What if you've been having sex with your 3 moths lover, who obviously is not ready for kids, all Saturday morning.

After you were all done with the box of condoms you decided to throw it out, but then, your eyes glimpses the expiration date to be 3months before that day.

You decided not to tell him, afraid of his rxn, so you let him leave.

Fortunately, he forgets his wallet, so you open it out of curiosity. What you found was not what you expected, pictures of him kissing a woman and 3 kids who obviously was his wife and kids, what will you do?

What else is there to do? If he's married,u take a walk. Of course there is d possibility that u may b pregnant,but hey,if u were mature enough 2 shag him,then u shld b mature enof 2 decide wat 2 do with an unwantd bébé. Just one question:why wld u shag a guy u've been dating 4 only 3 months? Doesnt that seem a bit too soon?

*Morenike:

What if you've been having sex with your 3 moths lover, who obviously is not ready for kids, all Saturday morning.

After you were all done with the box of condoms you decided to throw it out, but then, your eyes glimpses the expiration date to be 3months before that day.

You decided not to tell him, afraid of his rxn, so you let him leave.

Fortunately, he forgets his wallet, so you open it out of curiosity. What you found was not what you expected, pictures of him kissing a woman and  3 kids who obviously was his wife and kids, what will you do?

Ehn! Morenike!
Is this what happened to you today? Pele o!

I would find him, kick his butt and then go for a pregnancy test the month after and pray I don't have his baby.

Wait!
You need to be 100% sure of what you are saying.  Once confirmed.

Follow him and find out where his wife and kids live.  Then tell her what her husband has been doing.

Also slash his tyres and damage the hell out of his car.

If he doesn't have a car put laxative in his food and make sure he is going to a public place where access to a toilet will be hard.

Most important of all take an STD test.

Then move on

j-girl:

Ehn! Morenike!
Is this what happened to you today? Pele o!

I would find him, kick his butt and then go for a pregnancy test the month after and pray I don't have his baby.

Don_Ese125:

What else is there to do? If he's married,u take a walk. Of course there is d possibility that u may b pregnant,but hey,if u were mature enough 2 shag him,then u shld b mature enof 2 decide what 2 do with an unwantd bébé. Just one question:why would u shag a guy u've been dating 4 only 3 months? Doesnt that seem a bit too soon?

rotflmao!!! No, am just saying I thought it was funny sha. If my husband is married to another woman he better let me know o. Because na antrax I go put for him food.

Anyways, on a serious note, many women go through this problem. Another thing I noticed from Nigerian women that Nollywood seems to emphasize is that reason why some women have abortions is that either their lover is married or they'll be unable to provide for the child.

If this thing does happen, what will the women on this forum do? Am acting upon curiosity ni o.

LadyT:

Wait!
You need to be 100% sure of what you are saying.  Once confirmed.

Follow him and find out where his wife and kids live.  Then tell her what her husband has been doing.

Also slash his tyres and damage the hell out of his car.

If he doesn't have a car put laxative in his food and make sure he is going to a public place where access to a toilet will be hard.

Most important of all take an STD test.

Then move on

Are these necessary?!

Cmon not the way to deal with the issue my friend!

Brash doesn't want his tyre slashed

Why not?

But Lady T, is the woman also not to blame? I mean, shouldn't she have read the expiration date for the condom?

tope2000:

Brash don't want his tyre slashed

Brash wont be caught up in that kinna situation in the first place!

*Morenike:

rotflmao!!! No, am just saying I thought it was funny sha. If my husband is married to another woman he better let me know o. Because na antrax I go put for him food.

Anyways, on a serious note, many women go through this problem. Another thing I noticed from Nigerian women that Nollywood seems to emphasize is that reason why some women have abortions is that either their lover is married or they'll be unable to provide for the child.

If this thing does happen, what will the women on this forum do? Am acting upon curiosity ni o.n

Anthrax ke? Why not rat poison? that one is more effective jare.
If it happens to me on a serious note. I'll find the man and deal with him.
I don't need to break another woman's heart just because her husband is a flipping douchebag.
The wife was not there sleeping with me and him, why make it a problem for her.
Deal with the guy personally.
Mess up his personal life so bad that he will regret the day his JT entered your 'sugar gate' ( i just heard that in a yoruba movie and I like that word )

j-girl:

( i just heard that in a yoruba movie and I like that word )

OMG!!!!!!!!!!! Is it that movie with the 3 women messing around with 3 rich men until one of them died?

I loved that movie!! "No N1 million no sugar gate". . . .lmao

*Morenike:

OMG!!!!!!!!!!! Is it that movie with the 3 women messing around with 3 rich men until one of them died?

I loved that movie!! "No N1 million no sugar gate". . . .lmao

LOL! Yeah!
Bukata . . . I watched it 2 days ago. LMAO!

j-girl:

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I don't need to break another woman's heart just because her husband is a flipping douchebag.
The wife was not there sleeping with me and him, why make it a problem for her.

This is so true. I've been thinking about this every time a woman promises to deal with the other woman her man was sleeping with.

I mean, it's another story if she knew you 2 were going out, but if she was clueless about your r/ship, why try to "deal with" her?

Deal with the man that cheated on you, not her. Some women lack common sense. They act upon anger without a single grain of logic thinking.

*Morenike:

What if you've been having sex with your 3 moths lover, who obviously is not ready for kids, all Saturday morning.

After you were all done with the box of condoms you decided to throw it out, but then, your eyes glimpses the expiration date to be 3months before that day.

You decided not to tell him, afraid of his rxn, so you let him leave.

Fortunately, he forgets his wallet, so you open it out of curiosity. What you found was not what you expected, pictures of him kissing a woman and  3 kids who obviously was his wife and kids, what will you do?

Se na you be the victim, make i know now, so we go quick find solution

Cipriani:

Se na you be the victim, make i know now, so we go quick find solution

No, but you're the man who committed the infidelity

*Morenike:

No, but you're the man who committed the infidelity

Why you go accuse me like that? wetin be your evidence

Besides, I no dey use condom, i dey skindive, you know awo + awo

Cipriani:

Why you go accuse me like that? ??? wetin be your evidence

Besides, I no dey use condom, i dey skindive, you know awo + awo

Why are you denying youe sexcapade?

If My husband was screwing around I would like to know!

About the condom date.  I dont know anyone who checks the dates really.


But as a woman why not supply your own condoms? (at least you will know when you bought them and how "fresh" they are)

I think women in relationships should ALWAYS carry condoms dont wait for no man!

LOL@Brash your worried Im going too far.

I do think I would inform his wife about her husbands madness

Re: the sugar gate movie wasnt one of the guys actually sleeping with his own daughther?
That was awful they girls got what they deserved though

LadyT:

Re: the sugar gate movie wasnt one of the guys actually sleeping with his own daughther?
That was awful they girls got what they deserved though

Lol! Yes, it was
eventually he died sha

LadyT:

If My husband was screwing around I would like to know!

About the condom date. I don't know anyone who checks the dates really.


But as a woman why not supply your own condoms? (at least you will know when you bought them and how "fresh" they are)

I think women in relationships should ALWAYS carry condoms don't wait for no man!

LOL@Brash your worried I'm going too far.

I do think I would inform his wife about her husbands madness

Re: the sugar gate movie wasnt one of the guys actually sleeping with his own daughther?
That was awful they girls got what they deserved though

You'll inform the woman?
But what if she decides to "deal" with you?

So you guys don't check condom expiration date?

Nope I dont check the date because I buy them what I look for are holes!

Deal with me how?

Unless shes mad. If shes spoken to in a polite manner no woman is mad enough to attack another. Im telling her what her husband has done not that I want to stay with him!

LadyT:

If My husband was screwing around I would like to know!

About the condom date. I don't know anyone who checks the dates really.


But as a woman why not supply your own condoms? (at least you will know when you bought them and how "fresh" they are)

I think women in relationships should ALWAYS carry condoms don't wait for no man!

LOL@Brash your worried I'm going too far.

I do think I would inform his wife about her husbands madness

Re: the sugar gate movie wasnt one of the guys actually sleeping with his own daughther?
That was awful they girls got what they deserved though

Story story Ooo, story, story

Alo Alo Ooo, alo alo

Plus condoms have expiry dates or 2 to 5 years.

LadyT:

LOL@Brash your worried I'm going too far.
I do think I would inform his wife about her husbands madness

overtly worried miss!

LadyT:

Plus condoms have expiry dates or 2 to 5 years.

wetin dey shock you

Now that would be the 8th wonder women carrying condoms for their man

Cipriani:

wetin dey shock you

what is shocking you?

A-40:

Now that would be the 8th wonder women carrying condoms for their man

And why not?
I call that a sensible woman.
Who wants an unwanted baby?