₦airaland Forum

Drella:
Between an abroad-based woman who brings a man from Nigeria AND an abroad-based man who brings a woman from Nigeria, who among the home-based persons have the highest tendency to fall out of love and take 50% of their partners worth after divorce?

There is no statistics on this, I'd say it's a tie between them. As much as you all want to cast bringing wives from Nigeria, you conveniently forget men leave as soon as they get their papers. Or you want to pretend you haven't heard stories from that side?

Nobody wants what you're selling oga.

It's better for those single women abroad to remain single than bring any trouble from Nigeria.

Drella:
That doesn’t invalidate what the poster said:


Because if you were to choose between abroad men that don’t have your time and naija men that will gladly marry you, the choice is obvious.

So because they have their time(for their own nefarious reasons) that makes them the best men? Is that a good man?

Drella:
The topic of single women abroad has been overflogged. Everyone knows they aren’t the best catch over there.

Their best bet is to marry from Nigeria because it’s only home-based men that still rate them.
So, he doesn’t need to sell himself. Countless abroad naija ladies need him already.

They only rate them because they see them as an escape route. It doesn't make them good people. You know that.

Ah. I was just thinking how a car as wrecked as that didn't leave him looking more injured. He doesn't appear to have broken bones or more tubes coming out of him.

Seems like you're really enjoying it.

ghettochild:
Na so them do do Shakara..
Abroad men sef no dey gree marry dem...na two just use them birth kids..
The best men for them na those ones wey dey back home but them go degrade the ones back home.
Abeg tell her say u don't deal with ladies who are based in nigeria.
It's tit fot tat.

Lol. You dey sell yourself.

ruggedtimi:
Girls to like online food order...Damn!!

So what?

And men like to hire drivers and builders for their house.

I don't trust these people !

nwirinedu:
Why are you developing high BP is my facts are wrong? Alimajiri.

Yes.

Ifybwoy:
Guy you are talking trash. The main reason for our naija women misbehaving abroad is because majority of them never married for love but because they believe the young man will protect them financially.

I've heard my female nursing friends discussing about this same issues, they will tell you about women narrating to them that they now find their husbands irritating and hardly allow their husbands to touch them, why because these women are now making their own money too and their eyes don clear, they realize that they went into the marriage because of hunger and financial security.

And our Nigerian brothers are not helping matters, they think it's all about woeing women with money to make them love them and marry them, and sadly these women in their own part also thinks they are in love not knowing it's just because of the financial security the man provides that's making them fall in love.

Most women here in UK tricks their husbands into beating them so as to get divorced from their husbands, just because they now find the husband that sold his land and properties to bring them to the UK irritating and have fallen out of love with him for no just reasons.

Nigerian men should try and marry women that genuinely loves them and not the one that was forced into love with money and expensive gifts.

Person wey use money buy love no dey pay finish.

A woman can easily bend her rules for the man she genuinely loves no matter what.

Pls how how does a woman trick a man into beating her ?

I know what you are.

Edonimose

😂

ibedun:
No I am not suited to it, and I can also identify people who are not so suited. You’re one of those.

Ewedan.

ibedun:
Sharon, please leave marriage alone. You’re not suited to it.

Are you suited to it? Tell us. Address my points.

nwirinedu:
It is not the so called burdens on the women that kill the marriage, rather the undeserved privilege of being able to divorce your husband without any explanation.
Many Nigerian women (especially the poverty-stricken ones who lost their way to the UK) use this advantage to kick their husbands out of the home he has been paying mortgage for.

When you reward people for doing a particular thing, they will repeat that thing.

Good thing Trump is taking care of the marriage scam in his own end.

Many Nigerian men have died because of the sudden change in personality of one wretched girl that he spends money trying to train to be a nurse or doctor, when these girls accomplish this things they just dump the man.

It you re going abroad with your wife better check her well, the treachery is too much at times these women don't even consider the welfare of the children just their selfish interests.

See your mouth like mortgage. Who dash am? About 30% of homeowners in the UK are black. For an immigrant Nigerian, that percentage is even less.

If a Nigerian immigrant man is paying the mortgage, there is a good chance that his wife is helping him pay it.

Money stops nonsense, if women in Nigeria had the means, they'll also leave their marriages.

I always tell my little cousins in Nigeria to make money before marrying. A broke woman is more vulnerable than a broke man.

Yemon:
God bless the Indian marriage system.

Forced marriages, honour killings and acid attacks? Sure.

Eastman20:
It's only an unfortunate man in this era dat will take Nigerian gals abroad esp Igbo gals

Once they get there, they bring out their witchcraft...At d end they will come up with their usual slogan dat d husband is treating her bad

HOW CAN SOMEONE TREAT U BAD BUT BROUGHT U TO ABROAD....PLS I NEED SUCH BAD TREATMENT


Nigerian ladies are very vindictive and cunny...take them abroad and suffer fr it

The best thing is to leave them in Nigeria, although they will be sleeping around but it's better than being kicked out from d house u laboured to get

A man can very much take his wife abroad for selfish reasons. Don't be disingenuous. It happens.

It starts from Nigeria. Alot of igbo men want to marry nurses because they know it's easy for her to get a visa he can jump on.

They come abroad and the wife becomes the cash cow of the family. She gets frustrated and because she can afford to, she leaves the marriage

Later the idiot will start crying that brought his wife abroad and she left him. His ego won't allow him to say he used her visa.

Yes, as much as you all don't want to admit it, men use women for their resources too.

Arrowhead71:
Instead of her telling us your real age
She said......
She is not 18 years
She is not 20 years
Also she is not 25 years
But she is a graduate..... in years
So mathematicians in the house, help us solve the equation ( graduate years) because it’s a new age in town

And if you like marry at undergraduate or post graduate, your life , your problem

I read she's 32.

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Mindlog:
The suspect was subject to a deportation order because he was on a terrorism watch list"...and they didn't have him detained in a holding facility but allowed him roam around?

Every frigging time! It's always a failed deportee.

You mean he's not allowed to take off his regalia in hospital?

pocohantas:
Nigerian women abroad are not marrying them
I guess the men are. Hahahaha!

Lol sis, he has spared a Nigerian woman from a loveless marriage

Judolisco:
Most of dis stuffs na to process visa.....

In that case, he would have married a woman.

You lot just don't want to accept that gay people exist in Africa.

I'm happy that he japad and became true to himself.

If was still in Nigeria, he would have deceived a woman into marraige and used her as his beard causing her to become miserable.

Lazy bugger.

Rebuker:
You have a point, bro👍 but when you, as an Igbo man, speak Yoruba, your intention, aim, or joy is to be able to speak exactly like a Yoruba man. You wish to speak Yoruba in such a way that anyone who hears you will praise you for speaking it so well or even for trying to sound like a Yoruba person. No one will mock you; instead, they will be happy to see you speaking it. And since we adopt the language in the first place, trying to sound like the people we learn it from shouldn’t be a bad idea either.

Or should we just stick to speaking our local dialects and forget English? What do you think? 😁😁😁😁

They sound nothing like the people they learnt it from. It obvious to tell, they are trying too hard.

They sound nothing like what they think they sound like

Mayflowa:
She made the rumour more believable by saying she isn’t going to be a 7th wife. That means she knows how many wives Ned has and threw a punchline at him. She doesn’t even care whatever happens to Ned. A better response would have touched on people leaving poor Ned out of this! Oh, poor shouldn’t be used in the same sentence with Ned.

Who doesn't know that Ned has multiple wives? Why should Ned be left out of the rumour when it involves him?

What's your point exactly?

Tell him to check his character

What do you want us to do?

Did you intend to come back? Talk true

Silentgroper:
your answer has an aura of deceit ... I can smell it from a mile away..

I go lie for you?

Silentgroper:
Would you settle for a south African innit, 🤭🤭

Yes 😏