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Efuaye:
I know someone who is currently serving a jail sentence; he was kicked out by his wife and imprisoned for a domestic brawl that occurred 15 years ago!

Your convict friend is lying to you. He did something fvcked up and is paying the price.

#ogatellus

nwirinedu:
You when you re finally financially stable with no eggs and no kids.

If I looked that good at 42, I wouldn’t be crying.

It’s funny how you all resort to AI for what you claim is a real world problem in women. Where is your real life example?

Where is your real life example of a woman crying alone on her 42nd birthday?

Why did you use an AI generated photo?

Tallesty1:
Because we're not overly sensitive? That was a dark humor

Who isn’t overly sensitive?

Notice how nobody had a hunch he wasn’t Nigerian until YOU mentioned it.

Tallesty1:
He's from Uganda

Him being Ugandan changes nothing. Most of you share his sentiment.

dapadawee:
You want to belong but lack the initiation knowledg.
No treatment for fibroids only surgical procedure can remove fibroids, that's your number one blunder.
Let me educate you. Even after removing fibroids through surgical procedure the chance of growing back is very high.
Lastly the chance of you having growing fibroids after delivering all your children is very low.

My response to your nonsense.
We are not stopping fibroids because all women have fibroid we are saying to avoid story that you will later regret it is better to marry and give birth early so that fibroid will not take over your entire uterus

Are surgical procedures not a form of treatment? Or what’s your point? Fear mongering?

There’s a link between hair relaxers and other hair products in black women and fibroids.

Not once have I heard of a white woman having fibroids. And western countries have a lower birth rate than Africa.

Now is it due to delayed childbirth or is the Doctor just trying to be disingenuous?

bukatyne:
He has stuff going for him.

Besides, he does not follow the traditional roles in marriage (according to him).

He doesn't have a choice.

bukatyne:
And what is wrong with that?

What's right about it? She's a submissive provider. He doesn't work.

Solomon Buchi, the leader that his wife LEAD to London.

Stephen Akintayo is a thief

heykims:
I sincerely don't see any meaningful logic in a woman dropping her maiden surname for her husband's.

They want women to drop their surname and then turn around to say wife no be your family.

Mad. He likely came to Nigeria to scout for a wife where nobody knows who he is and black women w/ low self esteem scooped him up

There is no way he has a good job as a sex offender. He can't even be around his own child unsupervised.

Albertone:
I predicted this your response and I wasn’t disappointed.

If it were matters of relationships in the UK, you go don dey wet already

If you've insulted me on a previous account, why not maintain the same energy? Dey go abeg.

Albertone:
1sharon, I know we mostly have differing opinions on issues(on my prev account), I would love to have your take on this issue.

And what's your previous account?

I don't know what her point of this low key brag is?

If she truly regrets them, she should give it all away or sell it.

I don't blame you.

Nigeria needs a health insurance system.

Now they want to separate themselves. After claiming they were one.

People will continue to see them as the same as long as they continue to accept the hausa-fulani tag.

Blackdisciple:
Onky her reaction shows he knew why he hide the lil girl from her because of the type of woman she is

Then why is he with her? Why didn't he date a good woman?

Blackdisciple:
Probably he was afraid because he knows how 99.9% of Nigerian women will not take care of the child and will be treating them as maid and an outsider.

But as for me I would have told her besides the said girl is a grown up girl and for sure he already have that girl long before he married his wife, this is not a case of infidelity

See hypocrital takes everywhere.

Would you take care of a child your wife tried to pass off as yours?

Kog45:
The two late pastors,I meant pastor and pastor Mrs Odukoya failed in their children upbringing.

Lol. Your God has constantly been depicted with long hair

ednut1:
Men can get sex and babies for next to nothing these days. Why marry

What household will the child fall under.

Instead of dating the woman that is serious. You went for fine face and yansh.

You should have dated good women.

As long as you're equally ready to contribute to the running of the home, cleaning, cooking, childcare. Or is that still a woman's job?

You're not a simp if you rely on a woman financially. But you're a simp if you back your own baby. Explain the hypocrisy.

odinson1:
I can protect myself far better than you can protect yourself though

Sure.

odinson1:
African men just lost to the white men. But they definitely protected their women from other African men
The fact that African men lost to white people, doesn't change the fact that African men were protectors overall, you get?

You didn't protect shit, you don't have the capacity too. You can't even protect yourself.

Dpsychologist:
Still resorting to history and bringing what happen to our forefathers and trying to blame it on me. Such a cheap way to divert the topic at hand.


You can't even counter contents of my topic but resorting to logical fallacy. Well I am not surprised, it's typically bahavior I was expecting.

Still doesn't discredit the validity of my statements.

Blaming it in you. Awww do you want to cry?
You understood what I meant, but you'd rather score a point with semantics.

You want to ride on the success of other groups of men.

Dpsychologist:
Oh, how predictable—mockery instead of logic. Oh, so now you're suddenly a historian? Cute. Let’s dissect your weak attempt at mockery.

First, men didn’t just pave roads; they built entire civilizations. If you’re specifically talking about Nigerian men, you might want to ask yourself who colonized and exploited Africa in the first place. It wasn’t because men didn’t fight—it was because the world has always been ruled by power, deception, and superior warfare. Even the strongest nations have fallen at some point in history, US was once colonized by UK.

Second, you conveniently ignore that women played their own role in history. While men fought wars and built societies, women were cunning, often siding with the victors—whether through marriage, alliances, or betrayal. Who do you think contributed in selling out their own people to foreign invaders? Who do you think benefited from these arrangements while men were on the frontlines dying?

But sure, keep laughing behind a screen built by men, using electricity and the internet invented by men, in a society where men still bear the burden of protection and provision. Because at the end of the day, when danger comes knocking, guess who you’ll still expect to stand between you and destruction? A man.

Now tell me, what have you built?

Oga, you couldn't even pave your own road or illuminate your streets. You were conquered becuase you were weak. Leave story.

AllBlack:
Interesting! And what is the FREE LUNCH in a woman?

The illusion of a free lunch depends on whoever is offering it and it can be male or female.

Even God doesn't offer free lunch.

lordwoz:
I mean guys in general
Not the OP

The same.

Nigerfine3:
Checked A I,it said it was true

So? AI isn't accurate.

odinson1:
Why didn't the women protect themselves? I thought y'all never needed men

You mean to say african women in 1642 were saying they don't need men?

aieromon:
💯

https://www.nairaland.com/7625235/man-tears-wife-blocked-all

Interesting.


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