1- GOOD MANNERS AND GOOD CHARACTERS:

Islam is a beautiful religion, full of wisdom and harmony. If this wonderful religion is followed properly then a typical Muslim would only be a great example to follow.

Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Amr: "The Prophet never used bad language neither a 'Fahish nor a Mutafahish. He used to say 'The best amongst you are those who have the best manners and character.' (Translation of Sahih Bukhari, Virtues and Merits of the Prophet (peace be upon him) and his Companions, Volume 4, Book 56, Number 759) "

Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Amr: "The Prophet never used bad language neither a "Fahish nor a Mutafahish. He used to say "The best amongst you are those who have the best manners and character." (Translation of Sahih Bukhari, Virtues and Merits of the Prophet (pbuh) and his Companions, Volume 4, Book 56, Number 759) "

Narrated Masruq: "Abdullah bin 'Amr mentioned Allah's Apostle saying that he was neither a Fahish nor a Mutafahish.Abdullah bin 'Amr added, Allah's Apostle said, 'The best among you are those who have the best manners and character.' (Translation of Sahih Bukhari, Good Manners and Form (Al-Adab), Volume 8, Book 73, Number 56) "

2- REPEL EVIL WITH GOOD:
Allah Almighty in the Noble Quran commands us to return the evil that is done to us by others to not only with good, but with best!

Let us look at Noble Verse 13:22 "Those who patiently persevere, seeking the countenance of their Lord; establish regular prayers; spend out of (the gifts) We have bestowed for their sustenance, secretly and openly; and turn off evil with good : for such there is the final attainment of the (Eternal) Home."

Let us look at Noble Verse 23:96 " Repel evil with that which is best: We are Well-acquainted with the things they say."

Let us look at Noble Verse 41:34 "Nor can goodness and evil be equal. Repel (evil) with that is better: Then will he between whom and thee was hatred become as it were thy friend and intimate!."

Let us look at Noble Verse 28:54 "Twice will they be given their reward, for that they have persevered, that they avert evil with good , and that they spend (in charity) out of what We have given them."

Let us look at Noble Verse 42:40 "The recompense for an injury is an injury equal thereto (in degree): but if a person forgives and makes reconciliation, his reward is due from Allah: for (Allah) Loveth not those who do wrong."

Whether people speak evil of you, in your presence or behind your back, or they do evil to you in either of those ways, all is known to Allah Almighty. It is not for you to punish. Your best course is not to do evil in your turn, but to do what will best repel the evil. Two evils do not make a good.

You do not return good for evil, for there is no equality or comparison between the two. You repel or destroy evil with something which is far better, just as an antidote is better than poison. You foil hatred with love. You repel ignorance with knowledge, folly and wickedness with the friendly message of Revelation. The man who was in bondage of sin,you not only liberate from sin, but make him your greatest friend and helper in the cause of Allah Almighty!. Such is the alchemy of the Word of Allah Almighty!. Your credit for returning evil with good and paying for charity is double. Also if you forgive and return the evil with good,.then Allah Almighty will love you and reward you.

3- FURTHER GOOD MANNER TEACHINGS IN THE NOBLE QURAN:

"It is part of the Mercy of Allah that thou dost deal gently with them. Wert thou severe or harsh-hearted, they would have broken away from about thee: so pass over (their faults), and ask for (Allah's) forgiveness for them; and consult them in affairs (of moment). Then, when thou hast taken a decision, put thy trust in Allah. For Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him). (The Noble Quran, 3:159) "

"Those who spend (freely), whether in prosperity, or
in adversity; who restrain anger, and pardon (all)
men; for Allah loves those who do good. (The Noble
Quran, 3:134) "

"Hold to forgiveness; command what is right; but turn away from the ignorant. (The Noble Quran, 7:199) "

"Allah loveth not that evil should be noised a broad in public speech, except where injustice hath been done; for Allah is He Who heareth and knoweth all things. (The Noble Quran, 4:148) "

"Say to My servants that they should (only) say those things that are best: for Satan doth sow dissensions among them: for Satan is to man an avowed enemy. (The Noble Quran, 17:53) "

"Who avoid vain talk; (The Noble Quran, 23:3) "

"And when they hear vain talk, they turn away therefrom and say: 'To us our deeds, and to you yours; peace be to you: we seek not the ignorant.' (The Noble Quran, 28:55) "

4- NO VAIN TALKING OR FOUL LANGUAGE:

Muslims are commanded to stay away from vain talkers:

" When thou seest men engaged in vain discourse about Our signs, turn away from them unless they turn to a different theme. If Satan ever makes thee forget, then after recollection, sit not thou in the company of those who do wrong. (The Noble Quran, 6:68) "

"Who avoid vain talk; (The Noble Quran, 23:3) "

" And when they hear vain talk, they turn away therefrom and say: 'To us our deeds, and to you yours; peace be to you: we seek not the ignorant.' (The Noble Quran, 28:55) "

" So leave them to plunge in vain talk and play about, until they encounter that Day of theirs which they have been promised!- (The Noble Quran, 70:42) "

"(The sinners will say 'But we used to talk vanities with vain talkers;' (The Noble Quran, 74:45) "

5- Allah Almighty orders Muslims to deal kindly and justly with non-Muslims:

"Allah forbids you not, With regard to those who Fight you not for (your) Faith Nor drive you out Of your homes, From dealing kindly and justly With them: For Allah loveth Those who are just. (The Noble Quran, 60: "

Narrated Jarir bin 'Abdullah: "Allah's Apostle said, 'Allah will not be merciful to those who are not merciful to mankind.' (Translation of Sahih Bukhari, ONENESS, UNIQUENESS OF ALLAH (TAWHEED), Volume 9, Book 93, Number 473) "

The Muslim needs to always be polite, humble, patient, loving and well mannered when he/she deals with others, whether they were Muslims or non-Muslims. Allah Almighty certainly doesn't love those who are offensive and rude to others.

6- Greetings in Islam:
Allah Almighty in the Noble Quran commands us to return a greeting with a better one or at least an equal one. We must maintain the high standards in manners and always be the best examples.

Let us look at Noble Verse 4:86 "When a (courteous) greeting is offered you, meet it with a greeting still more courteous, or (at least) of equal courtesy. Allah takes careful account of all things."

7- Respecting others' properties:
Allah Almighty commands us to respect people's properties and not to be transgressors.

Let us look at Noble Verses 24:27-28 "27. O ye believe! Enter not houses other than your own, until ye have asked permission and saluted those in them: that is best for you, in order that ye may heed (what is seemly).

28. If ye find no one in the house, enter not until permission is given to you: if ye are asked to go back, go back: That makes for greater purity for yourselves: and Allah Knows well all that ye do."

8- Do not be a stuck-up!
Allah Almighty commands us not to be stuck-up. He commands us to be laid back and down to earth type of people.

Let us look at Noble Verse 17:37 "Nor walk on the earth with insolence: for thou can not rend the earth asunder, nor reach the mountains in height." "And swell not thy cheek (for pride) at men, nor walk in insolence through the earth; for God loveth not any arrogant boaster . (The Noble Quran, 31:18) "

Insolence, or arrogance, or undue elation at our powers or capacities, is the first step to many evils. Besides, it is unjustified. All our gifts are from Allah Almighty.

9- Is arguing in public allowed in Islam?
Let us look at what Allah Almighty Said in the Noble Quran: " God loveth not that evil should be noised abroad in public speech, except where injustice hath been done; for God is He who heareth and knoweth all things. (The Noble Quran, 4:148) "

So unless there is a good and just reason for having a public shouting, we as Muslims are Commanded by Allah Almighty to maintain our manners and good behavior in public.

10- How to be a "Strong Muslim" in Islam:
"Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: The strong-man is not one who wrestles well but the strong man is one who controls himself when he is in a fit of rage. (The book of Muslim, Book 32, Number 6313) "

"Abu Huraira reported: I heard Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: One is not strong because of one's wrestling skillfully. They said: Allah's Messenger, then who is strong? He said: He who controls his anger when he is in a fit of rage. (The book of Muslim, Book 32, Number 6314) "

"Anas b. Malik reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: Neither nurse mutual hatred, nor jealousy, nor enmity, and become as fellow brothers and servants of Allah. It is not lawful for a Muslim that he should keep his relations estranged with his brother beyond three days. (The book of Muslim, Book 32, Number 6205) "

"Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: Don't nurse grudge and don't bid him out for raising the price and don't nurse aversion or enmity and don't enter into a transaction when the others have entered into that transaction and be as fellow-brothers and servants of Allah. A Muslim is the brother of a Muslim. He neither oppresses him nor humiliates him nor looks down upon him.The piety is here, (and while saying so) he pointed towards his chest thrice. It is a serious evil for a Muslim that he should look down upon his brother Muslim. All things of a Muslim are inviolable for his brother in faith: his blood, his wealth and his honour. (The book of Muslim, Book 32, Number 6219) "

^That presentations represent Islam, its values and teachings. Nice one OP.

May Allah protect this deen from evil of its bad followers, and from external enemies striving ceaselessly to drag the name of Islam in mud.

nice one more power to your elbow

@op:jazakumullahu khyran.
Islam preaches having good characters even to those who dont believe.Little wonder why it is tied to our entering paradise.An hadith of the prophet tells us that those who would be in the topmost part of paradise are those who have eeman and good characters.
May Allah grant us good characters.

AlBaqir:
^That presentations represent Islam, its values and teachings. Nice one OP.

May Allah protect this deen from evil of its bad followers, and from external enemies striving ceaselessly to drag the name of Islam in mud.

Amin

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Nice writeup. I'm proud to be a muslim!

harmeenart:
@op:jazakumullahu khyran.
Islam preaches having good characters even to those who dont believe.Little wonder why it is tied to our entering paradise.An hadith of the prophet tells us that those who would be in the topmost part of paradise are those who have eeman and good characters.
May Allah grant us good characters.

Ameen

Excellent post.
I ask these questions of myself.
Have I earned the right to be called a muslim?
How many attributes of Prophet Mohammed (SAW) have I emulated?
How much do I know about him (SAW) whom Allah describes as the "perfect example"?
Am I focusing on the right things or the trivial stuff?
How do I copy this perfect example if I do not learn about him?

My heart is not light because I feel like I wasted too much time. If I emulate Prophet Mohammed (SAW), I will be doing better dawah than verbally preaching to anyone.
I will have better inner peace. I will be successful in this world and the next.

I have a lot of work to do. May Allah make it easy for me, (Amin) and all the muslims.

ayinba1:
Excellent post.
I ask these questions of myself.
Have I earned the right to be called a muslim?
How many attributes of Prophet Mohammed (SAW) have I emulated?
How much do I know about him (SAW) whom Allah describes as the "perfect example"?
Am I focusing on the right things or the trivial stuff?
How do I copy this perfect example if I do not learn about him?

My heart is not light because I feel like I wasted too much time. If I emulate Prophet Mohammed (SAW), I will be doing better dawah than verbally preaching to anyone.
I will have better inner peace. I will be successful in this world and the next.

I have a lot of work to do. May Allah make it easy for me, (Amin) and all the muslims.

Amin, May Allah (SWT) mâke it easy for us.

ayinba1:
Excellent post.
I ask these questions of myself.
Have I earned the right to be called a muslim?
How many attributes of Prophet Mohammed (SAW) have I emulated?
How much do I know about him (SAW) whom Allah describes as the "perfect example"?
Am I focusing on the right things or the trivial stuff?
How do I copy this perfect example if I do not learn about him?

My heart is not light because I feel like I wasted too much time. If I emulate Prophet Mohammed (SAW), I will be doing better dawah than verbally preaching to anyone.
I will have better inner peace. I will be successful in this world and the next.

I have a lot of work to do. May Allah make it easy for me, (Amin) and all the muslims.

Amin yaAllah

Really nice thread.

Can this be interpreted in English pls.

it all sounds very confusing

May Allah help us all in becoming a better person.. Finally on front page!

alhamdullilahi ala ni'matul ISLAM

'Abdullah ibn 'Umar narrated: "I heard Allah's Messenger say: “Three men from among those who were before you, set out together until they reached a cave at night and they entered it. A big rock rolled down the mountain and closed the mouth of the cave. They said (to each other): ‘Nothing can save us from this rock but to invoke Allah by mentionning the righteous deeds that we have done (for Allah’s sake only).” So, one of them said: ‘O Allah! I had old parents (whom I used to provide with milk) and I never provided my family (wife, children, etc.) with milk before them. One day, by chance I was delayed, and I arrived late (at night) after they had slept. I milked the sheep for them and then took the milk to them, but I found them sleeping. I did not like to offer my family the milk before them, so I waited for them and the bowl of milk was in my hand and I kept on waiting for them to get up until dawn. Then they got up and drank the milk. O Allah! If I did that for Your sake only, I invoke You to relieve us from our critical situation that has been caused by this rock.’ So, the rock moved a little, but they could not get out. The Prophet (SAWS) added: “The second man said: ‘O Allah! I had a cousin who was the dearest of all people to me and I wanted to have sexual intercourse with her, but she refused. Later she came across hard times during a year of famine and she came to me, and I gave her one hundred and twenty dinars on the condition that she would not resist my desires, and she agreed. When I was about to fulfill my desires, she said: “It is illegal for you to violate my chastity except through legitimate marriage.” So, I realized it was a sin to have sexual intercourse with her and left her, though she was the dearest of all people to me. I also left the gold I had given her. O Allah! If I did that for Your sake only, please relieve us from the present calamity.’ So, the rock moved a little more, but still they could not get out from the cave. The Prophet (SAWS) added: “Then the third man said: ‘O Allah! I employed few laborers and I paid them all of them their wages, with the exception of one man who did not take his wages and went away. I invested his wages and I gained much profit from this. (Then after some time) he came and said to me: “O Allah’s servant! Pay me my wages.” I said to him: “All the camels, cows, sheep, and slaves that you see here, are yours.” He said: “O Allah’s slave! Don’t mock me.” I said: “I am not mocking you.” So, he took the herd and drove them away and left nothing. O Allah! If I did that for Your sake only, please relieve us from the present suffering.’ So, the rock moved completely and they walked out.

Good one OP!

Proud to be a muslim....we need to put more of prophet teaching into practice rather than oral.....May almighty Allah protect and guide us to the right path...AMEEN

Smh

Allah Akbar! may Allah be praised + barika juma'a to all Muslim fatefuls

the religion of "PEACE INDEED"

Proud to be a muslim.

Jazakumu lahu khyran @op. More grease to your elbow.

Lailah illalah...commin from the toungue of a proud muslim

Jazakumllahu kairan op...

A welcomed thread.

My Allah guide us aright.

Allhamdullilah....

Alhamdulilah

May Almighty Allah grant us al-janah

Allahu Akbar