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Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 11:26am On Dec 17, 2014 |
No time is too early or too late. Xex or no Xex a guy that would stay will stay |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Islie: 11:36am On Dec 17, 2014 |
sex is never love and love is not sex..... choose wisely |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by sweetbaby22(f): 11:40am On Dec 17, 2014 |
chidyhels: yeah u are right to some extent BUT don't u think too early will send a wrong msg about the lady |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by harrysterol(m): 11:42am On Dec 17, 2014 |
pweedyuz:logical assumption is d key |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 11:45am On Dec 17, 2014 |
sweetbaby22:[color=#770077][/color] unhmm it depends on how real he is and how much hold you've gat on him. If he isn't real he'd still go after getting it in 12months time |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 11:47am On Dec 17, 2014 |
chidyhels:[color=#770077][/color] True talk guy I like your point |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 11:50am On Dec 17, 2014 |
pweedyuz: You showed two things in your post. 1. Your brainy 2. You have a way with words Nice post |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 11:51am On Dec 17, 2014 |
simplemach: Oga boss Unhmm I feel you |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 11:58am On Dec 17, 2014 |
Shawl001: Its your opinion but its a good one and believe me I agree with you. Only that if they are out for it time won't change the effect of doing it. |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by sweetbaby22(f): 12:00pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by showafrica(m): 12:12pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
sweetbaby22: I don't know where ladies get this impression from. I get more attached to a girl I am having sex with than the one I am not. If I don't like a girl that much I won't be interested to have sex with her. |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 12:28pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Instead of asking him to wait, u guys shd discuss weda ur sexually compatible or not. It is a very stupid idea to make a guy wait till like 6 months before having sex only to discover dat u guys are a mismatch in d bedroom. From d way ur sounding, ur not dat into sex and u beta find out if he has a much higher libido cos if u make him wait for sex for more dan two months, u beta be good at it cos if ur not, sorry, ur relationship mite come to an end. So OP, instead of asking him tell him ur sexually inexperienced plus u have a low libido, and ask if he's still interested. Dat shd save u from future problems. |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 12:42pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Within two months he is frustrated......If you are not ready, a guy who genuinely loves you will wait. This one na chop and clean mouth he wan do. Ask yourself this deep down, if you dont give him the sex now, is there anyother thing anchoring or sustaining your relationship? If yes then u can go ahead. But if you are in a relationship n d only thing really keeping u guys together is sex, den I am sorry but u guys are just fu.ckk buddies..that is not a relationship. |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 12:52pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
sweetbaby22: See sweetbaby Should I stay away from the truth. Say something true and I'd support you |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by sweetbaby22(f): 12:55pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
obongproff: OMG what if I don't have a low libido, but just being careful that I get it right this time. if possible wait until we get married or done intro first. |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by sweetbaby22(f): 12:59pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
adeaks: for now we just hangout and spend time together and most especially planning for the future. that's the reason why I don't want se-x to come and overshadow everything. If he is really serious he should wait and if he truly wants to marry me then the more reason for him to wait as he will have me forever. What is the rush. |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 1:04pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
sweetbaby22: I repeat der is no point waiting for sex if at d end u guys are sexually incompatible. U cant use sex as a bait to hook a man. Dats so evil. If a man wd stay with u, he wd stay. Its not d sex dat will keep him. If u dont want sex before marriage, just tell him already and pls also prepare ur mind if he chooses to walk away. |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 1:28pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
sweetbaby22: I kind of prefer when wrong msgs start off a relationahip. The friendship solidifies each time he/she discovers the good sides. Me think op hasn't started feeling her relationship yet, her fears has nothing to do with xex. |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 1:34pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
sweetbaby22: Seriously, if ur not redi for sex pls save him d frustration and stop meeting in d bedroom. U guys shd always hang out in a public space. At least der wd be no need for kissing and smooching. Afta one year, if he still tells u he loves u, can den kiss him and den propose to him. Dats d best way to make a man wait till ur ready for sex. Not by going to his bedroom and telling him ur not ready for sex. Why shd u be frustrating d dude like dat? Smh. |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 1:44pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Sweetbaby There is something shaky about this your relationship You aren't seeing the seriousness you expected in this relationship so far. I will suggest you avoid situations that will create sexual tension. Or Tell him about your fears. You need to know where he stands and if you both are heading same direction . |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by sweetbaby22(f): 1:48pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
chidyhels: Hmmmm, I get u. But I have feelings for him thats why I agreed to be his girlfriend |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 1:51pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
simplemach:Scammer alert! a relationship is made official by mutual agreement not bedmatics. Sweetbaby22 you guys haven't defined the relationship yet or what? |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by sweetbaby22(f): 1:52pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
chidyhels: Babe, honestly that's why I want to take things easy and slowly. get to know him very well. I really appreciate every ones comments. I am grateful |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by jauntty: 2:13pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Who go stay go stay...who go run go run...sex nor be superglue. #be_wise. Sweetbaby22, if sex is want u want, go ahead, if u wish to abstain, then pls do so....Relationship nor be maths with time equations. I have seen pple in intimate relationship going far as d altar...and I have seen situations where the guy will run d moment the gurl gives in to sex. #your_life_your_choice. |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Melahou(m): 2:45pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Give him his entitlement joor Infant you have wasted much time |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 2:54pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
lolaredvelvet: What instinct are you talking about,do you guys have instinct ¿ |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Nobody: 3:03pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
sweetbaby22: You don't know what would happen tomorrow. Talk of the present,you here talking of the future. Konji would just put you into COMA |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by simplemach(m): 3:17pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Mondisweets:lol |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by sweetbaby22(f): 3:35pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
Melahou: hmmm what entitlement .... are u for real. hello ooo I didn't say he was my husband. |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by pweedyuz(f): 4:16pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
signor11:thank u |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by Melahou(m): 4:28pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
sweetbaby22: Then why worry if it's early for sex... Perhaps you would have remained him that his not your husband yet |
Re: Will Sleeping With Him Too Soon Sabotage The Relationship by slimshadie(f): 4:55pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
I wonder how many seal a lady will have to go tru.If she kips "sealing" with guys every 2 month... #Hian# simplemach: |
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