Samuel1402:
They both got married twelve years ago, up till now no child. The problem is the man have low sperm count, they went for different type of test and treatment but yet not result tho low sperm count is curable but age is not on their side the man is fourty years old and the lady is 36years. In few years the lady may not be able to conceive again now the anxiety of this problem is affecting this lady and her marriage cos if in the next five years or less she enter menopause and cannot conceive again and probably tha man later get solution to his problem when she can no longer get pregnant. Now SHOULD SHE SACRIFICE THE MARRIAGE NOW AND GET HOOK TO ANOTHER PERSON TO BECOME A MOTHER OR STAY WITH THIS MAN WITH ZERO HOPE note after a series of test the woman is perfectly OK please ur word of wisdom is needed here thanks.

Ab025:
women are very selfish human beings, they only think of themselves most times and what they feel they need

Our Nigerian women of nowadays lack PATIENCE and are always in a hurry.

she should leave her husband if she feel having a baby is superior to the marriage or for the gear of menopause, that's her business, but remember, there is a GOD

Ordinary 36yrs of age!!

Mizchief:
Remember, your mum, sister(s) and aunts are also women

You just called Dear woman who gave you life selfish

Ab025:
women are very selfish human beings, they only think of themselves most times and what they feel they need

Our Nigerian women of nowadays lack PATIENCE and are always in a hurry.

she should leave her husband if she feel having a baby is superior to the marriage or for the gear of menopause, that's her business, but remember, there is a GOD

Ordinary 36yrs of age!!

Samuel1402:
They both got married twelve years ago, up till now no child. The problem is the man have low sperm count, they went for different type of test and treatment but yet not result tho low sperm count is curable but age is not on their side the man is fourty years old and the lady is 36years. In few years the lady may not be able to conceive again now the anxiety of this problem is affecting this lady and her marriage cos if in the next five years or less she enter menopause and cannot conceive again and probably tha man later get solution to his problem when she can no longer get pregnant. Now SHOULD SHE SACRIFICE THE MARRIAGE NOW AND GET HOOK TO ANOTHER PERSON TO BECOME A MOTHER OR STAY WITH THIS MAN WITH ZERO HOPE note after a series of test the woman is perfectly OK please ur word of wisdom is needed here thanks.

Mizchief:
Remember, your mum, sister(s) and aunts are also women

You just called Dear woman who gave you life selfish

babyosisi:


Children are not just your children when they come from your womb

Ab025:
women are very selfish human beings, they only think of themselves most times and what they feel they need

[s]Our Nigerian women of nowadays lack PATIENCE and are always in a hurry.[/s]

she should leave her husband if she feel having a baby is superior to the marriage or for the gear of menopause, that's her business, but remember, there is a GOD

Ordinary 36yrs of age!!

EfemenaXY:


I think the idea of going for a sperm donor is ludicrous and geared to suit the infertile man. Why have an unknown person father your kid(s)? If the woman was the infertile spouse, how many Nigerian men would want to father kids with an unknown woman / egg donor?

Abeg let's get realistic jor.

cococandy:
maybe she doesn't want to get a divorce. So a sperm donor would suit them fine and save her the ordeal of being single all over again after twelve years of marriage and trying to find a new husband.

You think it is geared to suit the man? You will be surprised at the number men who are not even comfortable with the idea of another man's seed fathering their child even when the fault/infertility is from them.

EfemenaXY:


Coco, the latter part of your post is buttressing my point na...

GboyegaD:
I don't know why she got married in the first instance thus, it is difficult to advise. If get reason for marrying in the 1st instance is having kids, then she is difficult to advice. If it is for companionship, she can go adopt.

carefreewannabe:
She should get a second husband.