ah you got me interested now, Radiant what exactly will be in your prenup .

eupho
dont mind radiant . .wait till she falls in lust love . .real love . she wont watch out for all this things

Sorry i'm a new user i really want to meet friends and i fine this topic intresting pls, can u help me

Muki
lol its real lust i mean love
I am dying to find out what she will put in her prenup, that girl is crazy

she'll put any cheating you hand in half of what you gotnow i aint saying she a gold-digger

. . .But I ain't messing with no broke nigga

Eurpho,

radiant . . . . . ,

you are right . .we want pre-nup

i want a christlamherb wedding!

prefferably in the space shuttle explorer as we zoom off to Mars

Ika has been drinking again, on the bottle girl pls ease off

lmao

Eurphoria:

Ika has been drinking again, on the bottle girl please ease off

supported.

Eurphoria:

Ika has been drinking again, on the bottle girl please ease off

"   "  i need to break some records gal work with me!  

damsol:

supported.

et tu?

Gridlock:

Traditional wedding (can't escape that, to keep the thieving greedy vultures called extended relatives happy)
A low-key court wedding.
A pastor conducting a Vestry wedding after that (so that her mother can calm down and see her daughter in white). No bloody church service, just me, her, and our parents.

I think it's stupid that we actually marry 3ce: once bfore the "family", once before the "law", and once before the "church". Waste of time and resources. Can't we just do it all in one location, one duration? Or skip one stupid annoying unnecessary process that people hang onto because it is an avenue to show their wealth/wastefulness?

yeah, i'm a deviant.

Gridlock it's not deviant, just a bit realistic.  Everyone should be limited to two ceremonies or do everything in the same place.  I couldn't imagine having a traditional wedding and then months later a court or church wedding.  One ceremony is tiring enough, talk less of 3!

hannydarl:

I totally dig your talk o gridlock  i just did traditional and court weddng and i am satisfied with those two the traditional one was done big and people were invited with cards we gave away suveniors and every body knows we are married now.anyway we ladies need to do the traditional no matter how stressful it is so our mothers will have face in the village she wont be mocked that her child is livinng with a man and doing osho free service without a dime paid on ones head. Its for our own dignity so please forget about the stress and make your man do the traditional before the white weding

What if:
(1) Your mother doesn't live in a village
(2) Neither of you have any family in the vicinity
(3) The man doesn't have a dime - can he pay in kind?