I co-habit with my g.f at my PH home. Recently,I came down to Lagos for two weeks training programme but my training programme has turned a nightmare because of a development at my home in PH.

Following my arrival @ Lagos, my gf called to inform that her friend bf would be staying in our place pending when her friend is back from a trip. I took the request in good faith but I could not contain it any longer after four days of this unknown guy in my place alone with my gf.

Neighbours around my house has raised an eyebrow over ds development by styylishly informing me vide phone that one guy is parading my apartment.

Though my gf carried me along frm d begining, I am now feeling so much uncomfortable with the stay of this guy. To make matter worse, the guy gf who is on a trip and himself did not dim it fit to give me a call informing me of ds situation and I'm beginning to smell rat.

Pls ur candid advise as I don't want to step on toes.

lekanjohn: I co-habit with my g.f at my PH home. Recently,I came down to Lagos for two weeks training programme but my training programme has turned a nightmare because of a development at my home in PH.

Following my arrival @ Lagos, my gf called to inform that her friend bf would be staying in our place pending when her friend is back from a trip. I took the request in good faith but I could not contain it any longer after four days of this unknown guy in my place alone with my gf.

Neighbours around my house has raised an eyebrow over ds development by styylishly informing me vide phone that one guy is parading my apartment.

Though my gf carried me along frm d begining, I am now feeling so much uncomfortable with the stay of this guy. To make matter worse, the guy gf who is on a trip and himself did not dim it fit to give me a call informing me of ds situation and I'm beginning to smell rat.

Pls ur candid advise as I don't want to step on toes.

Its better u get the guy out or it gets worse.

U guys should be real for ones
If u want to joke u joke
Ok just shot her on sight if u see her

My brother you've been a good dude, trust me men like you will make the world a better place.
You allow a dude stay in ur house with a GF, a guy u knw nutin about, wat were u thinking sire..
My Advice, she's still a GF, focus on ur training, failure is not an option and tis not worth thinking about it and thus affect ur training.
#LET IT GO *in Modenine's Voice*

If you are not comfortable with it, talk to your girl about getting him out.
Communication is key. Who knows? She might have been waiting for you to say something.

You allowed a guy to stay with your gf in your apartment and the guy couldn't even call you to appreciate? I like the freedom you give your woman but remember that too much freedom has its consequences. The cold hearted guys you see today are those who trusted too much.

its very fishy bro..intact I smell fish all over his presence there.

You made a wrong decision but please focus on your training.

Simply call the guy and ask him out. 4 days and your girl is not even complaining? Perhaps she's enjoying the whole stuff

Your GF called you to INFORM you, you just have to trust her, what if she deosnt tell you nko? So guy don't be too worried... At least Trust your gf Lol!!!

Omo,are you a learner? dey there another man dey chop free food for your hauz

If you don't feel comfortable with the arrangement tell your GF you don't want the guy in the house anymore and tell her why just because you agreed to it before does not mean you can't change your mind.

what in the world were you thinking.. ?so the guy has no freinds or his own key to his apartment?
so where is the guy sleeping now? same bed with your gf? whosh! thats hard man..ok, well focus on your training and when you get back, ask for details. or has she complained of him acting funny? im sure you trust her sha...so hold on to it.

Y didnt he call his Gf b4 cumin? Wr waz he planing on staying wen he waz cumin to see his gf?

Finish ur trainin....
Dnt tell ur gf wen u will return.....
Den catch dem in d act.....

Ph gals!! Dude, she merely informed you some-one else has taken over you in your absence! Do you know your gf's friend in question?? Just finish your training & return without informing her., that's if you really want to know the truth.

Pesin wey u no knw dey live 4 ur haus nd evn dey chop ur fud . .It's your house,u rented it/bought it with your hard earned money,if u tell him to leave your house,ure nt acting too extreme,it's justifiable