Elantracey:


if he could be that possessive when we're not even married I wonder what he'll do when we eventually get married . what happened to mutual understanding?

Godmystrength:
I am very beautiful with or without make up. in fact more beautiful without make up. .

Elantracey:

quit the hypocrisy joor , so i can't just be happy and 'show off' just on my wedding day ?

alutacontinua:


*clears throat
so, how much will it take to snatch you from Mr. Godmystrength

Danhumprey: Seriously? Who is being an hypocrite here? Certainly not me!

Elantracey:


enough speaking in tongues

alutacontinua:


*clears throat
so, how much will it take to snatch you from Mr. Godmystrength

Godmystrength: who is interested i doing d snatching? You? Definitely not. I don't do babes... As for the cost, you will need to negotiate with the MR in question

alutacontinua:

Who is babes?
I hate it when people downgrade my manhood!
I'll upload my yekini picture oo

Godmystrength: not the yekini alone. pix in full with you holding a card reading ''I AM ALUTACONTINUA. BEHOLD MY YEKINI''

alutacontinua:

NL server ain't uploading the picture
something about it being too huge

alutacontinua:

NL server ain't uploading the picture
something about it being too huge

Lagusta:

look, with this your fake life, i doubt whether you are really a medical student in the caribbeans...

I HATE people living fake lives, why not just BE YOURSELF for once......

alutacontinua:

NL server ain't uploading the picture
something about it being too huge

Elantracey:


lol , you're sounding like you don't admire a beautiful bride on makeup.

Elantracey:


enough speaking in tongues

kendraloops: My friend's husband (a pastor) had to come to where she was dressing up to make sure she applied nothing on her face. He didn't even allow lip gloss or powder, you should have seen their wedding pix. Fate now decided to 'dash' the poor chic heavy pimples, na so she carry am do wedding o, something makeup would have covered at least for that special day.

kendraloops: My friend's husband (a pastor) had to come to where she was dressing up to make sure she applied nothing on her face. He didn't even allow lip gloss or powder, you should have seen their wedding pix. Fate now decided to 'dash' the poor chic heavy pimples, na so she carry am do wedding o, something makeup would have covered at least for that special day.

Mintayo: Smh... Some women sha, choosing vanity over a happy home.
I remembered a story a friend told me about a lady who wanted to cancel her introduction because the husband could not give her the required 12k to make her hair! The husband gave her 6k and she went gaga!
Smh again!

KMTee:

on a normal day, he was not supposed to come near where d lady is being dressed up
abi na same house dey stay prepare for wedding ni?

these are some of the things dat cause havoc in marriages because they didn't spell out what they both
want and not wen they were courting..they would start laying down rules a day to their wedding or on d d-day
and dey find it difficult to adjust to the new systems.

Godmystrength:
That is not the point...
If you as a man don't like/want a woman with make up, there are lots of single ladies out there who have never used make up in their entire life..... why go and date a woman who makes up, you refuse to discuss your concerns about make up with her and then on the wedding day, you come up with the no make up rule?? not fair on the woman. If it has been discussed and agreed, then the woman won't be caught unawares. It might look like make up ish is so trival but it is the action behind it that makes it serious....


It is just like a man going to date a deeper life lady and everything seems fine until the wedding day when you now present the make up kit and jewelry box you bought and tell her that she MUST paint her face, use earrings, fix her nails, fix her hair etc. Imagine the kind of shock it will be to the lady especially when you never gave her a hint all through the courtship period......and imagine how she will feel when some people tell her to obey for her to have a happy home.....

and what kind of happy home do you intend to make with an unhappy bride? I used to think a happy home is where both parties ARE HAPPY and not ONE party happy with turning things around to his/her favour while the OTHER party is unhappy and doing things just to have peace.....

Mintayo:
I understand what you are saying,but is that enough reason to stop the wedding? Nobody even talked about talking things out with the husband,the next thing is "we gotta stop the wedding"?