LEERICIST:
I won use pidgin yarn dis one gv unu today, as a married man, if u lyk take my advice if u lyk, leave am.
1. Prayer.
Make sure say either you or your wife dey represent your
family for God matter.
Man wey nor sabi pray suppose marry woman wey sabi
pray.
But if you as a man marry woman wey nor sabi pray, make
sure say unu two sidon decide who go dey pray for the
spiritual needs of your new home.
Life na two: Spiritual and Physical.
Na only fool dey blow guy for rain.
You must decide to pray constantly for your family.
2. Faith
Anchor your faith in God.
As a man, many challenges go come. My brother, nor turn
your back away from God.
Pikin fit die, money fit finish, wife fit die, pikin fit nor even
come, bisness fit crumble, and many times, you go dey
suffer. My brother, always remember, even in the midst of
your sorrow, God still cares.
Nor turn your back and walk away from God.
Nor accept evil proposals from cultists or juju pipo
promising to make things better for you.
Remain faithful and steadfast in God. Pipo don pass
through this stage and God help dem out. Yours nor go be
exemption.
3. Begging
95 per cent of men dey cheat on their wife. Dat na fact.
Nor argue am.
Nor let anyone cast you say you be evil man.
No. The difference be say, when some women catch their
hussy redhanded, instead of their hussy to beg, e go dey
gap mouth like say na e right to cheat. Befor we know, the
wife go sing. Everybody go hear.
My brother, if you nor fit dey faithful to your wife, observe
this 5 commandments of cheating. Remember say we don
talk of ten befor for this forum.
A. Nor carry babe go your matrimonial house.
B. Clean yourself befor going home. Delete messages,
throway used and unused condom, delete chats, and
delete call logs.
C. Nor cheat on your wife with pipo wey dey close to your
wife.
D. Nor do skin to skin. Always use condom to stop belle or
disease.
E. Anytime dem cramp you, just go on your knees and beg.
4. Sex
Nor use sex punish your wife for anything or reason.
Always make good love with your wife. Nor rush her during
sex.
Take your time. Admire her unclothedness.
Use your finger, tongue, body movement and even your
eyes.
Touch her small small. Let her cum. And straff her like a
gentle man.
After God, na sex dey woman mind. Anyman wey fit satisfy
e woman sex need, that man fit control the woman .
5. Play your role
Drop feeding money for house regularly. If you nor get, let
your wife know say you nor get.
Be open to your wife. Let her trust you with money. Be a
responsible husband.
A good friend. And a loving companion to your wife.
Let the needs of your woman come first. And nor ever
treat her like a nobody. Be proud of her by letting her
have a say for everything wey concern unu house.
6. Respect.
Respect your wife. Treat her like your mother, sister and
like your pikin.
Nor beat her one day. But if e happen by mistake, I beg,
beg her.
Correct your woman with words.
Nor use demeaning words on her.
Always talk politely with her. Respect her family and always
dey good to dem.
When you dey nice to your woman, her heart go wear your
head her crown.
7. Be a good father
When God bless unu with pikin, my brother, nor transfer
the love wey you get for your wife to your children.
Continue to love your wife, she go love your pikin. And
when you love your pikin, your wife go love you in return.
Be a good father. Provide for your pikin. Stand for them.
Protect them.
Na you be the head of the family, mentor them.
Nor be bad example to dem.
Nor quarrel with your wife for their present.
No matter wetin dey happen, control your anger. When
you and you wife get, nor let the children hear the sound
of unu painful words.
8. Attention.
Always give your wife attention,
If she dey work or do bisness, always discuss the day's
event with her. Show interest in her works and career and
plan with her.
9. Movement.
My brother, reduce your single movement.
All the bachelor lifestyle nai I mean by single movement.
They include
- buying food.
- rabbit life style.
- anyhow spending.
- anyhow dressing.
Etc.
Now when you don marry, make sure you change all
these.
Now, you nor be bachelor again. You must adjust to live a
life to befit this new status.
10. Your family and in laws.
As a married man, always remember your inlaws and your
own family as well as your friends.
Remember your in laws.
Nor forget your own families.
And always keep in touch with your friends.
My new married men, let your marriage work.
We nor wan hear divorce.
We nor wan hear my hussy give another woman belle.
No matter wetin your woman do you, I beg, we beg,
forgive her.
And no matter wetin you do your woman, nor drag who
dey right or wrong. Just accept the wrong and make
peace.
Na this advice I fit give unu today as present for unu
marriage.
On begalf of all the married for Sapele today, I use the
latest couple for the town today
Mr and Mrs Tega Happy Evuen as a point of contact take
pray for unu:
May God bless unu home.
Amen.
Money, children and love na unu birthright.
Amen.
Anywhere unu stand as a family, the grace of God go
stand with unu.
Amen.
Happy married life I wish unu.