₦airaland Forum

faceland:
It use to stand but they have deflated it with pressing and bitting.

Jeon:
21!.
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I classified her under mid 30s and above.

dapsoneh:
e dey pain u? Cos dts what u plan to do wen u get thre if u ever

Tommydare:
The order of things in the so called stupid clime start from children to women to animals to men. Men are treated with the least respect in the stupid clime.

dapsoneh:
Nothing is bad bringing ur wife from Africa but the UK should pass a law protecting men(whether Africans or not) from this rubbish gold diggers. How can u cheat and still has the efrrontery to evict ur husband

Beremx:
the babe na Twitter baddie according to people that dug her information out. She's been advertising herself for second wife position. Na so our Oga Jayrus pick interest asking her if she's single.

Gen Z Twitter baddie. Jayrus don enter one chance.

Gloriagee:
N she's showing her shoulder and uncovered hair too. My problem is if this is how he wants his woman to look like, should he not be consistent from the selection stage? Or can't he work with wifey to alter her taste to match his instead of replacing her?

kkins25:
The lady is pretty!!

During my uni days, Muslim women were driving me mad😁😁, especially the baddie ones...The number of times I thought of joining Islam ehnn... Love wan wound me. 😂

Who says men don't like baddies? 😂😂

Una dey believe my gender?

cococandy:
They usually hate such women until they get money. Then you realize they hated them because they couldn’t have them. Now they can have them, the goody two shoes virtuous women become a background choice while they pamper the “olosho ones” with everything they refused to give miss good girl.

The way I’ve never and will never encourage a woman to abide by societal definitions of what it means to be a good woman just so she can keep a man? Over my cremated body!

PrinceofAgoAre:
Making sacrifice..

What sacrifices 😕😕

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It's not like he's divorcing her , so what's is the need for her to re-marry..

She's still going to be his 1st wife .. she'll still be the mother of his kids .. she'll still be in charge of everything she's in charge of . Heck, the other Lady might not live in the same house as hers ..

She's not being relegated, she'll still be as relevant as she is to him so why does she need to re-marry?? 😕

Funny enough, the second wife would be made to show her respect and address her as a superior .. so I still don't get why she would feel the need to re-marry..

Gloriagee:
Yen yen yen. Most likely the incoming wife was fetish too or u think it's normal to marry a woman advertising herself on Twitter instead of just having a fling with her. The wife was desperate and desperate times call for desperate measures. Her desperation in itself was fueled by her husband's insensitivity.

I definitely will have dumped his sorry ass but every Mallam to his own kettle.

Gloriagee:
Some men can be so naive. Pretty sure she was the greedy one, not the first wife.

Would have loved to see her pic

pocohantas:
Educationally and intellectually he is sound. Though he always struck me as someone to bully people with his position.

Men can be pro-anything when sex and their egos are involved. You would see the most educated having takes that will shock you. It is more of a conscience thing for me. Some are sensible to know (and reward) loyalty. Some are not. I have no hot take for him. He displayed his human nature. Women do not act theirs with such swiftness because we are the ones who bear the burden of reproduction. He as a man simply has to move on to the next and have 2 more kids. My concern is how women see a man treat the wife of their youth in one way and still chook head. It boils down to same belief of being the different or favoured one.

FatimaAbubakar:
Keep deceiving yourself by comparing animal life with humans. Men are wiser. No time for entitled women.

pocohantas:
The woman doesn't seem so enlightened. He is using education and exposure to box her into a corner. I read he wants full custody of the kids. That is how you know a wicked man. Now he has hammered and decided to marry an educated baddie. 1st Wife dey use android with greasy camera, 2nd wife dey use iPhone with 3 cameras.

pansophist:
Decency is a woke bullshit? are you okay?

Feel free to exercise your religious right to polygamy, my point is simply that the wives in it must consent to it. You can't rope a woman into a family structure she doesn't want to be in.

My advice is for your own good. The point for being decent is to safeguard yourself, simply because you do not have a monopoly of being indecent.

Take the OP's case as an example. His wife has begun a diabolical process because he unilaterally changed the family structure without her consent and approval.

If you justify indecency because it's your right to marry many wives, then you've inadvertently justified others to do the same, and their response might be disproportional. Some may go for your life, or do something even worse. Death is not the worst punishment.

And you are there comparing women to animals? shame on you. That's something a person unworthy of honor would say. If they are animals? then why do you want to marry more than one?

BRATISLAVA:
He's already said enough.

Giving nairaland vibes on Twitter. Perhaps the other content of his posts will save him.

BRATISLAVA:
How to you know he was not cheating? Because he's a man?

Why did he bring it to Twitter? What is he trying to prove? Is he trying to manipulate all the men to believe he is innocent, or what is the point of his tweet?

He's a grown man. He should have done better. And you cannot say he was not cheating, unless you are his private part.

Tightpussy2024:
Do you have the energy to argue with a man that believes praying or doing whatever possible to secure her marriage is ritualism? If she had done it for his promotion at work or ease his ill health will he refer to It as ritualism?

I don't believe racism towards black men exist, people didn't just wake up and decide that a black man is inferior. Go to quora and other Caucasian dominated forums and spaces. And the quality of comments you will wonder if its the same God that created naija men and western men.

As I talk to you there is a thread on this forum discussing why rape is not a big deal and not as painful as women claim

BlueRayDick:
So she’s ready to reduce her lifespan like this as second wife ?

She’s not an advocate of polygamy but a willful participant .

Na wa o.

islamics:
Women can also file for divorce in Islam
though it is disliked. But she can file for divorce if the husband is not meeting his responsibilities and fulfilling her rights and she can't bear with him.
If the husband doesn't accept, then if the wife is able to convince the judge/Imam, the marriage can be dissolved. That the women are silent doesn't mean they don't know their right. Some might be naive while some are trying to keep up with the husband.

islamics:
If indeed it is, the religion would not have given men much responsibilities/task. Because, in an ideal settings, irrespective of the woman status, her care/security/all is the responsibility of the man.
The 'men' religion honour women in various ways, for instance, the men who you claim has the religion have their paradise lying under the feet of a woman (the mother), the woman is entitled to inheritance baring the facts that she is to be provided for, the woman as a mother is entitled to more respect than the father (men). Again, even when divorced, she is to be provided for, for a certain period of time depending on the scenario and she can be welcomed back again depending on the type of divorce/case.

cococandy:
and the church said amen

cococandy:
Extremely convenient. As with all the other religious laws they hide behind to be heinous human beings. God just casually signed off them on being absolute jerks because they his favorites. Women just don’t count 🫠

TheSuperX:
I guess that's her greatest fear, but she should have known better because she's a Muslim and she knows herself that Islam permits polygamy.