So this past year I've been doing my best to grow and break out of my shell and meet new people. I'm still a painfully shy person, but at least now I have some confidence. Enough confidence to be happy with my life single or not.

But I'm at a point now where I know I need to start dating. And I know I can be successful at it.

The frustrating part is that it's such a long and drawn out process. Finding the right place to go, or the right words to say, or the right times and places to touch her, all for someone that is in all likelihood seeing three other guys ahead of you anyway.

Realistically, I only have time to schedule one date a week anyway. Assuming that I was actually able to meet one new completely random single person every week to ask for a date (which I have yet to figure out how to do), it seems like with all the odds stacked against us, it could take months or years before I find someone that is actually worth sticking around for.

Are normal people this patient? Does everyone really go through this?

Have been single for eight month not because of shyness and am perfectly normal
Seems u need encouragement.keep up with ur dates bro u will find ur soulmate sooner or later

I've been single for a while now and i'm very comfortable with it. Not planning to go into another relationship soon.













But if you feel, you are ready for it, you know what you desire in a woman. Be on the outlook for those traits and you will certainly find her. Wish you the best

How can a guy be shy?

I have never been in any relationship for almost 30 decades of my entire life.
Am I normal? Yes, I am.

Just pick wisely. The world has become a jungle full of selfish young people.

Through out their life time

It is better to be single than to be in a silly relationship..

During this waiting period of yours, make yourself a Mr Right for your Mrs right.

temigracie:
It is better to be single than to be in a silly relationship..

During this waiting period of yours, make yourself a Mr Right for your Mrs right.

like seriously

bhaliz44:
like seriously

Yeah, like seriously

So that means if ur not in a relationship


U aren't normal
*from the thread title*

So those that are single are abnormal

temigracie:
It is better to be single than to be in a silly relationship..

During this waiting period of yours, make yourself a Mr Right for your Mrs right.

How long did u stay single after ur break up

yinkard4me:

How long did u stay single after ur break up

Am still single...

Going to the 6th month now...

I believe I'm preparing myself for my Mr right.

temigracie:


Am still single...

Going to the 6th month now...

I believe I'm preparing myself for my Mr right.

stays in Tanke, u?

yinkard4me:

stays in Tanke, u?

What are you insinuating?

temigracie:


Am still single...

Going to the 6th month now...

I believe I'm preparing myself for my Mr right.

ooohhk. Op....argon500 this girl is single and I think she is a nice girl too.
Why don't u two exchange contact and see how things will work out

Thank me later

bin single for four years or so, cnt even rmba sef.... few tym I get d feeling of loneliness but most tyms I'm happy

Relationship doesnt guarantee normality, Inshut the worst time of my life was when i was in a relationship ...

one thing I have learnt tru life experience, is dat singleness should be cherished and valued! being single is a blessing! I have come to enjoy my single state like never before! d tin is dis Neva do tins cus others are doing it! don't enter in a relationship cus ur friends are into it! always have a positive reason to it! I was an example of dis! I did cus of wat I saw around but regretted d experience cus it affect my focus in carrier actualization! it is far better to have gud and nice friends Dan to be in an intimate relationship why u are still trying to arrive in life! @ Op for ur information am single and 100% normal , even most of my friends are admiring me! if u haven't actualize ur goal in life yet! I will advice u to just have nice friends around! cus intimacy is too demanding and puts one at d state of scatterses and dilemma! avoid it!

normal pple can stay single for as long as they wish until dey r ready to be abnormal

I'v been single for about 3 years and i would be very happy to be single for the rest of my life.
See,what matters is prioritising your life and know what is really important to you and what you really need.
I'v prioritized my life,and my inner self knows i don't necessarily need a relationship/woman but again i need children so i might just find a way to sought that out.
Just know where you are going in life and everything else is secondary.Dnt allow peoples opinion define you.

argon500:
So this past year I've been doing my best to grow and break out of my shell and meet new people. I'm still a painfully shy person, but at least now I have some confidence. Enough confidence to be happy with my life single or not.

But I'm at a point now where I know I need to start dating. And I know I can be successful at it.

The frustrating part is that it's such a long and drawn out process. Finding the right place to go, or the right words to say, or the right times and places to touch her, all for someone that is in all likelihood seeing three other guys ahead of you anyway.

Realistically, I only have time to schedule one date a week anyway. Assuming that I was actually able to meet one new completely random single person every week to ask for a date (which I have yet to figure out how to do), it seems like with all the odds stacked against us, it could take months or years before I find someone that is actually worth sticking around for.

Are normal people this patient? Does everyone really go through this?

This your problem read this
www.nairaland.com/1964866/how-know-chronic-masturbator-masturbatress#27491913

AgapeCharis:
ooohhk. Op....argon500 this girl is single and I think she is a nice girl too.
Why don't u two exchange contact and see how things will work out

Thank me later

Like seriously?

argon500:



Like seriously?

BTW→ Annypie for miss Nairaland

AgapeCharis:


BTW→ Annypie for miss Nairaland

Sorry who is Annypie again?

argon500:


Sorry who is Annypie again?

she's contesting for Miss Nairaland
Ur vote will count

AgapeCharis:
she's contesting for Miss Nairaland
Ur vote will count

Now I understand.. Na how much you wan give me for voting for her?