I had to share this because I agree with a lot
of it. I've been both women; the easygoing,
laid back docile girlfriend, and I've been the
oh-no-you-don't, I-won't-take-that girlfriend
and I know which worked better. I would
highlight the parts I feel are important (as
relates to this topic).
I’ve had a number of female friends over the
years ask, How can I tell he loves me? I’ve
answered this question a lot of different ways
but when it boils down to it, the best way to
tell if a man loves you is to STRESS. HIM.
OUT.
I’m serious.
You’re probably thinking to yourself, “Stress
him out? That’s ridiculous!” That’s because
you’ve been brainwashed. 1) A man has to
care about you enough to even let you stress
him out. 2) If a man really loves you, a little
stress is not going to make him leave. An oft
glossed over fact of life is that relationships
take work. If a man is willing to work on your
relationship, it’s because he cares. If he runs
at the first sign of hardship he didn’t value
you or the relationship very much.
You know the type of women that get caught
up in years and years of pseudo-relationship
with no commitment or direction? The laid-
back woman. The woman that causes a man
no stress what-so-ever is the type he keeps
around but never commits to. Sure, they may
never fight because what do they have to
fight about? The relationship has no
substance. She is perfectly content holding
on to the hope of commitment instead of
facing the reality that it may never come but
she fo-damn-sho won’t “stress him out” by
asking a simple, yet pertinent question,
“where is this relationship going?”
Unfortunately, it is the women who follow the
men’s plan – even if it is completely
contradictory to their own – that end up
frustrated and confused when he suddenly
leaves because he was never emotionally
vested in the relationship.
Just as women prefer alpha males, men like
women with a backbone. If you let a man get
away with all kinds of non-sense he
shouldn’t get away with, consciously or
subconsciously, he will lose respect for you.
And no, I’m not saying (or excusing) he will
treat you bad. He just has no incentive to
treat you great , let alone put a ring on it. If
his minimum has proven sufficient, why put
in the excess effort of giving you his best?
Assuming you have reasonable expectations,
standards and goals, then voice them to us.
Give us an opportunity to figure out if we can
and will love the real you. Important to you,
let us accurately assess if we can be the man
you want and need. Don’t get me wrong, you
should remain open to negotiation but you
shouldn’t bite your tongue either. That
comes off as weak. It also comes off as fake.
Otherwise, we’ll both be unhappy when you
“change.” But technically, you never changed.
All you really did was become your self after
the guarantee of commitment…well damn…
it’s nice to finally meet you.
If you have a tough question, ask it. If
something’s bothering you, voice it. If in
being yourself, you stress him out and he
leaves. F-him! It’s his loss, not yours. He
couldn’t accept the real you, which only
means he doesn’t deserve any of you. Point.
Blank. Period.
When a man doesn’t care about a future with
a woman he retreats at the first sign of
stress. You ask where this relationship is
going? He disappears. You ask if he wants
more than sex from you? He stops calling.
You want to know why his ex-girlfriend keeps
calling at 3am? He tells you you’re
overreacting to the point where you actually
believe you are overreacting. YOU ARE NOT
OVERREACTING. These are perfectly
reasonable questions that any logical person
with half a brain should ask and should
receive an honest response. Do not let some
man tell you they are not. Reverse
psychology is older than the words of the
Bible. Don’t fall for it. Know your worth and
expect, if not demand, he honor it. THERE IS
NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT.
I’m not saying you should run into the next
room and slap your man upside the head. I
am saying you shouldn’t have to act like
someone completely different than who you
are naturally in order to get a man to fall in
love with you. Doesn’t that mean he isn’t
really in love with you?
It’s possible he may leave you, but what have
you really lost? A man that never respected
you enough to commit or respect you as a
person? That doesn’t seem like much of a
loss to me. It seems like a gain. When a man
loves a woman, he doesn’t abscond as soon
as the relationship is tested. He looks at it
as an opportunity to strengthen the
relationship. This is the man you should
have in your life instead of settling for
someone willing to remain simply because
you never stress him out. After all, that might
be the only reason he’s keeping you around.
Source:singleblackmale.org

Stress a caveman out We only club you down and feast on you once. Females only open and close their legs in the cave nothing else. Lastly, no man is allowed anywhere near my harem.

These techniques will only work with today's pansy men. No man who knows his worth will stand for such rubbish.

bigFOOTcaveMAN:
Stress a caveman out We only club you down and feast on you once. Females only open and close their legs in the cave nothing else. Lastly, no man is allowed anywhere near my harem.

A six-pack of Orijin to you sire.

jidxin:
I had to share this because I agree with a lot
of it. I've been both women; the easygoing,
laid back docile girlfriend, and I've been the
oh-no-you-don't, I-won't-take-that girlfriend
and I know which worked better. I would
highlight the parts I feel are important (as
relates to this topic).
I’ve had a number of female friends over the
years ask, How can I tell he loves me? I’ve
answered this question a lot of different ways
but when it boils down to it, the best way to
tell if a man loves you is to STRESS. HIM.
OUT.
I’m serious.
You’re probably thinking to yourself, “Stress
him out? That’s ridiculous!” That’s because
you’ve been brainwashed. 1) A man has to
care about you enough to even let you stress
him out. 2) If a man really loves you, a little
stress is not going to make him leave. An oft
glossed over fact of life is that relationships
take work. If a man is willing to work on your
relationship, it’s because he cares. If he runs
at the first sign of hardship he didn’t value
you or the relationship very much.
You know the type of women that get caught
up in years and years of pseudo-relationship
with no commitment or direction? The laid-
back woman. The woman that causes a man
no stress what-so-ever is the type he keeps
around but never commits to. Sure, they may
never fight because what do they have to
fight about? The relationship has no
substance. She is perfectly content holding
on to the hope of commitment instead of
facing the reality that it may never come but
she fo-damn-sho won’t “stress him out” by
asking a simple, yet pertinent question,
“where is this relationship going?”
Unfortunately, it is the women who follow the
men’s plan – even if it is completely
contradictory to their own – that end up
frustrated and confused when he suddenly
leaves because he was never emotionally
vested in the relationship.
Just as women prefer alpha males, men like
women with a backbone. If you let a man get
away with all kinds of non-sense he
shouldn’t get away with, consciously or
subconsciously, he will lose respect for you.
And no, I’m not saying (or excusing) he will
treat you bad. He just has no incentive to
treat you great , let alone put a ring on it. If
his minimum has proven sufficient, why put
in the excess effort of giving you his best?
Assuming you have reasonable expectations,
standards and goals, then voice them to us.
Give us an opportunity to figure out if we can
and will love the real you. Important to you,
let us accurately assess if we can be the man
you want and need. Don’t get me wrong, you
should remain open to negotiation but you
shouldn’t bite your tongue either. That
comes off as weak. It also comes off as fake.
Otherwise, we’ll both be unhappy when you
“change.” But technically, you never changed.
All you really did was become your self after
the guarantee of commitment…well damn…
it’s nice to finally meet you.
If you have a tough question, ask it. If
something’s bothering you, voice it. If in
being yourself, you stress him out and he
leaves. F-him! It’s his loss, not yours. He
couldn’t accept the real you, which only
means he doesn’t deserve any of you. Point.
Blank. Period.
When a man doesn’t care about a future with
a woman he retreats at the first sign of
stress. You ask where this relationship is
going? He disappears. You ask if he wants
more than sex from you? He stops calling.
You want to know why his ex-girlfriend keeps
calling at 3am? He tells you you’re
overreacting to the point where you actually
believe you are overreacting. YOU ARE NOT
OVERREACTING. These are perfectly
reasonable questions that any logical person
with half a brain should ask and should
receive an honest response. Do not let some
man tell you they are not. Reverse
psychology is older than the words of the
Bible. Don’t fall for it. Know your worth and
expect, if not demand, he honor it. THERE IS
NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT.
I’m not saying you should run into the next
room and slap your man upside the head. I
am saying you shouldn’t have to act like
someone completely different than who you
are naturally in order to get a man to fall in
love with you. Doesn’t that mean he isn’t
really in love with you?
It’s possible he may leave you, but what have
you really lost? A man that never respected
you enough to commit or respect you as a
person? That doesn’t seem like much of a
loss to me. It seems like a gain. When a man
loves a woman, he doesn’t abscond as soon
as the relationship is tested. He looks at it
as an opportunity to strengthen the
relationship. This is the man you should
have in your life instead of settling for
someone willing to remain simply because
you never stress him out. After all, that might
be the only reason he’s keeping you around.
Source:singleblackmale.org

Excuse me but do you honestly think any man will endure such rubbish for a girl? You do know the population of females is far greater than that of males don't you?