hi do you still find it difficult to connect your android flash share/xender? click the below link to learn it with image to help. thanks

http://www.gizng.com/2014/02/easy-method-to-use-flash-share-to-share.html?m=1

Open Flashare,created profile, tap on connect,u would see two icons which says created or join,press create then another icon will show up then press got it. pick up the other phone,follow the same procedure but instead of create,press Join,The pictures of ur profiles will show on each screen which means u r connected then start sending. if u are marking the items to be sent,u won't see the send button so just shake the phone that u r using to send.