she was my first serious relationship 5yrs back,
she skools in unijos, a medical student and we have hardly said 10words to eachother in 5yrs.
i cant even remeber the last time she called in 3yrs, and suddently she sends me a txt saying,
" u know whats presently happening in jos, and u dint bother to call or testx, soo much for caring".

i tried to call almost immediately, she picks up and tells me never to call her again.
am confused, did i do something wrong?

for the records we have not spoken atall this yr.

propose to her

You should have aleast called.

hehehehehe na wa for situations we de come up oh
mehn she's just acting up thats all i can say about her saying you shouldnt call her again
she just wants attention back again maybe she has issues with the almighty boyfriend

mehn you did nothing wrong, just an act to get you thinking
are you ready to be close to her again ? if yes call am or text am later
if no then let her be mehn

why did you guys depart in the first place?
who's fault was it?

txt her or visit her asap!

do u remember to call all ur ex's ,
seriously i forgot she is based in jos.

so when all the bla bla bla was going on, it skipped my mind.
but atleast she dint need to go over-board.
she for just skold me wen i called and not tell me never to call her again.

oh! so she's your ex. . .

@steve,
we split cos of peer pressure and material issues,
i was still skooling then while she wanted more than i can give.
now am working and well its too late cos it wud just be for money or so i think.

@ moyola,
well i can't leave my job for any reason.
i have tried calling she aint picking. i have sent her a txt saying telefoning is a two way street.
if i was not on one lane, she shud have been on the other.

yes na my ex.

but to be candid i guess sex held us more than anytin else.

izeek:

@steve,
we split because of peer pressure and material issues,
i was still skooling then while she wanted more than i can give.
now am working and well its too late because it would just be for money or so i think.

izeek:

@ moyola,
well i can't leave my job for any reason.

izeek:

yes na my ex.

but to be candid i guess sex held us more than anytin else.

Sorted!!

doesn't seem you'd wanna get back with her, text her again, if she replies. . . . good, if she doesn't better. . .

You need not bother jare!

you and the girl no try at all,i think the problem is from both sides.as for the girl she should shut up and act nice,if the crisis didn't happen would she have called you?guy think am well.

@ moyola
nah i wudn't . been a long time.
and am not a fan of dragging the past into the future.

kool!!!

@drwhopl,
how e take be my fault,
when we split it was majorly her decision.
i had no fault bliv me.
am not saying cos am feeling good, but check am now,
guy in his 19's 20's dating every guys dream girl, dontu think i wud have done all to keep her?
she listened to outside voices alot and it killed every.
although sometime back she tried getting back, buti turned it down cos she said waht pissed me off.
her reason for re-union was def sex related again and i was not gonna do it cos of sex.

well now she calls and laments like i was supposed to be keeping tabs on her to know when all is bad or not.

@izeek

What I'd like to know  is , what is happening in Jos?

are you sure she wasn't/isn't in any kind of problem and might have thought you heard about it without giving a rats arse what she's going thru.

Girls like attention
U were wrong u should have called.
If u have time, call her and beg.
If u dont at least send a txt.

@apolcalypse,
when issues like the one in jos errupts,
the first person u get in touch with is family b4 boyfriend, or even ex.
moreso her popsy works in abuja, so he shud be her first port of call.
how did i now fail hyer in any way?

what the heck , why do you have to modify my post

BabeX:

Girls like attention
[b]U were wrong u should have called.
If u have time, call her and beg.[/b]If u don't at least send a txt.

apocalypse:


what the heck , why do you have to modify my post

LOL!!

Sorry am far from civilization ( with a system and internet connection ) and I only got to know about the Jos incident , really I don't bother with such things when am online.

Back to the topic , I feel you should let things be and don't bother to call her because from your post you don't dig her anymore

well i think by now she shud have some1 else,
let her hassle the guy jare.

What does she expect , 1 year of silence - from both sides - and she expects you'll still be counting sheep for her when she gets back . Bro , unless families have already been involved and concrete plans have been made for a future with her , I don't think anyone would wait on such.
If you don't care , what happened to all those months of silence when she didn't bother to call or get in touch with you , or is it only the man's duty to do the calling and petting

@apo
i can see u have taken up my course,
go on jare my lancelot _{knight of shinning armour.}

strange things are happening oh, na wa 4 relationship oh, well u see what they talk about sex and its soul connection, even though feminine ego wont let her losen up to call you, but her soul still loves you and i guess is the same for you too, that was why u called her, its happened to me too although in a different way

o boy go propose quick. or send western union

@jj ,
so make i send am western union shey?
u try wella did u see my littleton, or mr butterfield by my name?
i be proper african man.

er , ma armour don rust tey tey

She is just trying to make a fun out of you, Guy be careful.

he na wa oh
izk you still de wonder on the matter?

easybabe,
u dey read, wats ur problem self.
some1 sent a txt and i tried to responsd, how did i offend her.
now i know why ur bf dey get restless nights cos of ur way of thinking.