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Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by Macelliot(m): 8:58pm On Oct 04, 2014
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Make a list of habits you want to break and pair them with habits you want to form.
When it comes to breaking bad habits, united they stand and divided they fall. You need to be able to fill in the void left from a habit or else you'll feel some emptiness in your heart. List all of your bad habits on paper and pair them with habits you want to form. If you are religious, Try to form an habit on meditating on some religious books and beliefs.


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Separate masturbation and pornography from each other.
Cut a period of two months into four parts. For the first part, never do both masturbation and pornography at the same time. Have at least a 5 minute gap between the two so that your mind can learn to decouple both habits. For the second part, eliminate masturbation and be sure to limit your pornography sessions to 15 minutes for three specific days of the week (i.e. Tuesdays, Fridays, and Sundays). For the third part, eliminate pornography and limit masturbation to the same three days of the week. For the fourth part, repeat the second part. At this point, your mind will have sufficiently separated masturbation and pornography and will be prepared for you to cut out pornography forever.

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Stop pornography forever
Cut out all sources that trigger you to want to use pornography. Install a free internet filtering service (like K9 protection). And for mobile, filter your browser. This greatly reduces unwanted exposure to pornography. Remember that many of the people involved in pornography are victims of abuse, and by using pornography you are perpetuating the demand for pornography and their abuse.

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Control masturbation over a three month period
Limit yourself to mornings on three specific days of the week. At first it will be hard if you used to do masturbation many more times a week, but towards the end of the three months it will become easier. Use this time to work on improving your other aspects in life (hygiene, nutrition, exercise, mental capacity, social skills...).
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Ween yourself off of masturbation
Spend one month limiting yourself to two days of the week (Tuesdays and Fridays). This helps increase your confidence level (college is good at destroying any confidence you might have). Then spend one last month limiting yourself to masturbation only on one day of the week (Tuesdays). Finish off all of the bad habits on your list and develop all of your good habits (i.e. showering and brushing your teeth twice a day).


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Stop masturbation forever
Use your newly gained confidence to break free of this secret habit. It's a challenge to you. You must and will overcome it....

Thanks!!!
Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by Nobody: 9:00pm On Oct 04, 2014
Plaetton was actually right.

What is it with christians and mastur.bation these days?

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Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by Macelliot(m): 9:14pm On Oct 04, 2014
rationalmind:
Plaetton was actually right.

What is it with christians and mastur.bation these days?
Did the post mentioned Christians?
Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by plaetton: 9:15pm On Oct 04, 2014
rationalmind:
Plaetton was actually right.

What is it with christians and mastur.bation these days?

Mistransliteration perhaps, or even dislexia.
Where, in this case, " selfless service" is mistaken for " self- service" .

Abi?
grin
Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by finofaya: 9:21pm On Oct 04, 2014
plaetton:

Mistransliteration perhaps, or even dislexia.
Where, in this case, " selfless service" is mistaken for " self- service" .
Abi?
grin

Lol! Now I can't read "selfless service" and not think of people having at it.
Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by Nobody: 9:30pm On Oct 04, 2014
Macelliot:

Did the post mentioned Christians?

Who is talking about the post? I'm talking about you, your fellow christians, and your newly found obsession with mastur.bation

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Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by Nobody: 9:34pm On Oct 04, 2014
plaetton:


Mistransliteration perhaps, or even dislexia.
Where, in this case, " selfless service" is mistaken for " self- service" .

Abi?
grin

grin
Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by Truth24(m): 9:47pm On Oct 04, 2014
#observing
Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by braine(m): 10:22pm On Oct 04, 2014
Nice theory
Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by Dolemite(f): 10:57pm On Oct 04, 2014
It's perfectly natural to masterbate there have even been records of fetuses masterbating in their mothers wombs, nothing to be ashamed about, but as usual religion likes to complicate things. angry angry

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Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by wiegraf: 10:57pm On Oct 04, 2014
Simply castrate yourself op. Problem solved

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Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by Nobody: 7:25am On Oct 05, 2014
There's no way someone will stop self-servicing without thinking of having sex with opposite-sex except if Christianiaty is encouraging promiscuity and pre-marital sex(where STD is rampant)

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Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by chinnyonwu(m): 3:34pm On Oct 05, 2014
Dolemite:
It's perfectly natural to masterbate there have even been records of fetuses masterbating in their mothers wombs, nothing to be ashamed about, but as usual religion likes to complicate things. angry angry
sister for which record u see dis one angry
Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by plaetton: 4:24pm On Oct 05, 2014
wiegraf:
Simply castrate yourself op. Problem solved

Yeah. Afterall, Jesus said it: If your right hand causes you to sin, CUT it off.
Therefore, if your w.an.ker causes you to sin, you are obliged by scripture to CUt It Off.
cheesy cheesy
Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by GooseBaba: 4:39pm On Oct 05, 2014
plaetton:


Yeah. Afterall, Jesus said it: If your right hand causes you to sin, CUT it off.
Therefore, if your w.an.ker causes you to sin, you are obliged by scripture to CUt It Off.
cheesy cheesy

Their faith no reach that level. They would rather ask for forgiveness... grin

The rate at which this topic is rampant of NL... One would think choking the chicken is a new phenomenon

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Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by plaetton: 4:56pm On Oct 05, 2014
GooseBaba:


Their faith no reach that level. They would rather ask for forgiveness... grin

The rate at which this topic is rampant of NL... One would think choking the chicken is a new phenomenon

cheesy cheesy grin grin grin

I don't know who is going to preach to them that selfless service and self-service are not the same . grin

As typical Darwinian creatures, they have chosen the path of least resistance and least responsibility, in this case , self-service . grin grin
Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by GooseBaba: 6:02pm On Oct 05, 2014
plaetton:


cheesy cheesy grin grin grin

I don't know who is going to preach to them that selfless service and self-service are not the same . grin

As typical Darwinian creatures, they have chosen the path of least resistance and least responsibility, in this case , self-service . grin grin

They just might rebuke the devil, the day they get to the petrol station and a sign reads "self service, pay before you pump"... grin grin

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Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by Nobody: 6:35pm On Oct 05, 2014
Naked tities and a good jerking never did anyone any harm. Jesus is the master of wankers and sexual perverts.

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Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by fowowe411: 7:54pm On Oct 05, 2014
plaetton:


Yeah. Afterall, Jesus said it: If your right hand causes you to sin, CUT it off.
Therefore, if your w.an.ker causes you to sin, you are obliged by scripture to CUt It Off.
cheesy cheesy
Stop Misinterpreting the word of God I don't understand the fuss about religious war on here,if you don't believe fine but leave those who do to their "craziness"
Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by plaetton: 8:31pm On Oct 05, 2014
fowowe411:
Stop Misinterpreting the word of God I don't understand the fuss about religious war on here,if you don't believe fine but leave those who do to their "craziness"

Huh!
Sir,
Kindly point out what I have misinterpreted, and then kindly correct me.
Thank you.
Re: Religious & Non-religious: 6 Steps To Quit Indecency And self-service Forever by GooseBaba: 9:26pm On Oct 05, 2014
sonOfLucifer:
Naked tities and a good jerking never did anyone any harm. Jesus is the master of wankers and sexual perverts.

grin grin grin....i wonder what he did with his morning wood... While he was doing wilderness prayers..

Oh I know, he blessed it with his palm with a dash of olive oil..

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