1. The wife that wins all
arguments with her
husband is not wise. The home is not a law
court. 2. The wife that uses sex as a
weapon in the
home - placing embargo, going to bed in
jeans
shorts and trousers - lacks wisdom. 3. The
wife that uses the modern trends and
laws of "women's rights" to insult or
ridicule
her husband simply makes a fool of
herself. 4. A woman that makes her home
devoid of
peace through bickering, nagging and
quarrels needs help. A man should be
eager
to run away from office to be at home, for
that
should be the safest and coziest place on
earth for him. 5. Modern-day equality in
marriage does not
mean competition. It simply means
partnership. Taking advantage of such
equality to turn around and become the de
facto head of the home and oppress the
man
is tantamount to playing with fire. If you
destroy your home, soon you will be the
boss
of an empty home. 6. A wise wife makes
the man feel so good
that he assumes that he is the head. Once
he
gets that feeling, the woman gently wields
her
power and the head actually turns to
wherever
the neck wants without a protest. 7. A wife
that does not pull herself away from
friends' influence and advice or even from
the
control of her mother and father will have
herself to blame. 8. When a man is looking
for a wife, he
bypasses women of different shapes and
sizes to choose a wife. But soon after
childbirth, many women hide under the
excuse
of childbirth to let go of themselves. Many
stop
bothering about their looks, shape,
dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage,
people start
wondering if the wife is the man's aunt,
even
though she is 7 years younger.Her defence
is
that if he truly loves her, he should love her
the way she is.But when looking for a wife,
he
saw people like the present YOU and
ignored them and settled for the former
YOU. Today,
you go to bed smelling of onions.... You go
to
bed wearing grandmothers' clothes. Why
are
you playing with your marriage? Love is
not
about looks - we know. But looks enhance
love and marriage. There is a difference
between someone disfiguring herself and
the
person being disfigured by an accident.
Please don't be complacent.As hard as it
may
be, work on looking like you were when
he
first saw you and began the chase. 9. If
every night you are tired, sleepy, sore,
down with headache or fever, "not in the
mood," you are a joker, a serious
comedian! 10. If your children suddenly
become more
important to you than your husband, you
need
prayers. 11. If you assume that as the
woman, only you
need to be pampered and fussed over
while
the man is a stone that has no emotions,
you
need to be pitied. 12. A woman that has
the mind of a wife does
not excite her husband. Wives are usually
complacent and presumptuous. A wife
must
strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A
girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more
loving
and always thinking of ways to wow her
sweetheart; a girlfriend does not try to win
all
arguments, does not call the man a
"useless
man", is not careless about her looks or
dressing, always smiles and laughs with
the
man, sends the man sweet messages and
calls, etc. Are you your husband's girlfriend
in word and
in deed?

Just right on point!well thought out OP

Everyday advices on NL dn dey make me dey vex everday?. , no b say dm go gree hear am o.

passionate88:
Everyday advices on NL dn dey make me dey vex everday?. , no b say dm go gree hear am o.

you just have to do your own tiny little part

if only our wives-to-be will learn from this, the world would be a much better place. but dem no go gree see am na. SMH.
Nice one Op, but pls, try edit the post, so as to look mature and presentable.
Cheers to all the good ladies.

NICE POST but poorly styled. Op edit your work.