I just stumbled on this piece from my very old thread and thought I should share it.
It really did help me in time.past.

GlorifiedTunde:
----[b]FOUNDATIONAL TIPS WHEN VENTURING A RELATIONSHIP----[/b]

1. Do I need a relationship now?
2. Am I ready for commitment?
3. How well do I know him/her?
4. Do I really like him /her [physically, socially, spiritually, behaviorally, ...] after knowing him/her?
5. Am I ready to sacrifice for him/her
6. Why are we starting this relationship? what do we hope to achieve from it? Marriage or Fun (which I do not support)?
7. Do we share similar values, goals, or objectives?
8. Will I be sincere in this relationship?
9. Have I gotten to that level where i can say he/she will be/is "an addition to my life"?
10.Can I love this person still even if the weaknesses I can see in him/her right now are tripled?

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