I’m a big believer that if you want to attract a
man, you shouldn’t play hard to get. You
should be hard to get . Let me tell you: what a
difference a teeny two-letter word can make!
Seriously.
You should actually be busy and having fun —
and not just be playing at being busy having
fun. Create a purposeful life for yourself, where
you’re fully engaged — instead of making
“getting engaged” your sole focus. I want to
add here that becoming seriously busy with
your life should not be done as a
manipulation technique! You should create an
exciting life for yourself because you feel a
genuine sense of self-worth, and know that
you deserve a fantastic life. (If it is the sense
of self-worth that you’re struggling with, well,
start by imagining the life you think someone
who loves themselves would live and try it on
for size!)
Unfortunately, I’ve seen far too many girls —
myself included — who stop creating thriving
lives for themselves once they get a man.
Instead, they start to expect they’ll get all of
their needs met from being in the relationship.
I’ve learned the hard way that this is how you
get burnt out…very quickly. Not only do you
get burnt out – your man does too! It’s truly
bad for your spirit to stop talking to your
friends, stop doing girls dinners, stop doing
the things you love (like going to the gym)
simply because you’d rather spend time with
your guy. When you look to your relationship
as your only source of power, forgetting about
all of the other things that energize you, you
begin to drain each other, instead of
recharging one another.
Trust me: you’re hurting yourself in the long
term if, instead of including the relationship in
your life, you make your life the relationship.
You will have far more to contribute to your
relationship when you create a meaningful life
for yourself, apart from just your partnership.
Men are super-attracted to women who are
actively engaged in life — who have things to
offer them, to teach them.
Always remember: you are a unique individual,
with a purpose on this earth! In fact, this
“unique, inspired, passionate you” is the
“appealing you” who attracted your man in the
very first place. Hence you should never put
this “appealing you” in the very last place!
CREDITS: Divine Caroline

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Exjoker:

I’m a big believer that if you want to attract a
man, you shouldn’t play hard to get. You
should be hard to get . Let me tell you: what a
difference a teeny two-letter word can make!
Seriously.
You should actually be busy and having fun —
and not just be playing at being busy having
fun. Create a purposeful life for yourself, where
you’re fully engaged — instead of making
“getting engaged” your sole focus. I want to
add here that becoming seriously busy with
your life should not be done as a
manipulation technique! You should create an
exciting life for yourself because you feel a
genuine sense of self-worth, and know that
you deserve a fantastic life. (If it is the sense
of self-worth that you’re struggling with, well,
start by imagining the life you think someone
who loves themselves would live and try it on
for size!)
Unfortunately, I’ve seen far too many girls —
myself included — who stop creating thriving
lives for themselves once they get a man.
Instead, they start to expect they’ll get all of
their needs met from being in the relationship.
I’ve learned the hard way that this is how you
get burnt out…very quickly. Not only do you
get burnt out – your man does too! It’s truly
bad for your spirit to stop talking to your
friends, stop doing girls dinners, stop doing
the things you love (like going to the gym)
simply because you’d rather spend time with
your guy. When you look to your relationship
as your only source of power, forgetting about
all of the other things that energize you, you
begin to drain each other, instead of
recharging one another.
Trust me: you’re hurting yourself in the long
term if, instead of including the relationship in
your life, you make your life the relationship.
You will have far more to contribute to your
relationship when you create a meaningful life
for yourself, apart from just your partnership.
Men are super-attracted to women who are
actively engaged in life — who have things to
offer them, to teach them.
Always remember: you are a unique individual,
with a purpose on this earth! In fact, this
“unique, inspired, passionate you” is the
“appealing you” who attracted your man in the
very first place. Hence you should never put
this “appealing you” in the very last place!
CREDITS: Divine Caroline

mhen!!!!!, this is it; this write up makes so much sense; I really wish evvvery lady could read this n try to build something outta dis; well done oP; pls I ask for permission to copy this n dissipate round my social media

Shey na only me no understand?

FLAWLES:
Shey na only me no understand?

Lol... Many ladies will find fault with it. It was actually written by your fellow lady

Exjoker:
Lol... Many ladies will find fault with it. It was actually written by your lady

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Summarise, nigeria girls dont read

Story for the gods

FLAWLES:
Shey na only me no understand?

Yes only u...cos u re dull or dull

Am just waking up from sleep.

abeg anybdy wey don read d tin should help and condense it.

That is not readable!

@op which secondary school do u attend?

U totally type flopped!...

Gbam!!

missbronze:
Am just waking up from sleep.

Have you cooked for me?

tobechi74:
Summarise, nigeria girls dont read

Rotflam! You mean Girls like Flawles don't read?

DonaldGenes:
Gbam!!

Do u guys have light?

DonaldGenes:


Rotflam! You mean Girls like Flawles don't read?

.mtsswww

LewisO:
Do u guys have light?

Nope!

DonaldGenes:


Nope!

Why na

Just asking


Coz this thread has caused " Obscurity " here!

LewisO:





Why na

Just asking


Coz this thread has caused " Obscurity " here!

Let me re-read the post again.

Chillax

Exjoker:

I’m a big believer that if you want to attract a
man, you shouldn’t play hard to get. You
should be hard to get . Let me tell you: what a
difference a teeny two-letter word can make!
Seriously.
You should actually be busy and having fun —
and not just be playing at being busy having
fun. Create a purposeful life for yourself, where
you’re fully engaged — instead of making
“getting engaged” your sole focus. I want to
add here that becoming seriously busy with
your life should not be done as a
manipulation technique! You should create an
exciting life for yourself because you feel a
genuine sense of self-worth, and know that
you deserve a fantastic life. (If it is the sense
of self-worth that you’re struggling with, well,
start by imagining the life you think someone
who loves themselves would live and try it on
for size!)
Unfortunately, I’ve seen far too many girls —
myself included — who stop creating thriving
lives for themselves once they get a man.
Instead, they start to expect they’ll get all of
their needs met from being in the relationship.
I’ve learned the hard way that this is how you
get burnt out…very quickly. Not only do you
get burnt out – your man does too! It’s truly
bad for your spirit to stop talking to your
friends, stop doing girls dinners, stop doing
the things you love (like going to the gym)
simply because you’d rather spend time with
your guy. When you look to your relationship
as your only source of power, forgetting about
all of the other things that energize you, you
begin to drain each other, instead of
recharging one another.
Trust me: you’re hurting yourself in the long
term if, instead of including the relationship in
your life, you make your life the relationship.
You will have far more to contribute to your
relationship when you create a meaningful life
for yourself, apart from just your partnership.
Men are super-attracted to women who are
actively engaged in life — who have things to
offer them, to teach them.
Always remember: you are a unique individual,
with a purpose on this earth! In fact, this
“unique, inspired, passionate you” is the
“appealing you” who attracted your man in the
very first place. Hence you should never put
this “appealing you” in the very last place!
CREDITS: Divine Caroline

Mehn! this guy is stark-illiterate!

LewisO:
Mehn! this guy is stark-illiterate!

What are you trying to say??

Exjoker:
What are you trying to say??

Didn't u see what your write- up?

U totally type-flopped!

LewisO:


Didn't u see what your write- up?

U totally type-flopped!

You're so rude. You should learn to correct people in a polite manner not using some harsh words to do that. Btw i missed the part i made you my editor

Exjoker:
You're so rude. You should learn to correct people in a polite manner not using some harsh words to do that. Btw i missed the part i made you my editor

So u are trying to hit-back at me right?


If u know how to read and understand u won't type the word "rude".

LewisO:
So u are trying to hit-back at me right?


If u know how to read and understand u won't type the word "rude".

Lol... I won't engage you into an argument cause today is Christmas. Kindly check the meaning of "rude" and re-read my sentence again. Thanks

Exjoker:
Lol... I won't engage you into an argument cause today is Christmas. Kindly check the meaning of "rude" and re-read my sentence again. Thanks

The best for u is to end it their...

I wouldn't have mind the thrash u typed, just because u were trying to derail my thread for no reason, so I got furious about that.

But next time always review what u typed very well before posting!

Anyway "Merry Christmas"...