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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by safarigirl(f): 7:07am On Oct 23, 2014 |
If you guys are friends, or have at least had a couple of conversations before, what's so hard in asking "Bros, this one wey you dey dodge me, you see me for dream ni?" What's the big deal? People are making a mountain of a molehill. I do that a lot, even with guys I like. It's cuz you're looking at him on a non-platonic level that's causing all this your worry. If he was your buddy, nothing stops you from talking to him. What's up? Hope you're good...simple stuff, anything he wants to think, let him think. You don talk your own. Life isn't as complicated as most make it seem 14 Likes |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by austinbrown: 7:09am On Oct 23, 2014 |
No be only girls sabi do shakara 1 Like |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by englishmart(m): 7:09am On Oct 23, 2014 |
I need to close this thread now. 2 Likes |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by soldierdollar(m): 7:09am On Oct 23, 2014 |
On two occasions , I have had two girls walk up to me to declare interest . I know I attract girls but there are ways a girl will hint that without sounding " cheap " . One bluntly said " I can't just stop staring at you and I like you" I blushed But when a girl starts following me about calling me her husband or boo and shouting my name whenever she sees me or stopping to ask if I didn't see her ... I feel ashamed of her.. That's when a girl becomes cheap. And the worst thing i hate is when a girl tells me she has fallen in love with me .. I will just say in mu mind .." Oh God , not again " . I like to chyke a girl and win her and not the other way round . If you really like a guy give him less attention.. But dont try to get him jealous with those your obvious trick If he notices youre tryna make him jealous maybe by the way you laugh with other guys .. E don be for you . As i was saying , pay less attention to him but make sure you greet him just like everyone else . but cut it short lest you start giving him ideas .. Appear to be a little busy when he comes around but be polite . 3 Likes |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Nobody: 7:10am On Oct 23, 2014 |
Op, face your book... Girls and discussing boys since 1902. |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by IamK2I(m): 7:12am On Oct 23, 2014 |
Harbosede02:E Dey easy for mouth |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Emmalot121(m): 7:16am On Oct 23, 2014 |
msrita:So you think its a must for him to like u? This is the mistake so many people make(expectially women.) They will later complain of being laid after the guy must have acted his friends' script. Face your studies, cos no one wants a jobless nigga. 2 Likes |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Chuks16(m): 7:17am On Oct 23, 2014 |
Good morning nairalanders |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Nobody: 7:22am On Oct 23, 2014 |
you girls have lot of problem I swear and maybe it's spiritual I see have guy dating someone in your class instead of you to remove ur mind from there you still want to go for him If I were that guy I will eat u and clean my mouth |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by otobomax(m): 7:23am On Oct 23, 2014 |
most times its always not easy for guys to approach a lady that gets to be seen around most times with guys. We normally av the believe that she is dating one among even especially when she has a close friend that most pple seem to think they r in a relationship. The main thing is if u guys can just be friends that's the main issue here cos from experience it's only when a guy becomes friends n even a close one to a girl that has more guys as friend than female it's always hard to blive that she's not in one. Mainly the closeness first very important. No doubt he will also av a thing for u but everyone he might just need that CONFIRMATION . |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by emmerks(m): 7:25am On Oct 23, 2014 |
From all you said, I will tell from experience that the guy is the shy type. Probably an Introvert, that's from experience. 1 Like |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by morbid: 7:26am On Oct 23, 2014 |
Romance topics enjoy the highest patronage with comments 1 Like |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by IBOGIRL1: 7:27am On Oct 23, 2014 |
Ever heard of african china's song *if u love sombody walkup to dem and tell dem how much u do,cos its no crime* so babe if ur dat stuck,face d issue like a babe and talk to him abt it human being to human being u dey fear am? 1 Like |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Acidosis(m): 7:28am On Oct 23, 2014 |
I think you should face your studies. That yeye crush of yours will fade away after sometime. |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by omenka(m): 7:29am On Oct 23, 2014 |
If you're among those who opened the thread and went to check out the Op's profile before reading her story, let me see your hands up. That's what I did, because on nairaland, the responses you get from stories like this are determined by your appearance. If you ugly na bashing all the way. The most decent advice you might get, if you are lucky, would be: focus on your studies. 12 Likes |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by gistmelove(m): 7:29am On Oct 23, 2014 |
1.sit near him during lecture 2.Start a conversation with him with wayo e.g hey sorry this lecture is 2 hours right? He looks at u he notices you 3.He would toast u after the class no worry 4.He ask 4 ur number u'll give it to him 5.He will chat with u on watsapp and he would invite to his crib probably offcamp 6.U would go see him,he would chat with u laff with u play with u,kiss u and shag u 7.He wld stop picking ur calls 8.U'll come baq to nairaland to open thread about heart break story END 9 Likes |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by nairaman66(m): 7:30am On Oct 23, 2014 |
Articul8: Don't mind them girls waiting for the guys to make the first move.. Let her wait she'll grow old! 2 Likes |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by malbro(m): 7:30am On Oct 23, 2014 |
From the Write I hv this stong feelin both of u like each oda..d probz iz who wil make the first move...mai dear iz a man job 2 do dat...bt u can make a lot mur easier 4 him....he iz SHY.. 2 Likes |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by lawrenceunaa: 7:30am On Oct 23, 2014 |
msrita:keep ur cool till he gets the courage And don't form the 'I will think abt it ' he might not fancy u after all but don't be desperate Cos u gals have been doing so to guys |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by trustone(m): 7:31am On Oct 23, 2014 |
the guy mst also fall 4 u |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Donbabaj: 7:32am On Oct 23, 2014 |
Well! all i have to say is that the guy likes you, the fact that he greets everyone and ignores you signifies that he respects you and that you are special to him! He's probably an introvert. Solution: Just walk up to him secretly and tell him about your observation that he ignores you whenever he greets your peers. "Don't tell him that you like him". If he's really a gentle guy like you have said, he will not broadcast that you approached him 2 Likes |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by nairaman66(m): 7:32am On Oct 23, 2014 |
gistmelove: Is this how you go about your daily routines? 1 Like |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by lawrenceunaa: 7:32am On Oct 23, 2014 |
omenka:are u confessing |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by Sagamite(m): 7:33am On Oct 23, 2014 |
Harbosede02: Nope! If he is an immature young lad, she risks having him going around boasting to everyone some girl is desperate he pays her attention. What she should do if she is that interested is to walk up to him and chat with him generally. E.g. walk to him confidently and say hi, then chat about the course he is doing. Then move on to where he is from and grew up. The chat has to be at least 30 minutes. After that, except he is an ediot, he would struggle to ignore her anytime he sees her as they are officially now informal friends/acquaintances. Which means they can chat some more and she can flirt with him (after like the 4th chat) without blatantly asking him out. The 'ignoring her' might be his game, she needs to break his game by changing the rules of the game and being the umpire controlling what happens. If he continues ignoring her after that, then he either does not like her one inch or he is a completely immature ediot. Either one, then she needs to quit that lane. 7 Likes |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by gistmelove(m): 7:33am On Oct 23, 2014 |
nairaman66: 2 Likes
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Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by nairaman66(m): 7:35am On Oct 23, 2014 |
[quote author=gistmelove post=27375229][/quote] You mean Doggle? 1 Like |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by yungcyrus(m): 7:36am On Oct 23, 2014 |
The same tin wit me. I'm a quiet guy. I hav dis 1 female friend i mostly hang out wit, nt lyk we r dating. But dia is this oda Gorgoeous gal i lyk, we always catch ourselves starin @ each other. The same problem too, the way she relates to numerous guys gives me cold feet. Sametin I do i jst make her luk lyk she doesnt exist on purpose. Although we say a few 'hi's' but i ignore her most tyms. Dat guy u talkd about is my photocopy. I dont lyk gals wit too much male friends. It sends a kind of ''being cheap n nasty'' message 1 Like |
Re: A Guy I Like Seems To Be Ignoring Me. by destante(f): 7:38am On Oct 23, 2014 |
msrita:lool the mod that pushed this to front page really hates you |
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