₦airaland Forum

Sheffdon:
like how

Are you a good person? Do you drive women away with your character?

YungG:
But the fact still remains that the air quality in Lagos sucks..

Public shitters don't help. I wonder why lagosians take offence to the truth rather than target the demographic that make it smelly.

omooba969:
I have my reasons for identifying Asake as one without sense. I believe he knows his father well enough to understand that merely throwing #30m at him wouldn't better his life but feed his dirty habits, of which one of them is 'picking up prostitutes'. Now, a whole #30m has gone down the drain, and he's back for more. My argument is that it's not sensible nor pragmatic to just throw money at every problem.

Secondly, now that his father is in need, what reasons has he got not to come to his aid, especially as he's capable? Before anything, Asake has a duty of care towards his parents regardless of their characters. Asake neglecting his father, and not picking his call can not be justified.

I understand that some family members can be a pain, but above all, FAMILY IS EVERYTHING.

Oh really? What's the solution aside money? I'm sure it's primarily money his father wanted and money he got. Now he's back for more.

I don't blame Asake, 30m is enough to change an average Nigerian's life. His father could have saved it, but he didn't. He could have invested it, but he didn't.

"Family is everything" -that's the motto that they use to bobo people all in the name of family. Leave story.

I see where the beef lies. She's not an indigene and she called lagos smelly.

tollyboy5:
Omo a se be fun e!
Sha mi si

I'm not a deadbeat, neither will I use my kids as a retirement plan. So no, my kids won't do it to me.

Life no be nolllywood. Child.

tollyboy5:
Is it a b@stard that pays their parent off.

Congratulations. I'm guessing Asake's father deserves an unlimited supply of millions daily along with Asake's blood.

power44t:
I know you are one baby mama somewhere and that is how you will remain forever a broke frustrated baby mama. ode.

You will remain an embittered baby father and die in penury. Your children will grow up to batter you.

tollyboy5:
The father that sent him to school is deadbeat? But mohbad's mother is not deadbeat.
He paid his father off with 30m?!
Only b@stard will do that.
You can't pay your parent off.

So how much do you suggest he give his father? 100million?

If he couldn't do anything reasonable with 30m, that suggested he is useless and bad with money. You want Asake to kill himself.

omooba969:
It would be wrong to say that all men have sense, Asake doesn't appear to have any, nor a sound mind of his own.

People are forgetting that Asake said he gave his father 30m so his father won't depend on him, but he blew it all on frivolities and now is left with nothing. Asake said he still carries olosho at his elderly age.

Na the papa wey no get sound mind. Asake has really tried despite his father allegedly being a deadbeat.

Check your character

power44t:
Keep shut ode. everything is not about your wide borehole.

Another single father spotted.

tollyboy5:
Mohbad mother abandoned him for the father. But he took care of both.
Now people are blasting the father for accusing mohbad's wife

Didn't the accusations start with very dark man? The father just jumped on the bandwagon like the sheep he is.

Saidfx:
This is just my fear and that is why I just freestyle and do everything for Allah. My wife abandoned our kids for 6yrs now and I have been taking care of them since then.. I have two two boys and they love me a lots.. however, women are too trickish and I know they will show empathy to thier mother in future.

May Allah help him!

What did you do to frustrate her out of the house? Now you're a single father.


That is what you ppl tell women.

Tightpussy2024:
They are blaming his mother.if she was late,they will blame her for poisoning his mind while she was alive. If she died when he was an infant,then it's his female aunties and relatives or nanny that took care of him they will blame.

In the absent of all the above,maybe a female goat that roams around his premises they will blame. as long anything has vagina,some blames are naturally attached to her/it

Yep

I'm waiting for them to cook up a story on how Asake's father secretly found out Asake wasn't his child and that's why be abandoned him

fman:
stfu

Bar steward.

Food for Gerrard59.

Mumu Nigerians endorsed him because they wanted representation from a Christian brother in christ.

Una don see am.

Kobojunkie:
Who is he/she, and why the mention?

Asake 🤨

Alfa mail.

dauntless15:
Well in my dad's case it's not because he's too busy hustling, he just doesn't know anything about me, infact when he's around everyone tends to become quiet, like if the house is lively and he comes back, everywhere suddenly becomes moody, we grew apart that's all, I don't want to say much but we're practically strangers and it's hard to get along with him.

This is how alot of them are. They act like militants in their households and alienate everybody.

Then decades later: *pretend to be shocked*

I'm happy that Asake isn't married yet. You all would have been quick to accuse his wife. Yeye.

Tonididdyx:
This topic honestly brings tears to my eyes


My daughter will be 4yrs old next month. Right from birth our bond as a father-daughter has being rock solid even though my marriage wasn't.

She calls me papa and sometimes dada which everyone finds so sweet considering it's not a common slang for young kids to call their fathers ( and most sweetly she says it with a special tone/phonetics, so much so some persons nicknamed her Chinese 🤣and ask this your daughter na oyibo oh)

Once I pass the door, she will run coming and will grab whatever am holding in hand and when I don't have anything for her, she will come rest on my chest once she sees me resting, she had absolutely no time for her mama.

In simple laymans term, if everyone was forcing my daughter to chew stone, she'll refuse but if I come in the scene and ask her to chew a stone in my hand, she will gulp it at once. That was our bond, she trusted me so much and at any given instance will always remind me she loves me.... I love you papa and my heart go just melt.


Fast forward to last 3 weeks, I had a verbal confrontation with her mother in her presence and went as far as giving her mom a slap to the face and it turned into a shirt-grip match, so angry ( I didn't even realise the impact this scene will have on my once beautiful papas girl)


Well... My wife moved out immediately after that ( there was so much anger I couldn't think and I watched my daughter go away with my wife) spending a night without my angel and I realised what the days ahead will look like, I immediately went in to apology mode.

When I will call to speak with my daughter, she will refuse to come yo the phone, video calls she will just be starring at me and not say a word. My angel
After the call I would cry because I miss her so much. I kept making contacts with her but she just changed overnight ( I never suspected my actions could mean this harm or that a 3yrs old heart could be poisoned)
Till this moment.... She has started to open up a bit after forced conversations over the phone and when I go to see her at her mothers with gifts for her
But every night is misery for me, she will never sleep in her bed but mine, she had half my heart and I wonder how she's coping, if I can't even cope.
As for I and my wife, I don't think we are ever coming back.
She has spoken of co parenting but lately she's not taking my calls anymore, she really wantsy daughter to forcefully get over me, as for my 11months old son, he's the complete opposite of my daughter relationship wise, he's a mamas boy since birth.

What an arsehole you are.

No be Gadus be this ?

Op thanks for the recognition ✌🏽

South Africa don cast?

Tomorrow it will be Burundian women

Jman06:
Not me, but those guys who're interested in such shouldn't be treated differently from ladies who do same

Not you ofcourse. You're own must be different 👍🏽

Ojuntana:
How is calling a girl my wife sexual harassment

Go and born daughter and then you'll learn.

Jman06:
It is not a bad idea for Nigerian guys to copy what you ladies are good in. Two can play the game

Feel free my princess.

lordm:
Something tells me that woman must have provoked that man beyond what she is saying.

Creamypie:
Madam talk truth. Wetin you tell am?

Did you have the same response when that senator assaulted a taxi driver? No you didn't. You all rallied around him.

The Herbert Wigwe family is accusing Tochi of living a champagne life, which they believe she is too young to enjoy. Tochi is living alone with the house servants in the palatial mansion on Queen Drive, Ikoyi, that her dad built, which he did not enjoy before he died. They also accused her of flying private jets and using the private jet that the dad left behind for her local travel

Bitter family.

TooMuchStuff:
But the wealth is too much for the children naa..
Make him family and good inlaws chop small...
His siblings are not supposed to suffer again especially if they have good character.

I hate it when a small girl inherited a generational wealth only to attract druggie thugs later in life as romantic partner to waste the billions on drugs

You're just jealous. It's not her fault, your own father didn't leave a legacy for you.

You better get to working, so your own children won't look at another man's property with longing and bitterness, just as you're doing right now.

"Small girl" at 26. But it's that same age you will say is enough to marry.

Egypt and India are two places a woman should never visit. Especially if you're black. Arabs and black people don't mix.