Kunbee:
^^^that picture tho, lmao

Kanwulia:
Kanwulia in WTF? mode!

ogini di?? mgbeketoto in 3D!! haaa this one u gree show face last last werrin happen oo??

Nmeri17:


ogini di?? mgbeketoto in 3D!! haaa this one u gree show face last last werrin happen oo??

Kanwulia:


Are you for real?
Like. . . .SERIOUSLY?

Wait wtf did u take the pishures down this woman sef. I thought u had even moved yo ministry from YouTube vids to selfies. nawa o.

BTW change yo camera settings. the pictures are hazy, misty and a bit SANDY

DBestDoc:



Nothing can justify his actions, he was really really inconsiderate and wicked to say the least. They were in the shit together and he decided to bail out on her without a hint.
Whatever he was going through, she was equally going through same x2.

I'm wondering why it took him a whopping 5yrs to realize he made a mistake. That was real wickedness if you ask me, i'll be scared to live with such a man 'cause you may wake up one day only to realise the man you slept with the previous night has varnished.

BigBizzy:


how can you call somebody's baby's dandy hediot?

malaria:
. May be you are the one, if he acts like one, then he is qualified to be. Simpulu

malaria:
. The guy no follow abeg, if he dint give financial assistance, what about emotional and moral support.

Truckpusher:
She is been around for quite a long time.

I unfollowed her when she unfollowed though one the reasons why Iunfollowed her is that she strikes me like someone that has a natural haterd for guys - Na so I carry my mat go krule for one side.

She is not fake

Godmother:
What your ex did to you was truly wicked. Imagine being pregnant with no member of your family knowing and then he abandoning you. I can't begin to imagine the level of pain, betrayal andconfusion you must have felt. You are one strong woman to have pulled through all that and come out sane.

To the present, right now you have to understand that its not just about you anymore. There's a child involved. What the guy did was wrong, yes. But for the sake of your baby forgive him so your child can have the opportunity of having a healthy, balanced relationship with both parents.

As to your taking him back, my candid advice to you will be to banish that though completely from your body, soul and spirit. That guy never loved you and if the chance comes may still treat you bad later on. Forget him and truly move on.Men are not devils, most of them are just selfish and will look out for themselves alone if they don't love you. But there are still some good guys out there. Open your heart once again to love, but this time love gently and involve your head as well. All will be well.

BigBizzy:


...and you're? malaria?? hahahahaha

malaria:
[i][/i] I know!, wetin u wan make I yarn nah

WebSurfer:

cherryice:


are you stalking or what

mutter:
The truth is that he is not better or worse than most other men.
The fact that he went to the states shows that he needed to get himself on his feet. He knew that you would not have agreed then to him doing this.
Do you know how difficult it is for a man to face up to responsibilities when they don`t have the financial means?
To go and face a girl`s parents and tell them that he got her pregnant and wants to marry her! WITH WHAT!
Many men would rather die in silence than expose themselves as not being capable.
B
Do you still love him? Then hear him out and give him a chance.
The chance you are going to give him is not a jump into bed chance.
No he now has the chance to go meat your parents first on his son and then on marriage. One does not have anything to do with the other so don`t muddle them up.
If he wants only his son to be legitimized then allow him go for the necessary things. If he wants to marry you, accept if you still love him.

If you loved him once you might love him again.

It is very difficult taking children into a marriage, so if you can avoid it.

Besides consider yourself lucky. There are many girls out there just waiting and hoping that the fathers will come back for their abandoned babies. Even girls that had the kid`s out of marriage and the men absconded.

@Kanwulia. My bulletproof vest is already on

cherryice:
Ok! Here's it. When I was in school, I got entangled in this relationship with this well, sweet guy. We were so in love and we both thought we had it all. Along the line, I got pregnant and wanted to terminate it buh he told me I shouldn't bcoz he was already making plans for our settling down. I believed him never knowing he was the devil's advocate. Anyways time went on, nine months later, I delivered of this bouncing baby boy which I still cherish today and asked God for the forgiveness of wanting to terminate my child at first. Okay...few months before I put to bed about 3months, my boyfrend started acting weird. He wouldn't pick my calls nor return it, he ignored my texts, I was so confused and felt like dying. I visited his place and asked him what was going on but he kept saying nothing and that he had a lot of pressure at work. I believed him and told him everything was going to be fine but I needed him to be there for me this time as my parents were unaware of my condition. He said it was okay and that he was sorry too. We kiissed and made lovve again that day and I left.


Two weeks after, there was no change still. Infact things became worse. His lines were nolonger going through. I knew some of his friends who I made enquiries from and that was when I found out my bf had relocated to the US. I couldn't believe it! That was when my world crumbled and I decided to give up on men except my only source of joy, my son. I begged his frends to help me wt his contacts but all said they didn't have his new cell number and that when it dawned on me that I was on my own. I cried day and night, wasn't eating rght. I kept prayinn he was gonna call me someday before I put to bed buh he never did. As God would have it, I put to bed safely and it was a handsome baby boy.


I moved on with life afterwards after settling with my parents. I startd life all over again as a single mother. I left school, got a wellpaid job. My son too was doing well with school and I was happy.

I got to my office one morning few days ago and when I was less busy decided to log into my YIM_ I saw I had a new invite, accepted it and this guy and I got talking. He talked like he knew me, and along the line he told me who he was, my baby father! I logged out hurriedly cos my heart racing fast. I didn't knw what to do, I noticed tears run down my cheeks, I quickly cleaned up and re-made up cos I was having a meeting. I left for the meeting and from there went home. When I got home, I picked up my phone again and logged into YIM and saw loads of msgs he had dropped for me. He was asking after his son and asking for my number. I refused replying, he kept sending in messages, I was just reading em wtout replying. Sum of it all, he said he wants a comeback..

I have never been this confused. I know I said I've given up on men, I don't know why I'm still having this feelings which I donot want to have for him. I'm hating myself for having this feelings right now. Please nairalanders, I really do need your help on this.. Do u think I should accept him back despite the fact he left me and his son? Do you think he's sorry enough? Do you think I'll be hurt afterwards if I go back?

Men are wicked!

WebSurfer:
Lol.... i guess ID/Comments Prompted that

bukatyne:


OP sorry you wen through this

Men are not all wicked

What is the update?

cherryice:


thankz for the concern. Hes takinf responsibility of our kid. But we not together

bukatyne:


Good o hear

God be with you

cherryice:


Thanks alot

bukatyne:


Do you have someone else?

cherryice:


None that am serious with