Nobody should come and form holier than thou for us here or point fingers....it's obvious that a lot of ppl cheat in both relationship and marriage even tho I don't agree with the point that it's in anybody's genetic make up to cheat, yeah it's a decision ppl make....
So as for those of US that have decided not to cheat nd are holding on, thank God for us ...and also for those of US that are either still struggling with the decision not to cheat or have even decided to keep cheating....well, God help us too..
But the point of the discussion here is we're trying to analyse systematically what the reason is dt makes anybody want to cheat or unable to stop cheating...nd please I'd like us to leave Bible out of this...

And also on the second question of whether once a cheater is always a cheater?
I stand with Ferdy on this, ppl can go from cheating to faithful and vice versa at any point in time.

Someone has mentioned the quest for variety
Someone else mentioned peer pressure

Let's bring it on...
There's an attitude I always encourage ppl to cultivate ; when you see someone doing sth obviously wrong, don't be quick to point fingers at the person cos you might not know how long the person has maybe been struggling to get out of that shii...so the best is try to find out why the person is doing what he/she is doing and that way you can also devise a means to helping such a person sincerely...Let's not be too quick to castigate ppl for their wrong cos it will only make dem more hardened.
Okay, now I'm feeling like a psychologist.
I really didn't wanna say anything on this topic again but I just couldn't resist th urge to blurt this out..

Y'all have a fabulous week....I feel so good cos I'm sleeping in this Monday morning....

PresVA:
Why would they finish him? When they should be applauding and encouraging him.. what's wrong with his Choice?

That's to show the level of moral decadence. ..and people psychologically manipulating you to think your choice is inadequate, archaic or whatever. .

A lot of men that cheat today do so because of peer pressure or a foolish thinking of oh yeah I belong. ..

Ferdyboss, don't ever let anyone make you feel your choice is 'archaic' or unachievable. .. and may God bless you with a woman that would suit you best...
Together, both of you can have a wonderful and enviable family

Lol...It isn't actually what you are thinking. There's a certain "joke" on our class chat page that I wouldn't want to bring up here....So, don't mind that Davide470.

Hi Veevean1.....Been a while.

veevean1:
..
Fine ooh @jam.ean hope you are taking care of our joint account @davide470 lol

I think you guys should revisit the idea of the get together
I wish the house a great week, success stories this Sepember

So i am now a Joint account?

@bolded, Jamean, are you ready to move on from the tantrumswhatever and plan the event?

cc150615:
Nobody should come and form holier than thou for us here or point fingers....it's obvious that a lot of ppl cheat in both relationship and marriage even tho I don't agree with the point that it's in anybody's genetic make up to cheat, yeah it's a decision ppl make....
So as for those of US that have decided not to cheat nd are holding on, thank God for us ...and also for those of US that are either still struggling with the decision not to cheat or have even decided to keep cheating....well, God help us too..
But the point of the discussion here is we're trying to analyse systematically what the reason is dt makes anybody want to cheat or unable to stop cheating...nd please I'd like us to leave Bible out of this...

And also on the second question of whether once a cheater is always a cheater?
I stand with Ferdy on this, ppl can go from cheating to faithful and vice versa at any point in time.

Someone has mentioned the quest for variety
Someone else mentioned peer pressure

Let's bring it on...
There's an attitude I always encourage ppl to cultivate ; when you see someone doing sth obviously wrong, don't be quick to point fingers at the person cos you might not know how long the person has maybe been struggling to get out of that shii...so the best is try to find out why the person is doing what he/she is doing and that way you can also devise a means to helping such a person sincerely...Let's not be too quick to castigate ppl for their wrong cos it will only make dem more hardened.
Okay, now I'm feeling like a psychologist.
I really didn't wanna say anything on this topic again but I just couldn't resist th urge to blurt this out..

Y'all have a fabulous week....I feel so good cos I'm sleeping in this Monday morning....

Omg you went right into depths of my heart and brought the feelings to words. Another epic opinion m'lady

Ferdyboss:
Hi Veevean1.....Been a while.

Yes, where have u been...
@davide470 so you are part of cheats that they are talking about, so try u have turned to membership parole smh.
@cc150615 I have always admired your insight, you are still as Frank as ever lol!

Ferdyboss:

Lol...It isn't actually what you are thinking. There's a certain "joke" on our class chat page that I wouldn't want to bring up here....So, don't mind that Davide470.

davide470:


We are not going to "finish" him based on his decision, it's nobody's business.

There is just an internal joke about that statement only a selected people would get.

@ bolded, was that really called for?!!!

Alright. . , sorry for the misinterpretation. .

Have a great week everyone

veevean1:

Yes, where have u been...
@davide.470 so you are part of cheats that they are talking about, so try u have turned to membership parole smh.
@cc150615 I have always admired your insight, you are still as Frank as ever lol!

Dt got me blushing bae...how's it been with you?

Jazmiynne:

Omg you went right into depths of my heart and brought the feelings to words. Another epic opinion m'lady

I LOVE to have an intelligent discourse anytime, anyday and anywhere...
BTW I remember you owe me and Amy a treat abi you've forgotten??

@cc150615 Been good ooh, me I want that treat as well

veevean1:
@cc150615 Been good ooh, me I want that treat as well

Should we postpone it till when you come back?? On another tot we can do this and then have a replay of it to include you...that's IF you're coming back any soon anyways

When is it happening? Maybe I will show

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davide470:
So i am now a Joint account?

@bolded, Jamean, are you ready to move on from the tantrumswhatever and plan the event?

we had a phone conversation last week, please don't make me cry

cc150615:

I LOVE to have an intelligent discourse anytime, anyday and anywhere...
BTW I remember you owe me and Amy a treat abi you've forgotten??

Ayaf not forgotten o

But y'all forgot me na

How can I take u on a treat when ayam not on ur mind?

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Thanks.

DemisigOfficial:
Oga ooooo

Person go fear all this debate about WHY DO MEN going on here oooo


Me I kukuma don't understand sha..... so make I just keep reading jejely before Glo will comma cheat on me with my data.

abeg I dey find work too..

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Jazmiynne:


Ayaf not forgotten o

But y'all forgot me na

How can I take u on a treat when ayam not on ur mind?

Don't even tread that lane...don't try it, amicable09 coman see oo

Jazmiynne:

Seconded.
I couldn't have written it better.

beau49:



Seconded.
I couldn't have written it better.

#BlushingIndigoPink

Thanks ma'am

Lero15:



This is the conclusion. Any other thought after this I'm not reading!!!

Now this is funny....hahahahaha

#Shades.

cc150615:

Don't even tread that lane...don't try it, amicable09 coman see oo

Hehehehehheehe for real you girls should come let's actually plan sth nice.... The bill would be on amicable09's boo - Lero15

Jazmiynne:


Hehehehehheehe for real you girls should come let's actually plan sth nice.... The bill would be on amicable09's boo - Lero15

Good woman! Now we can take the rest offline...

davide470:
So i am now a Joint account?

@bolded, Jamean, are you ready to move on from the tantrumswhatever and plan the event?

I'm already imagining a masked party.

The wazzaa type of fun.

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DMeanMan:


I'm already imagining a masked party.

The wazzaa type of fun.