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Re: My Tribal Marks by DavidDylan(m): 3:56am On Dec 06, 2008 |
She's obviously not doomed but how many men are prepared to look beyond those marks? Ask the lady you mentioned how it must have felt wondering if she'd ever get approached by a man. Its not easy . . . |
Re: My Tribal Marks by Kweenisha: 3:59am On Dec 06, 2008 |
DavidDylan: But first he accepted himself for who he was,scars and all.There are many in his position that would have hidden their faces from the world but he didn't. I'm sure there are several others we never hear of who have "overcome" things they couldn't help. That is the same situation here. She like seal didn't bring it upon herself and a scar is a scar. The girl needs upliftment and not a put down. She should not let her scars define her. |
Re: My Tribal Marks by Kweenisha: 4:03am On Dec 06, 2008 |
DavidDylan: I'm sure there's a man out there who would look beyond her scars. There are some of us women that look beyond just the physical and look for substance in a man first (thank God mine came with both) 'll rather be with an intelligent man with no comeliness than a handsome airhead. I don't believe there are no men who would do same. I said this on another thread,I know this fine girl,a physician,excellent shape, charming personality and she has 2 long unsightly scars on her face from tribal marking and she's married to a very handsome guy with absolutely no marks. |
Re: My Tribal Marks by LadyT(f): 4:05am On Dec 06, 2008 |
Something must have made her very self conscience. I agree with David its not easy you will get people asking whats wrong with your face I do know a lady whoses tribal marks turned into huge keloids she have about 8 marks each side you can imagine the state of her face. But she was beautiful loud and proud I dont know how many years it took her to bulid herself up. She married and had about 4 kids. |
Re: My Tribal Marks by DavidDylan(m): 4:06am On Dec 06, 2008 |
Kweenisha: You are right, but obviously the poster is having a crisis of confidence at the moment. Its not easy watching everyone around u get married and u think maybe if not for the scars someone would have come for u too. i feel for her. She can believe . . . but she cant go approaching men now can she? |
Re: My Tribal Marks by DavidDylan(m): 4:07am On Dec 06, 2008 |
LadyT: my point exactly. |
Re: My Tribal Marks by ChinenyeN(m): 4:07am On Dec 06, 2008 |
lucabrasi: Oh okay. Thanks. I didn't know that. |
Re: My Tribal Marks by Kweenisha: 4:09am On Dec 06, 2008 |
@ david and lady T ,I don't deny her reality which you have pointed out but she came looking for advice. Is there nothing you can say since her face remains unchanged despite her efforts |
Re: My Tribal Marks by LadyT(f): 4:10am On Dec 06, 2008 |
Thats not true about Seal! He went into child care after his parents went AWOL! |
Re: My Tribal Marks by DavidDylan(m): 4:12am On Dec 06, 2008 |
Kweenisha: Of course there are things i would have loved to say but i like to be a pragmatist. Its easy to "offer" advice since we have never and will never walk in her shoes. I try to understand what its like to live in her face just for one day . . . I have seen guys who are scared to approach women because of the way they think their face looks . . . the effect must be 10-fold in a woman. All i can tell her is to take heart, if she can afford plastic surgery she shld go ahead and do something about it. |
Re: My Tribal Marks by LadyT(f): 4:13am On Dec 06, 2008 |
I dont think she should lose hope thats why I spoke about the lady with horrific keloid scarring due to her tribal marks. There are people out there who look beyond the physical. And Im quite sure its not at bad as you think. Dont be ashamed! |
Re: My Tribal Marks by Kweenisha: 4:15am On Dec 06, 2008 |
Seal's parents were useless.Which mother gives out her own child for foster care at 4? Only to take him back a few years later and abandon him again? Then he ends up with a father who beat him daily with a belt like they were in Ajegunle. No wonder the poor guy hardly ever mentions his heritage. He was on the Steve harvey radio show this morning and said he was born in London and that his parents were [b]West African immigrants. That kind of hurt me to hear him say that.[/b] |
Re: My Tribal Marks by chika98: 4:17am On Dec 06, 2008 |
Na today?? That is how banky said he was American but his parents are from Africa. |
Re: My Tribal Marks by Funkky123: 9:18am On Dec 06, 2008 |
Thanks every1, mine's actually not that bad and it gets reduced when i APPLY MAKE-UP AND THE LIKES. I do get approached by men of all colours as it's not always the first thing you notice (I hope), but I can't get past the marks, I refuse male offers because I think that's all he's going to stare at after a while and he'll leave me. Thanks for the surgery options but does any1 know for sure one in the UK that I can go to? (Blv me Ve been to loads!) Ve spent all my savings trying to get them off and am afraid if I don't get one that can help I will just keep wasting money on trial and error. |
Re: My Tribal Marks by MrCrackles(m): 9:25am On Dec 06, 2008 |
Funkky123: Oh dear! |
Re: My Tribal Marks by tpia: 4:49pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
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Re: My Tribal Marks by tpia: 4:51pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
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Re: My Tribal Marks by revenge(m): 6:59pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
na tiger u fight with hahahahaha |
Re: My Tribal Marks by AloyEmeka9: 7:22pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
tpia: Which generation is your father going by your 30's age? This generation Olubadan or this generation alaafin of oyo or this one done in 2007 at Ibadan |
Re: My Tribal Marks by AloyEmeka9: 7:24pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
Little Quadri babaola getting baptized with knife last year |
Re: My Tribal Marks by AloyEmeka9: 7:27pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
This: Or or Which is your generation and how come you've only seen 8 in your lifetime when I saw more than 12 this morning alone? |
Re: My Tribal Marks by Nobody: 8:33pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
Why is nonsense so called Identity still going on? I rem. someone telling that the marks are used as Identity during the slavery times or something like that. . . .those days have passed. Why continue to cling to such thing? |
Re: My Tribal Marks by AloyEmeka9: 8:34pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
Why is nonsense so called Identity still going on? I think its more than that. It is also spiritual and that is difficult for people to drop. |
Re: My Tribal Marks by Nobody: 8:37pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
Aloy.Emeka:This might sound ignorant, but I have no other way to put it; WHAT IS SPIRITUAL ABOUT IT? |
Re: My Tribal Marks by AloyEmeka9: 8:40pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
This might sound ignorant, but I have no other way to put it; WHAT IS SPIRITUAL ABOUT IT?It may not be divine from your own perspective but it's special to those that do it just like the way or your religion may look less spiritual to them. |
Re: My Tribal Marks by Nobody: 8:46pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
Ok, thanks. I guess I understand, still doesn't mean I approve Tribal marks. Not like I need to sha |
Re: My Tribal Marks by Nnenna1(f): 9:14pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
These things have much to do with self-confidence. I agree I know a pre-law student here in the states. Small-time model who dresses cute, is sophisticated, has a boyfriend (not Nigerian though - some other African country) and has friends from everywhere. Beautiful, 100% yoruba chic. Her scars look something like this: [img]http://data4.blog.de/media/002/1749002_aab05c4702_m.jpeg[/img] I don't see it stopping her in anyway. |
Re: My Tribal Marks by MrCrackles(m): 9:15pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
See as dem slash people face?! Chei!! |
Re: My Tribal Marks by AloyEmeka9: 9:16pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
Nnenna1: Will you like to have such scars?. Her boyfriend must be blind. How can i chase this kin face in the midst of beauty queens? The boyfriend must be living in scarcity. |
Re: My Tribal Marks by Nobody: 9:17pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
Nnenna1:What are you saying? Non-Nigerian Yoruba girl? |
Re: My Tribal Marks by AloyEmeka9: 9:18pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
What are you saying?No, non Nigerian boyfriend. |
Re: My Tribal Marks by Nnenna1(f): 9:18pm On Dec 06, 2008 |
Her boyfriend is not Nigerian, I mean. |
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