Hi everyone,
Please tell me if u think its appropriate for a guy to borrow money from his g.fwhen he hardly gives her money . I think at times a guy assumes u don't need his cash simply cause ur not asking for it. Its still very embarrassing for a lot of women to disclose that they help out financially while dating someone because of what the friends or family might think.

Why do guys even resort to this.. what happened to the man's pride. This is becoming too common for my liking in my society.
I would just like to know if u think its socially acceptable .

There is nothing wrong with it....

I wouldn't borrow money from a girl I'm really in love with.. Ive borrowed a lot from other girls and you won't believe what it amounts to but I thank god for their lives sha god bless girls dumb enough to borrow.

Money,the root of all evils!

Money,causing wahala/problems/disagreements in relationship. Smh.


Stinginess and greediness are deadly diseases!

khukhi: Hi everyone,
Please tell me if u think its appropriate for a guy to borrow money from his g.fwhen he hardly gives her money . I think at times a guy assumes u don't need his cash simply cause ur not asking for it. Its still very embarrassing for a lot of women to disclose that they help out financially while dating someone because of what the friends or family might think.

Why do guys even resort to this.. what happened to the man's pride. This is becoming too common for my liking in my society.
I would just like to know if u think its socially acceptable .

Khukhi, I'm guessing you're South African by the sound of your name. I stand to be corrected.

I'm also South African & I will never, I repeat, never give even one rand to a man. Our culture is not like that. At least not from where I'm from. It's totally unacceptable & a huge turn-off.

I'm not a gold digger, but ain't wasting my time on a broke n*igger. Sorry.

Tell him to go to mashonisa. WTH? Ewww.

it ain't bad.

thrizzle: I wouldn't borrow money from a girl I'm really in love with.. Ive borrowed a lot from other girls and you won't believe what it amounts to but I thank god for their lives sha god bless girls dumb enough to borrow.

My thoughts exactly. You've made my day. Now I know I'm not being impossible.

Thank you for ur feedback everyone. Its much appreciated.

khukhi: Hi everyone,
Please tell me if u think its appropriate for a guy to borrow money from his g.fwhen he hardly gives her money . I think at times a guy assumes u don't need his cash simply cause ur not asking for it. Its still very embarrassing for a lot of women to disclose that they help out financially while dating someone because of what the friends or family might think.

Why do guys even resort to this.. what happened to the man's pride. This is becoming too common for my liking in my society.
I would just like to know if u think its socially acceptable .

As far as u both love each other,there is nothing wrong with it,its jst dat vast majority numba of Nigerian gurlz believes its mandatory for der boi friends to kip paying der gurl friends crazy bill...

It wasn't written in the bible,in any wise or book of wisdom, neither was it written in d 1999 constitution of d federal republic of Nigeria, dat a man must pay/settle his girlfriends bills,ur bill is ur bill nt mine.

But i hope ur boi friend isn't asking u for money on regular occasion, cos if he does, dat i find offensive & inappropriate.

khukhi:

My thoughts exactly. You've made my day. Now I know I'm not being impossible.

Don't listen to wat dey ar sayin...
It drives me crazy to knw dat i hav a supportive woman in my life,if any nids arises.

But if i may ask,did ur boi friend lose his job,or does he have a project @ hand dat makes him run short of cash & him resorting to him asking for money¿

I think u shuld watch/monitor his actions towards u i.e....if he still treats u d way he does d 1st tym u both met,is he always der for u¿

As for me,der is nothin wrong getting money frm ur love,but a guy shuldn't go about it all d tym,jst once in a while or der about.

run barbie, run

LaBellaMafiaZA:


Khukhi, I'm guessing you're South African by the sound of your name. I stand to be corrected.

I'm also South African & I will never, I repeat, never give even one rand to a man. Our culture is not like that. At least not from where I'm from. It's totally unacceptable & a huge turn-off.

I'm not a gold digger, but ain't wasting my time on a broke n*igger. Sorry.

disagree with you on the issue of culture and women lending money to male friend in need.At least not from the xhosa ladies I've either stayed or worked with.Its a personal choice.

People, especially allies and close family members have hurt those who helped them out financially a lot and the reason why such decline to help.

Never lend out what you cant let go of.

LaBellaMafiaZA:


Khukhi, I'm guessing you're South African by the sound of your name. I stand to be corrected.

I'm also South African & I will never, I repeat, never give even one rand to a man. Our culture is not like that. At least not from where I'm from. It's totally unacceptable & a huge turn-off.

I'm not a gold digger, but ain't wasting my time on a broke n*igger. Sorry.

Yu js blabbed. Think,write and read b4 yu post. If well examined na ur type dey give boi her life savings.

link2ok:


Yu js blabbed. Think,write and read b4 yu post. If well examined na ur type dey give boi her life savings.

Dude, I'm not a journalist therefore I will write down my thoughts as they come. Deal with it. A man will never get a single red cent from me. He'd have to go down & break-dance on his balls before that happens.

LaBellaMafiaZA:


Dude, I'm not a journalist therefore I will write down my thoughts as they come. Deal with it. A man will never get a single red cent from me. He'd have to go down & break-dance on his balls before that happens.

As yu grow older yu wuld undstnd life beta. Hav a luvly sundai evenin

link2ok:


As yu grow older yu wuld undstnd life beta. Hav a luvly sundai evenin

I'm a grown woman so I think I have life figured out already. I know exactly what I'm comfortable & uncomfortable with when it comes to relationships. Leeching, mooching & broke @ss men are the bane of my existence. They get no understanding at all from me.

You also have a lovely evening.

khukhi:
Hi everyone,
I think at times a guy assumes u don't need his cash simply cause ur not asking for it.

Nice post.. i've been in terms with guys recieving money from girls (they are not married to) because am sure when the relationship ends the girl will definately boost about it beside when a guy recieves money from a girl she expects alot more committment.. thank God i now know the opinion of ladies on this issue.. i will never fall victim..
The extract from your post has really got me thinking here

stevoskyj:

Nice post.. i've been in terms with guys recieving money from girls (they are not married to) because am sure when the relationship ends the girl will definately boost about it beside when a guy recieves money from a girl she expects alot more committment.. thank God i now know the opinion of ladies on this issue.. i will never fall victim..
The extract from your post has really got me thinking here

Its not good at all. Despite everyone's advice my good heart allowed me to give him the money which he hasn't paid back.

Just last weekend he wanted more money.

Now I've done the run baby run I was initially advised to do.
Maybe I can be a sugar mama when I'm 50 ...I'm just too young for this kind of stress. I have my family to worry about. Can't do with another responsibility.

khukhi:
Hi everyone,
Please tell me if u think its appropriate for a guy to borrow money from his g.fwhen he hardly gives her money . I think at times a guy assumes u don't need his cash simply cause ur not asking for it. Its still very embarrassing for a lot of women to disclose that they help out financially while dating someone because of what the friends or family might think.

Why do guys even resort to this.. what happened to the man's pride. This is becoming too common for my liking in my society.
I would just like to know if u think its socially acceptable .

Some Women today make more money than men
Women are getting better education
Good Businesses

The only woman i will eva borrow money from is the girl i wil get married to.... My dignity i cherish so so much.....

khukhi:


Its not good at all. Despite everyone's advice my good heart allowed me to give him the money which he hasn't paid back.

Just last weekend he wanted more money.

Now I've done the run baby run I was initially advised to do.
Maybe I can be a sugar mama when I'm 50 ...I'm just too young for this kind of stress. I have my family to worry about. Can't do with another responsibility.

run baby run.. lolzz

all izz well dear

Cutehector4u:
The only woman i will eva borrow money from is the girl i wil get married to.... My dignity i cherish so so much.....

I beg dignity is very important. Women are working 2x as hard to be as good as they're male counterparts but u need to be on top of ur game as a guy.

khukhi:



I beg dignity is very important. Women are working 2x as hard to be as good as they're male counterparts but u need to be on top of ur game as a guy.

its like u ddnt get wad am sayn... Its practically ok for a wife to support her husband...thats wad dey were created for...isnt it?

Cutehector4u:
its like u ddnt get wad am sayn... Its practically ok for a wife to support her husband...thats wad dey were created for...isnt it?

Wife yes definitely.