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Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by GreyBlood: 1:35am On Sep 22, 2014 |
Do u feel lonely? Do u feel neglected? Nobody cares much about you or understands you? Your friends are far apart and are better off than you are? Girls don't seem to be interested in you? Are you having little or no money? Did you lose a loved one? These are the likely situations that brew the lacklustre feelings we do experience. Dear, you are not alone, most people do experience such when one of the above situations presents itself and the solution lies on how we manage it. This may also be as a result of your transition from "teenagehood" into adulthood. My opinion, don't take it hard on yourself; build your confidence. You might consider going out more, try making new friends especially funny ones that can make you laugh. You might try joining some groups, sports group(like playing football etc), religious group in ur church or mosque, practise the habit of arms giving (it gives great joy to help others) and most importantly don't ever stay idle or lonely. Remain Blessed. |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by ERCROSS(m): 1:40am On Sep 22, 2014 |
ammyluv2002: Slowly depression sets in....you have to fight back, don't let the devil to win! Try as much as possible to be in the presence of God, He can help you find your life meaningful. Try and hang out with 'good' friends, those that have your interest at heart and genuinely wish you well.Sistet lee Must u drag the devil into this. Na jejeh the guy sidown wey u dey lie against him soo... |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by GreyBlood: 1:46am On Sep 22, 2014 |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by tuwayz(m): 8:27am On Sep 22, 2014 |
Pdizzle:I don't even know who to talk to that will understand how I feel, its either I don't trust you or I don't want to bother you with my problems |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by lawrenceunaa: 11:09am On Sep 22, 2014 |
Chukkasy: if all these things you listed don't interest you, then you're doomed.......... my advice is that you drink poison or locate the nearest transformersee ya mouth y u no go illustrate hw to hug transformef for am |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by Nobody: 11:11am On Sep 22, 2014 |
herald9: Op... It's definitely depression … Being depressed can make you feel helpless.nice one dearie 1 Like |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by JustCare: 2:12pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
hungryboy: I feel that way too bro,from making money, having a new girlfriend, my team winning a tough match, getting myself a new phone, this were things that made me happy once, ever since i came to the realisation that i could sleep one day and fail to wake up the next day, that death doesn't give a damn whether u are a teenager, that one day i'll no longer be able to make some silly comments here cos am no more, life was no fun to me no longer, in life happiness is temporary, sadness is permanentsadness can't be permanent dear. i can see deep into your spirit...questions are streaming in which are left unanswered. if you can be able to grasp the knowledge of creation aright then all these would be a bygone. Do you have interest in reading books in this regard? |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by Pdizzle(m): 2:42pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
tuwayz: I don't even know who to talk to that will understand how I feel, its either I don't trust you or I don't want to bother you with my problems Talk to your siblings or parents, if there is no one try to get contact of a psychiatrist, that will be better. Also Google books on how to treat depression , you'll be fine, just open up |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by ideee03(f): 2:49pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
That's harsh...please mind the kind of advise you give someone feeling depressed. This is an online forum, u do not know what the next person is on the verge of doing. @ OP be cheerful,a merry heart doeth great wonders. Pick up interest in something good and try not to be alone most times. Chukkasy: if all these things you listed don't interest you, then you're doomed.......... my advice is that you drink poison or locate the nearest transformer |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by tuwayz(m): 2:52pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Pdizzle:ok thank you very much |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by ideee03(f): 2:53pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
smh, the last picture is crazy. Charles4075: Op, choose any of these. |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by iluvweed(m): 10:04am On Sep 23, 2014 |
shockwave91: i think you can try some weed. Wonder what iluvweed would say about this. You guessed it...OP should just start smoking some good weed.... ...Trust me, life will start looking good from all angles! Thank me later.... |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by Chukkasy(m): 10:13am On Sep 23, 2014 |
AfricanApple: Haba, dat was cruel. d boy is in dire need of good advice, see what u wrotenothing interests the guy again na |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by jennylove7575(f): 10:23am On Sep 23, 2014 |
At 19 you feel that way, hmmm...you are a very unhappy person. I do not think you are getting enough love at home. Your mum is your problem. I don't think you have a good relationship with your mum. Because if u do, she would have been the first to notice and act swiftly to help you out of this your emotional troubled period...do you have a girlfriend? |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by Nobody: 11:01am On Sep 23, 2014 |
bossanmayor: Why do I find nothing in my life interesting?the only reason am reply'n is cos,I culd feel ur post like its real...post can be felt and u need help,honestly...if u donot get the help nw,wen u get to cross 22,u gona be in a mess difficult to pull out from...only u and ursef know wat ur issues are,am vri sure u avnt given us d full details of why u feel dis way...only u can get ursef out of dis issue cos nobody,nt even a Nigerian Psychiatrist can help u until u get true to ursef bro...forget abt all d fools* on ere tryn to make u feel even worse-off...u far better dan some of dem who only come ere to get solace from insultn others...U av to Make new friends,let d old 1ce who donot av ur time be...Go after Female pals(good),most times u can trust them and their advice in a way pushes up ur hopes and esteem...U still a Very young man and u av even tasted d sweet part of life,so fyt watever is holdn u baq...Get up,and make d best part of ur life worth it so smtime in d future,u can laugh at d devil for been so foolish coming to test U... Its Well,Brother... this will surely pass u by |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by Missonas(f): 11:21am On Sep 23, 2014 |
Coming out alone is a bold step.The question is are you happy?Interests vary and can change that's not unusual.If you feel within yourself that you need help then engage yourself in social and community stuffs, make friends just put yourself out there.Also do the things that you love sides the ones you've listed, travel, change your environment.Do not spend time alone often.There are lots of things to explore at just 19.Yes, you are becoming a man do not get matured before you mature so that mid life crisis won't set in later.Even depression is easier cured when you start treatment early. All the best! |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by Nobody: 4:41pm On Sep 23, 2014 |
iluvweed: yes boss....i'm testament to dat |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by bossanmayor(m): 3:58pm On Sep 26, 2014 |
guys I really feel ,Ok now tanks,appreciate |
Re: Why Do I Find Nothing In My Life Interesting? by napaj: 6:17pm On Sep 26, 2014 |
Charles4075: Op, choose any of these.YOU ARE JUST SOOOO NAUGHTY! |
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