I and my gf were virgins, she told me she is tired of keeping her virginity dat her friends are making jest of her,she said she feels like a small gal among them.I can't stand d sight of her giving her virginity to another man, I want to b d first but we r both scared.She also stressed dat she is proud of it Bt nw wants to get rid of it. Pls should I go ahead or I should let her give it to someone else, opinions please nd I am serious about this

This is serious.

Hehe... Virginity threads everywhere this days, it's good sha coz we're all born virgins but lost it or will loose it in one way or the other as we grow.

Op believe me U won't be able to stand the relationship again if ur girlfriend looses her virginity to another guy, U are both virgins and even though premarital sex is not good, if U guys are really ready then do it. Remember to be ready for the consequences, prepare and protect yourself if not be sure to be a father or a murderer (abortion).
Either ways, be assured that once U break her virginity ( and urs), no going back coz it's most likely she'll demand sex from U often.

Another part of me says, DON'T .

Afrok:
Hehe... Virginity threads everywhere this days, it's good sha coz we're all born virgins but lost it or will loose it in one way or the other as we grow.

Op believe me U won't be able to stand the relationship again if ur girlfriend looses her virginity to another guy, U are both virgins and even though premarital sex is not good, if U guys are really ready then do it. Remember to be ready for the consequences, prepare and protect yourself if not be sure to be a father or a murderer (abortion).
Either ways, be assured that once U break her virginity ( and urs), no going back coz it's most likely she'll demand sex from U often.

Another part of me says, DON'T .

did u mean first time sex could lead to pregnancy

Dreyl:
This is serious.

say something na

I repeat.... Dnt even think of it......

After u have broke her virginity the dragon u will release eh,I doubt if u can cope,itz most likely u guys will part ways after that

This section should be renamed KIDS SECTION

Wait....till.......forever.......

kentozybee:
did u mean first time sex could lead to pregnancy

With 2 virgins?...... 85% chance of the girl getting pregnant

Odilafta:
This section should be renamed KIDS SECTION

So you that is an adult what are you doing here na

kentozybee:
did u mean first time sex could lead to pregnancy

My brother there is nothing like first time sex when it comes to pregnancy, sex without protection and other means of preventing pregnancy will most likely result to pregnancy.
Please if U guys aren't ready or know the things to do in order to prevent pregnancy, I'll boldly say DON'T DO IT untill U guys can handle the pre and post enjoyments of sex maturely. The thing (sex) dey sweet but ehn consequences if not prevented is very bitter and will definitely make the sweetness turn to regret.

Premarital sex is not good .

Odilafta:
This section should be renamed KIDS SECTION

As in ehn... The amount of these kinda threads emanating from this section these days is just astronomical.

u guys have all spoken well ,Thanks Fr ur useful opinions

kentozybee:
I and my gf were virgins, she told me she is tired of keeping her virginity dat her friends are making jest of her,she said she feels like a small gal among them.I can't stand d sight of her giving her virginity to another man, I want to b d first but we r both scared.She also stressed dat she is proud of it Bt nw wants to get rid of it. Pls should I go ahead or I should let her give it to someone else, opinions please nd I am serious about this

One question: What's the reason you have remained a virgin for this long? Fear of God or lack of opportunity?

Hw old r u@op n ur gf?

Coughs......ahh... Nkechi get your grandpa his weed biko this cough wan high me be4 time.

My son @op pls your question are for the gods but thank your stars am one but first let me Ask you a question.
Let assume your are still in high school let ss2 and you got straight admission into the university with all expenses paid will reject it because you didn't write jamb.

pretydiva:
Hw old r u@op n ur gf?

I am 19 nd she is 18

jnrprof:


One question: What's the reason you have remained a virgin for this long? Fear of God or lack of opportunity?

both but partially Fr d fear of God

kentozybee:
both but partially Fr d fear of God

Firstly, if the fear of God is your reason, then that should be your driving force. Will giving in to your gf's demand really show that you have any form of fear and reverence for God?

Secondly, you're just 19! you really have greater priorities than gf and sex issues.

Get wisdom and let God guide you

kentozybee:
I am 19 nd she is 18

[size=64pt]teenagers [/size]

OP,hell is real.Do it at your own risk.

Give me her number first, before you do

kentozybee:
did u mean first time sex could lead to pregnancy

It will affect your entire life,will sap your youthful energy and will attract God's wrath.Desist from it!

kentozybee:
I am 19 nd she is 18

Chai,UMUAKA!

kentozybee:
I and my gf were virgins, she told me she is tired of keeping her virginity dat her friends are making jest of her,she said she feels like a small gal among them.I can't stand d sight of her giving her virginity to another man, I want to b d first but we r both scared.She also stressed dat she is proud of it Bt nw wants to get rid of it. Pls should I go ahead or I should let her give it to someone else, opinions please nd I am serious about this

. OP, hold on to your determination, don't allow any girl to distract you. You are still young and therefore need to be focused. You might not be able to handle the consequence. Once u start, u won't be able to stop. Pre marital sex is not right, continue to fear God. Flee from all appearance of evil.

kentozybee:
I am 19 nd she is 18

So at just 18, a girl is already tired of keeping her virginity!? OMG! The rest of us yet to marry are really in soup.

LegatusGlaber:
Give me her number first, before you do

come vote for me na,am in group 4

jnrprof:


Firstly, if the fear of God is your reason, then that should be your driving force. Will giving in to your gf's demand really show that you have any form of fear and reverence for God?

Secondly, you're just 19! you really have greater priorities than gf and sex issues.

Get wisdom and let God guide you

thanks Mr

For the fact that she's even asking it from you . .
If you don't disvirgin her,another guy will,that's for sure . . Even tho she luvs u,the peer pressure and the feeling of wanting to "belong" is much on her.
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If you need her,disvirgin her.
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And if you don't disvirgin her,you'll lose her,but you've just overcome a temptation from the devil and hence,more blessings from God

mesoade:
Incase

of wat

Mehn go on do it