Here are 5 signs that means you're not ready to get into a new relationship after a breakup.
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1. You still think about your ex
This sign is epidemically common especially when you had strong affection for your ex. It mostly occurs when you're alone and your mind tend to wonder away and leads you to those memorable moments you had with your ex. You tend to smile and wish the relationship hadn't crumbled.
If you still experience such, it simply means you're not ready for that new relationship, you still have intimate feelings for that your ex and you need to obliterate it in order for you to move on completely and be happy with your new love.
2. You compare your current relationship with your prior one.
In most cases, the individuals involved are usually the centre of comparison.
That is, when you tend to compare your current gf/bf with your ex..
Humans are heterogeneous in character and attitude, therefore you should expect a contrasting character between your boo and your ex.
They maybe most behaviours that you poised towards your ex that he/she approved and finds no wrong in it, but when you exhibit same behaviour towards your new boo, he/she gets irritated. When you experience such, it simply means you need to do some little adjustment that will be suited for the happiness of you and your boo without causing harm to yourself. (it doesn't mean you should change who you are).
But when you find yourself saying or thinking this.. '' If it were to be John(your ex) he wouldn't react this way''...
This is a clear indication that you haven't gotten over your ex, and definitely your new relationship may hit the rocks in sooner time.

3. You still checkup/peep on your ex on social media
This happens when you intentionally surf through your ex's photos, status updates, tweets etc.
In epitome, you want to know whats recent about your ex.
This is a clear indication that you haven't moved on and you're certainly not ready for a new relationship. There's still that deem feeling lingering in your heart that you haven't been able to do away with.
If you still experience this, you're definitely not fit for a new relationship.
Take time to heal and don't rush into a new relationship, you may rush out!

4. You get uneasy at the sight of your ex and snub him/her
you may disagree with me,, but I'm positive about this!
If really you've completely moved on, there's definitely no problem in responding to a pleasantry passed by your ex. You guys can chill for a while and have a brief talk asking about each others' wellbeing (it doesn't meant you're still in love). No harm in that! Afterall his/she is not an ebola patient that you see and change rout or throw your face to another direction. - if you still do this, you're not ready for a new relationship cause you haven't gotten over the last one.
5. You secretly wish your ex would apologise
This usually happens during early stages of a break up.
That moment your phones rings and you hope its your ex calling to apologise!
In most cases, such feelings may take a longer time to wear off (depends on the individual).
It may not only be during the early stages of a breakup, but the moment you keep wishing for your ex to return back is a clear indication that you're not ready for a new relationship.
NOTE: don't get into a new relationship in attempt to forget the last one and don't date someone in attempt to forget your ex.. It may bounce back!
True love is harnessed when the heart is free, and not when its occupied by the emotional thoughts of the past!
When you've experienced a breakup, don't rush into a new relationship, take time to heal and move on..

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Nairaland

There is nothing wrong with no4 if the ex was a shitty person and you don't want to recognize the person's existence anymore.

I do number 3 alot...no,not alot

Janeify:
I do number 3 alot...no,not alot

The first answer is true...bt on a second thought, u dont want to admit it...lol

Psittacus:
The first answer is true...bt on a second thought, u dont want to admit it...lol

lol...no,it's just that i hate lying

My brother what can I say? Is this a fact?

Janeify:
lol...no,it's just that i hate lying

Hmmmn, i believe u

dechandel:
I do number three alot

how many ex'es have you had?

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