Sometimes I think perhaps something is wrong with me.

I have never really been the real affectionate/emotional type in relationships. I am in a relationship currently but to be honest if I never get married I would not really care.

I also feel like if a man leaves me then so be it or if he cheats then whatever. Am not saying that I will still stay with him but I will not kill myself over it. Romantic stuff too bores me a lot.


I have not suffered a heartbreak before so I don't understand why I am like this.

Yes you are very normal dear. Just that you've not gotten to find your rhythm. Some call it soulmate.

You're normal o.. Even me, I'm almost like that; i no send all these love love thing!

Mumsy come see ur daughter's twin. Lol

You havn't met me that why... And finally when i said i wanna brakeup, you would be like ''baby am sorry'' it won't happen again. Just pm me.

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@OP

You'd be surprised at how actually very Normal your are in the midst of other people.. I think it's perfectly normal to feel that way.. Every one of us feel that way at some point or given phases in our lives... So it's a normal thing.

I think you should move your idea about romance from the "I want to feel affection" to actually being the "giver of that affection". I think the more of something you give, the more of that thing you become... If you form it a habit to give affection to him now, then sooner than later it would become natural for you and you would soon begin to really appreciate the bond, time, love, warmth, thrill and companionship in a relationship.

T3Amo: Sometimes I think perhaps something is wrong with me.

I have never really been the real affectionate/emotional type in relationships. I am in a relationship currently but to be honest if I never get married I would not really care.

I also feel like if a man leaves me then so be it or if he cheats then whatever. Am not saying that I will still stay with him but I will not kill myself over it. Romantic stuff too bores me a lot.


I have not suffered a heartbreak before so I don't understand why I am like this.

same here, you are not alone, but i love it anyway

T3Amo: Sometimes I think perhaps something is wrong with me.

I have never really been the real affectionate/emotional type in relationships. I am in a relationship currently but to be honest if I never get married I would not really care.

I also feel like if a man leaves me then so be it or if he cheats then whatever. Am not saying that I will still stay with him but I will not kill myself over it. Romantic stuff too bores me a lot.


I have not suffered a heartbreak before so I don't understand why I am like this.

Likewise me, u're normal. I guess your temperament is phlegmel, that's why u're unemotional.

I guess it happens,you are still in that phase of life when your emotions aint intact,with time you'd pass over it.

T3Amo: Sometimes I think perhaps something is wrong with me.

I have never really been the real affectionate/emotional type in relationships. I am in a relationship currently but to be honest if I never get married I would not really care.

I also feel like if a man leaves me then so be it or if he cheats then whatever. Am not saying that I will still stay with him but I will not kill myself over it. Romantic stuff too bores me a lot.


I have not suffered a heartbreak before so I don't understand why I am like this.

Obviously you have not met a real Yoruba guy.

its pretty normal .


I feel the same way too most of the time.