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Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by dgreatrock(m): 10:54am On Feb 03, 2009 |
i met a lady yesterday whom i have known for a long while, and asked about her marital status. She told me she is still single and searching. when i asked why, she said the guys always wanted to have sex and confirmed that she is ok by, first getting pregnant. i was shocked because i have never heard about such thing before, that a lady must be pregnant before marriage. Is this right; is it morally justified; can it be said that there is real love in such relationship? |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by sweetmum(f): 11:42am On Feb 03, 2009 |
there may be there is love, but small love ,in the relationship,but its not very good that a guy would want his girl get pregnant before wedding her, what if after wedding there is miscarriage nko! he will send her away |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by Shaz(f): 1:29pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
I doubt it is. |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by plappville(f): 4:07pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
It's not right for a guy to asked that, except the guy thinks he could hock her down with that. The normal thing is get married befor pregnancy but in some case it can happen that u get pregnant without marriage, i don't buy a guy asking a lady this kind of thing. |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by steve49ja(m): 4:16pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
And just who says it's wrong? Its your life you decide how you wanna rule it. I dont have a problem with peeps who wanna be sure the babe's still intact afterall i mean whats all the i love you speech for when she cant conceive? I'll say its better you confirm your gauge,brake and tyre before moving your vehicle. |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by JJYOU: 4:18pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
this is old |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by tope2000(f): 4:22pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
steve49ja: More like the guy is tryin to find out maybe he is potent or not @topic I dont think its right for man to ask a girl to get pregnant b4 marrying her but if the girl got pregnant before marriage then thats another case. |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by Lami05(m): 4:29pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
Naija Boys. you no wan carry barren woman? |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by ifyalways(f): 7:48pm On Feb 03, 2009 |
Each man to his own,its not right,its not wrong.It cant be forced down enyones throat !The man might be scared cos : hes impotent/thinks hes impotent. the lady have had lots of abortions for him in the past. |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by Ben13: 4:38pm On Feb 04, 2009 |
It happens only in some part of Naija |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by plappville(f): 5:18pm On Feb 04, 2009 |
Lami05: u dont know, the guy might be scared of his veryself been impotent too ? |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by Epi: 3:24am On Feb 05, 2009 |
Back home, dem still have men who think that way. Yep, the brothaz want to make sure dat wife-2-B can “breed” b4 marrying her. Strange but true 1 love |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by Nobody: 9:00am On Feb 06, 2009 |
It is not right. But given the kinds of things women are doing in Nigeria nowadays men are simply scared. Some girls have had more than 3 abortions. A friends friend has had 8 abortions for one boyfriend. I dont know if its possible really, but thats the common gist I heard. |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by spikedcylinder: 9:53am On Feb 06, 2009 |
Whatever happened to enjoying yourselves as a couple before bringing a baby into the picture? |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by ariblaze(m): 10:09am On Feb 06, 2009 |
i know it happens as someone said someone said everyone to his own mine , find love everyother thing will fall into place |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by LilDon1(m): 11:31am On Feb 06, 2009 |
Yes thatz good |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by dgreatrock(m): 4:13pm On Feb 19, 2009 |
Lil Don: that is nat gud, men! |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by kolaoloye(m): 4:18pm On Feb 19, 2009 |
@topic, It is not the best but pple do it and the fact that pple are doing it doesn't make it |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by dgreatrock(m): 3:24pm On Feb 20, 2009 |
i believe we should not fold our hands over this issue, let us rise to condemn and discourage it, please |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by benedictac(f): 4:27pm On Feb 20, 2009 |
the lady should ask the guy in question if it is right for his daughter to get pregnant before marriage? |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by Akinagirl(f): 5:26pm On Feb 20, 2009 |
Personally, I dont think that it is right but then again, to each his own. Everyones situation is diffrent. But dont think that should be a pre requisite for marriage, just seems odd to me. |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Apr 16, 2009 |
@Topic Not Right!! |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by Omolola1(f): 12:32pm On Apr 17, 2009 |
it is NOT RIGHT |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by JustGood(m): 12:47pm On Apr 17, 2009 |
Whats the rush? If you're in a rush, get married! |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by jubikpama(m): 10:11pm On Apr 19, 2009 |
@ topic Rather than mount pressure for premarital sex to confirm fertility of both parties before marriage,i would suggest that intending couples should seek medical advice to know there status. there are lot of things that a medical test could reveal that we know not except we seek. for instance, you might be shocked at some kind of reluctant attitude of ones partner(who might be guilty of wrong doings in the past) when this request is made. my advice is that you shine your eyes |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by SweetT1: 12:14am On Apr 20, 2009 |
@Poster I think most men that do that are highly insecure. |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by romsky: 11:53am On Apr 20, 2009 |
its unfair |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by adaku123(f): 7:59pm On Aug 13, 2009 |
Lami05: and you dont want to carry a man with USELESS sperm, @poster It happens commonly in naija, ITs stupid cosidering i personally believe in love, But i guess some people wouldnt wanna take the risk of being childless, U cant reallly blame them!!! |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by Fhemmmy: 9:13pm On Aug 13, 2009 |
It is a preference of people. there is nothing good or bad about it. Just not nice to put pressure on a lady with such demand. Ladies shd be careful too, cos the man that asked for it, cld run away later |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by cooljade(f): 11:37pm On Aug 13, 2009 |
typical of the yorubas e.g. its the okoya's tradition |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by 3spade3(m): 12:51am On Aug 14, 2009 |
Yea nigga. Is your brain on pause nigga. Bitches like that shit. For real!!! |
Re: Is It Right To Impregnant A Lady Before Marrying Her? by GEW: 11:17am On Aug 14, 2009 |
BabeX:true word. abortion in nigeria is one of that country's best kept industrial secret |
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