*Morenike:

Same people that complains about "gold diggas" are the ones hating on independent women. Ki nan fe?

Cristalz:

Perhaps some ladies worry that if they appear independent they'll scare the guys off.

Cristalz:

Perhaps some ladies worry that if they appear independent they'll scare the guys off. Don't blame them tho.  .  .most guys see such ladies as arrogant, haughty, proud, un-submissive, bla bla.

KarmaMod:

Only happens when they date children.

I don't like people doing stuff esp anything that involves money because I'll then think I owe them

I don't liking owing people anything.

*Morenike:


Don't take money from people, don't loan, etc.

I can't take money from people unless I did sth to deserve it such as working for it or winning it. I don't want to owe anyone, esp a guy that'll later on rub it in my face

igwe 1:

Hope we re talking Young,Humble and Beautiful Miss independent

*Morenike:

No, Old, greedy, and ugly Mr. Nigerian

chika98:

This is where the confusion sets in. Men don't really know what they want jare. They want an independent woman yet they complain when they get one.

A-40:

@Cristalz
I didn't know you where so into the song like that

igwe 1:

Hope we re talking  Young,Humble and Beautiful Miss independent

Cristalz:

If you don't take the ugly independent ones, who will?

KarmaMod:

Not sure why women still accept anything sef with the way most dudes go on with "Despite all that Ive bought for her, she still hasnt done this and that for me, can you imagine blah blah"

So true!

It's like the vex money thing. . .must one depend on the guy for every little single thing?

fustina:

That song by Ne-Yo is exactly how i am, when my boyfriend(he's well to do with financially) heard it, he downloaded it for me and brought it to my house for me to watch!!I am not too rich and i am not too poor but i have a job and i am satisfied, i really don't like a lot of gifts but i have a thing for cards, don't ask me what it is, i don't know!!
My sister on the other hand loves gifts, not anyhow gift, i mean expensive ones and she always complains that she does not get enough. I on the other hand complain i get too much!!!!
[i]CONCLUSION[/i]
I discovered that if u don't ask the guys for gifts, they give u so much but if u ask, u get less!!!This is because guys love to prove that they can take care of u, its an "ego-thing". I know this is rude but when they give u gifts, whether u like it or not, pretend as if u can get that gift whenever u like, don't behave as if u have just seen heaven, but don't forget to always say "thank u" , and tell them not to buy u gifts again that u two, i repetite u two (i did not say he , i said u two)cannot afford to spend money like that!!!!

I STUDIED PSYCOLOGY!!!

iice:

Like him carrying your tinsy winsy purse

igwe 1:

I don't agree with you in that line.
If i gave u and u did not show enough appreciation.I will find it interesting to give u next time, in short will simple mark you insatiable only b/c you can afford it.
pure arrogance not even rude.

HR.hotness:

independence is not only about being able to buy yourself stuff, its also about being able to do things for yourself. . . not needing a man to change a light bulb, a fuse or a tire, being able to handle business negotiatons for yourself, being able to fight ur own battles