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| How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by korel9: 8:55am On Oct 04, 2014 |
We all know that at least 70% of men cheat on their wife at one point or the other in most marriages but let's see it from the other perspective this time around. A wife who cheats is worse than a man who brings in a second wife (personal opinion). But no matter what, most men who cheat still loves and cherishes their wife in one way or the other. When a woman cheats it's always known to be more dangerous and damaging to the family than when looked from the man's angle. This is because to some extent, a man who cheats still remembers his wife at home and still leaves the better part of his heart for his wife till he returns home. This isn't the case with when a woman cheats. For when she does, she sinks the better part of her heart into the extr-marital affair(s) till it drowns her completely. We all know the women folk forgive easily and repeatedly than when compared to the male folks. So for a man who truly loves his wife and catches her cheating on him, how does he handle such after discovering how deep his wife has sunk into it and knowing how much he loves her? |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by korel9: 10:16am On Oct 04, 2014 |
Seems like it's a waka pass thing. Are u all single or u just don't know what to say? |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by Nobody: 12:24am On Oct 05, 2014 |
The answer to this question is very far from here. Part of me is trying to imagine it and how to handle it, while the other part is trying so hard not to imagine it because it can never happen.  |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by Kanwulia: 1:17am On Oct 05, 2014 |
Errrrrrrm? I am an EXCEPTION o! My heart remains with me ALWAYS!  4 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by Nobody: 2:21am On Oct 05, 2014 |
You need to find out why she cheated on you in the first place, women do not just wake up and decide to cheat, when you get the reason then you know where to start from in solving the problem, it could be the man does not value her, she may not be getting conjugal satisfaction, the man prefers hanging out with the boys to spending quality time with her etc too numerous to mention. 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by korel9: 8:10am On Oct 05, 2014 |
urhoboman: We all pray it doesn't o bros. Btw, in the event it does fa?  |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by SAMBARRY: 8:15am On Oct 05, 2014 |
Is this news.afterall its not headline news when men cheat so why should this make news. abeg next 5 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by korel9: 8:16am On Oct 05, 2014 |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by korel9: 8:18am On Oct 05, 2014 |
imas: Is there ever any moral justification for cheating on both sides?  3 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by korel9: 8:19am On Oct 05, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: Just pray it never happens to you, only then can u talk in such manner. Wait, you an M or F? |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by SAMBARRY: 8:21am On Oct 05, 2014 |
korel9:yimu |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by korel9: 8:23am On Oct 05, 2014 |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by SAMBARRY: 8:29am On Oct 05, 2014 |
korel9:before nko.eyin storytellers today is Sunday. No time for stories that touch |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by adet991(f): 9:39am On Oct 05, 2014 |
Like a poster above me said,it shldn't be news because men will say most of them do it.So I see no reason why it should hurt a man,they shld be able to bear it as well 7 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by Nobody: 1:31pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
I wouldn't know my reaction until one is in the situation. Situation + Circumstances + Perspective = Reaction. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by Nobody: 1:44pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
korel9:I know there is no moral justification, just that sometimes people can be pushed into doing something they ordinarily would not do. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by parismarc: 1:55pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Op, since 70% of men cheat, this also implies that 70% of women cheat too since men don't cheat with men. 6 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by Kirinwa: 2:39pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
You simply tell her to invite her partner home so that you people can form a big happy family. You then divise days for two of you to be taking turns at her. Its called polyandry. 4 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by jmoore(m): 2:43pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Divorce!! I got zero tolerance for cheating. |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by Kanwulia: 8:38pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
korel9: Meaning. . . . .WOMAN SHALT NOT LIVE BY MAN ALONE!!! AmeMMMMMMM!!!  If you like cheat on me o If you like no cheat on me o In the final analyZZZZZM. . . . NA ONLY ME WAKA COME NA ONLY ME GO WAKA GO Ko bu ru Ko ba je I don really kia Life is always full of choices. No one can make me HAPPY or UNHAPPY but myself. The BUCK stops here! No passing!!! *H-enjoying my RedLobster Sunday Dinner. . . . ALL BY MYSELF! Then off to da jazzzz club. . . . ALL BY MYSELF* 4 Likes
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| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by Kanwulia: 9:05pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Ahem! What was the thread about again?  I don chop finish. . . . I can see cLIAAALY na! *waiting impatiently for my "DESERT"!* 2 Likes
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| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by tintingz(m): 9:05pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Divorce and move on. |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by ernie4life(m): 10:14pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
most guys are screaming divorce! divorce! in reality it's not that easy, am not married but back in school I had this girl I was so much in love with, she was cheating on me, my guys told me I loved her so much, I couldn't stand to breakup with her, I kept begging her to change but just like most ladies do they never listen. finally I broke up with her, turned all the love I had for her to haterad with passion( up till now). now reading this post and thinking what if my future wife tries it? Unimaginable, I think I should pray about it, what most women don't understand is there a some men who when the say " I love u" the really mean it and when the say "forever" the mean till there heart stops beating. I pray I never find my self in such a situation. because up till now I don't know what my reaction will be 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by armyofone(m): 1:17am On Oct 06, 2014 |
I was there today, ate shrimps too  and washed it down with rummy pina colada. I no see clearly when the bill came  Kanwulia: |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by Nobody: 2:39am On Oct 06, 2014 |
If you're the unfaithful type,then you better forgive her her and continue to love up....but if you have never cheated on her,and she cheated on you  na strong thin be dat o 4 Likes |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by Nobody: 3:48am On Oct 06, 2014 |
Just don't know how my reaction would be,I pray it doesn't happen. I go kill person,who? I don't know. |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by Tallesty1(m): 6:08am On Oct 06, 2014 |
imas:That was during the time of our grand mothers. Any girl that sleeps with her bf is already cheating on her husband She was sealed for a reason. And once the seal is broken ............You know the rest. |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by Tallesty1(m): 6:17am On Oct 06, 2014 |
This question is not easy to answer. Some cultures makes it impossible to stand up and give a simple and direct answer In Enugu Ezike(Somewhere in Nsukka). If you know that your wife is cheating on you and you eat her food, you will die. In Kogi state. If your wife cheat on you, she will fall sick which may lead to her death. If you treat her or say sorry to her, you will die. In some part of Idoma, if your wife is cheating on you and you still eat her food, sleep with her, take care of her as your wife, you will die. So it depends on where it happened. 4 me, she will be forgiven but will cease to be my wife. Even if Virgin Mary brings her back to me. |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by korel9: 6:21am On Oct 06, 2014 |
ernie4life: Thank God someone finally understands what I really mean. |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by mesoade(m): 6:23am On Oct 06, 2014 |
imas:what are you saying? Are women satisfiable? |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by korel9: 9:10am On Oct 06, 2014 |
parismarc: The 70% men I was referring to is actually the married ones and I'm sure they rarely chose the married women as their cheating partner. |
| Re: How Do You Handle A Wife That You Love So Much But Still Cheated On You? by freakcin: 9:10am On Oct 06, 2014 |
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