₦airaland Forum

luminouz:
Keep shouting manipulation upandan like a broken record. Yet you are still single and you are in the UK. Men have been coming home to marry women and the word hasn't broken down. I have two of my besties travel down to marry their girlfriends but I have NEVER SEEN any woman come home to marry her boyfriend.

But you are already learning...At least you still have some time left

TONYE001:
Marriage is about making choices. If a lady refuses to come back home and "find some average, struggling guys to marry and help their life while the guy also help their life", how can you describe such a lady as wicked?

Just like saying Nigerian men in the cities that refuse to go to the village to marry an average village girl is wicked.

Idaytesj29:
You want married men to use condom for their legally married wives? Are you real?

The stories of married women and men jumping around claiming they are not satisfied by their partners didn't ring a bell right?

May be you are young and single, may be you are not suppose to be having this conversation.

Make husband and wife dey use condom? Lol 😂😆😂. Frustration loading for them.

sircrabo:
Upto four mothers day celebrations in a year, yet fathers are seldom remembered. Please take care of yourself as a man and be selfish attimes.

Saybal:
This food for thought

Instead of thinking deeply about the whole thing ,and determined to change the narration the females on nairaland continue to argue ,as if their is prize to win.

If you claim you love your husband what effort s are you putting in place to help him to reduce all this burden that brings untimely death.

Men should try and marry right ,there are still good women that build with the husband , they are not easy to find ,but we have them.

JayEdm:
Funny thin is that most of these people y'all are claiming died cos of hustling for their families and not taking care of themselves,it was even the women that were the breadwinners. Alot of you guys commenting too,na una wife dey bear the household burden but has to hide it to make y'all look good. But you are all over here advising other men to rest and treat themselves. Lol....

And also, you guys should learn to stick to your wives ..in the event of "enjoying",you spread your seeds thinking there are no consequences,y'all acquire many side chicks and take over their responsibilities..they bill you dry and you even do extra jobs to meet up. You take sexual enhancers to please them. Then when you drop dead,it's because your wife and children stressed you out?? You lots are delusional.

favour32:
Don't compare.
The odds are against men.
Few men lived longer compared to thousands of women living longer.... don't go there?
Pressures of life kill men silently.

Idaytesj29:
Women has arrays of options in FP than men. Only of recent I hear of a research breakthrough of pills for men taken once a year, only option available had always been through surgery called vasectomy ( not sure I got the spelling)

If the pills becomes available soon, trust me. Men will have no problem using it.

Idaytesj29:
Some wives silently want more children. They will refuse to use family planing or chose an unreliable one leaving the opportunity of pregnancy in the ratio. Also, some will give medical reasons to not do effective family planing eg saying pill may cause Cancer or alter their body like excessive weight gain, bleeding or excessive weight loss Etc... these are educated women I, not illiterates.

But the man is still at the receiving end of
this. May God help us.

erad:
Do you know the age difference of between husbands and wives back then?

Must every nonsense be farmed for engagement?

pansophist:
Nigerians find it hard to understand the lonliness that is common in the west.

Sometimes you can go the whole week without talking to anyone (e.g, except for cashiers), and its even worse for migrants without families around, and old retired people.

Hardly you will walk in the park, shopping centre of any busy place without seeing lots of old people or disabled on wheelchair just sitting and looking around, with the hope that some can just say[sub][/sub] hello to them.

You are surrounded by wealth and luxury, but feel so insignificant and invincible, that your very sense of being will be questioned.

And if you are a not-so-attractive individual, then it comes with an additional punishment of romantic invincibility, that some even travel home strictly for the desire to refill their sexual urge.

I am just laying the groundwork to understand why someone will rape a pony, or what did he even rape sef?

But in life, I pray thee, that you do not find yourself in unfortunate circumstances, as you might do things you will never in your wildest dream do,

Damion Ogeare, 43, of Trowbridge, Wiltshire, was caught on camera entering the pony's stable before carrying out a disgusting act on the defenceless animal, leaving the owner heartbroken

A man who avoided jail for "raping" a Shetland pony was "lonely" a court heard. Damion Ogeare, 43 admitted the disgusting act after his DNA was discovered inside the pony during a vet assessment.

CCTV footage caught Ogeare entering Cassieopia's stable around 6.30pm on January 24 last year, with the pony being restrained using a dog lead. Prosecutor Tom Wright revealed in Winchester Crown Court that Ogeare spent about 10 minutes in the stable before emerging half-naked.

The court heard how a dog lead was found discarded at the scene, which was used to restrain the animal. Concerns were raised among locals after the incident, with one man reporting finding a dog lead on a cow.
Cassieopia's owner, Christine Woolley, blasted Ogeare as a "horrible man" and stated that her ponies are her "whole life", and his actions have "ruined my trust in society".

Mrs Woolley expressed her outrage and frustration saying, "To have one assaulted in such a degrading manner has completely ruined my trust in society."
Holly Fagan, defending, told the court that trying to make sense of the crime was futile, noting that the defendant was "going through a period of acute loneliness and isolation" at the time of the offence.

"He's expressed a great deal of remorse" she continued, revealing that Ogeare wishes "express his deepest apologies" to Mrs Woolley. Ms Fagan highlighted that her client is on benefits, has been off work for a considerable period, and a hip replacement has further "contributed to his poor mental wellbeing".

Recorder Gordon Bebb, presiding over the case, began his sentencing remarks with a clear message: "Judges in court are used to most things but sometimes certain crimes stop even a hardened judge in their tracks, and this is one of those offences."

He added, "I know that any right thinking member of the public would be completely disgusted by what you did."

For the charge of sexual penetration of a living animal, he handed down an 18-month community order to Ogeare, which includes 30 days of rehabilitation activities with the probation service. Additionally, an indefinite restraining order was set in place, barring him from contacting Mrs Woolley or visiting Whaddon Lane, as well as the surrounding stables and fields.

The defendant avoided being listed as a sex offender – a requirement that only applies if an individual receives a custodial sentence for such an offence.

Recorder Bebb also instructed Ogeare to reimburse Mrs Woolley £299.50 for her vet bills and the expense of a new CCTV camera she bought for extra security

Blitzerz:
Surname is not a topic after bride price. Abeg rest

Obrigardo:
I dont know who'd believe this. Is the dead internet theory now working on nairaland?

Your first topic and your first post.

Shift!

Mindlog:
You do most of the house chores and still foot 100% of the billings in Germany?

Blitzerz:
Traditional men didnt do monogamy though.
So be careful what u ask for

vision202020:
Can you give me the business idea if I can try it with my wife over here?

cr7lomo:
U always find a way to blame the man thats the victim....after the sacrifice.... Will u say same if a woman spent 30m to bring her man to UK and they man then dumps her for another woman?? The difference between men and women is that men will attack their fellow men when they do that...but women will hardly do same to their fellow women that do wrong.... if women are not the problem in domestic issues, why is it that its always mother in law and sister in law vs wife.... why is it that women always fight each other when they live together...why is it that 80 % of lesbian marriages end in divorce and violence, while on the other hand 20% of gay male marriages end in divorce ... while 50% of heterosexual marriages end in divorce.... why is it that women are very violent towards those weaker than them, like children ,their workers and sick people....

GanagiBitrus:
I [b][/b]really don't think the Will strips the woman completely of all the wealth if she remarries. I believe she will still retain some of his wealth but not bulk of it.

&A woman can build a man up from her own acquired wealth, but not from an opportunistic wealth made from the death of her previous husband who slaved for that wealth.
So you expect she should inherit all the wealth, remarry & run away with that wealth & deprive the man's family of their son's wealth.

NassBoy:
I thank you for your understanding. I'm not too disturbed or worried about her but my son. That little boy needs a father around him

GanagiBitrus:
I don't think it's about another man enjoying his wife. Rather it's intended to keep his wealth within the family.
If the wife inherited his wealth & later remarried, the wealth will automatically be lost to Iwuanyanwu's family & possibly become transferred to the new husband.

Creamypie:
Iwanyanwu was a wiseman. How one lazy pig go come dey enjoy my wealth bequeathed to my wife, dey form big boy, driving my suvz?

Gerrard59:
But why would a man buy a car for his side chic when his wife uses public transport?

2mch:
That guy lied to you. He can never be imprisoned for something that happened 15yrs ago, as long as it’s not murder. He certainly beat the wife and was arrested. A lot of these guys are too ashamed to tell the truth of what they did. This guy here is also probably lying. It’s better for him to be told to leave than to be arrested for what he probably did. Many Nigerian men respond to conflict with their fist. We all know this.

trentslawson:
As a black man in a white man's land, you should be scared of getting close to there women, because your color alone is already threat, its even worst if they realize you are a Nigerian, innocent or not, only God can save you

He claimed that such behavior toward women in Nigeria “would not be reported.”

cr7lomo:
Hundreds of Pakistanis sexually assaulted over 15 thousand teenagers in the uk over the years and the authorities knew about it and did nothing about it