well from what I have noticed around me most people prefer losing a spouse to leaving a marriage.

There is an almost vindictive edge to it the s a me way some will wait for their mother in laws to die before enjoying their marriages

We like to keep up appearances so even though we ate unhappy we swallow it and pray that death or something evil should bring a person down to their knees, sadly religion has been diluted to support this act.

To some who loose cheating spouses feel relief because it seems they can now have a life without judgement and also remarry if they choose too without the fear and threat that they will go to hell should they leave an unhappy marriage and remarry

blueberryp: Na wa for una o, r u guys trying to say any man that dies was killed by the wife just because she isn't wearing black, starving and carrying a gloomy face? This is the 21st century for crying out loud, people die, we have to move on. People grieve differently pls. Will mourning and torturing urself bring the dead person back, or will it take him to heaven?

beeevan: What is there to mourn about a cheating husband? The only reason I won't kill him myself is because I might be caught and I can't risk a jail term for some douche bag or worst still, my conscience might not contain it. There isn't much difference between a murderer and a cheating spouse. A cheating spouse is a potential killer as far as am concerned. If you are tired of a relationship, walk out than cheat or better still let your partner know about it and walk out. if you are caught, you can't control what happens afterwards .


People can say what they like about your friend, she won't be looking so ravishing if she killed the cheat, she would have made an effort at pretense if she was the killer. Death has delivered many troubled women, death is nature, it happens to us all, you can't beat up a woman for not somersaulting for a dead spouse that would have re married instanta if tables where turned.


So because she is not hitting her head on the wall for a man that left no good memory of what they shared, she killed him? people sef.

aisha2: The case presented here is not a woman who killed her husband but one or some who may not really mourn or feel the loss of their husbands because they didn't have a good marriage let us not loose track of that in all the excitement.
Murder is a crime but not mourning is not a crime. It is morally frowned at but no one can be charged for that. Even the examples I gave which seem to make you upset did not say any of the wives murdered them, the said they didn't feel the loss really because they didn't feel the love that should exist between spouses.

Just want to be clear before one is accused tomorrow if justifying murdering spouses. The topic is not about women who kill their husbands but about women who don't mourn their husbands who die from natural. Causes.hmm

beeevan:




Can killing ever be justified, hell no, can cheating be justified, still no, a lot of stupid things people do cannot be justified . If my brother ends up getting killed because he can't keep it in, that's his destiny. I won't congratulate who killed him, i won't haunt her either. I won't advise anyone to kill anybody, but if somebody ends up killing someone, well..very unfortunate.



Cheaters deserves whatever gets thrown at them, i mean how hard is it to keep ones clothes on?

blueberryp: no I didn't read the intro at all u did. A cheating husband dies, his wife who probably spent all nights of their marriage crying because of his cheating way doesn't deem him worth mourning for, what wrong did she do. This goes to show how hypocritical some Nigerians are, so unless she mourns it means something is suspicious, am surprised nobody has come up with the hypothesis that she myt actually have another lover somewhr.
Do you know what it means to mourn somebody, so u expect me to mourn somebody like Idi Amin of Uganda or even Patrick Sawyer because he is dead? Well to me she has already mourned her husband while he was alive(all those nights she spent crying and probably trying to play good wife so that he will stop cheating,probably those days at the hospital because he infected her with some STI's, carrying a gloomy face around and sadness in her heart) there is no point pretend-mourning. We don't need to place her under our judgement microscope because she didn't mourn somebody worth mourning. I know people who died who I didn't mourn while there are others I still mourn till today 10yrs after because of how they impacted my life while they were still alive.
Like someone rightly pointed out previously, let his concubines do the mourning, for her its good riddance to bad rubbish!

iykedare: aisha s first comment really got me scared. So most of you will prefer that your cheating husbands die?



Nigerian ladies.......what good thing can we say about you?/?

smokescreen4: UPDATE:I really dug up the cause of death he died from thromboembolism it occurs when they is a sudden cut of blood supply to certain parts of the brain, dat his was caused by cerebral ischemia. A young doctor related to them was more than happy to give the information to my source, he said it was same thing goldie died of.

beeevan:




Son of a gutter slut, aren't you dead yet, Idiocy doesn't kill, does it? Anyway we can book a show for later because am quite busy but yet again, am bored of you .

You are too obsessed with that animal that fathered you, so much so that you can't resist lashing out at people 's husbands, sons, brothers and what have you . The liability he calls your mum through out the duration of their marriage is haunting you, even at 40 + of age your brain is hardly developed enough to grasp its full meaning.


Iykedare seek help because you are an assault on masculinity, you are not the only one out there with a twisted childhood, its no excuse for your shame, am advising you as a... as.... scratch that .


Am done with you as long as Nairaland is concerned,am done with you because you are a damn too stale meat for me, no steam, nothing, scaler quantity ...i did rather take on someone....someone more...entertaining . Besides why have you been stalking me huh, do I look like mama? Stuff the reason up your anus, bee doesn't care .

Chillisauce:

you and beeevan, leave the woman alone, she is married. Gadammit!

dont you have small small 200naira chikalas to pursue. ah ah.
This your stalking style, na so e dey take start, before you know na, you go send pm.