Nonso23:

Did you not read where i wrote God forbid i ended up with an overgrown baby suckling mummy's breast and jumping around superman daddy
Worse still adding incest into the already horrifying mix.
Tufia! I reject it for my worst enemy.

I hope you can say the same for ndi mummy. Aka mummies boy or omo mummy. My mummy said I shouldn't travel. My mummy said I shouldn't eat your food my mummy said this my mummy said that. Their mothers have put their brain and phenese under their arm pit






Hypocrisy

Nonso23:

I once remarked that you do not read your posts before you clicked submit. The case is even more severe. You do not even understand what you write.
A man should suffer bruising of his ego because he chose to marry up.
What does that imply?

If you are not ready to put your ego aside to make life more convenient for your wife, then you are not mature enough to handle marriage.

Please stop calling omo mummies aka mummies boys men . They are not men. They are wimps who their mom have to determine every thing for them. Omo mommies have a brain ofa 6 year old and the body of an adult.

Matthewbriggs:
Context is every thing ... the mistake majority of people are making on this thread is that they not trying to seek out more information from the OP as to why he acted the way he did.

No sane man ... I know would feel slighted if his father inlaw decides to shower his daughter with gifts. Buy her a car, build her a house or buys her a freaking island. No sane man in his right mind would feel bad. Infact I would be very grateful to my father inlaw for his kind gesture and proceed to enjoy it with my wife... because what ever belongs to my wife belongs to me and vice versa.

A sane man would only freak out if this action is carried out with an ulterior motive,

1. As a ploy to undermine his role as the head of the family.
2. As a ploy to clandestinely remind him of his in ability to carry out his responsibility.
3. If he feel his father in-law has a habit or history of interfering in the way he runs his family.

It's not about given someone a gift, what matters the most which we are neglecting is the role the motive behind a gift, and the way it is given, go a long way in deciding how a gift is accepted.

Now Ladies shouting blue murder. should ponder on this.

How would you feel when you have spent your hard earned time preparing a really nice dish for your husband to eat and your mother inlaw arrives from the village one night complaining of the fact that you are feeding his son rubbish, she says look at how lean my son has become since he married you. She now tells you that the dish you just prepared is not good enough for him that you should shove your dish in the dustbin.

She steps in to the kitchen and prepares a dish for your husband and presents it to him as a gift in your presence, and your husband is like mummy thank you very much for this gift. This meal means a lot to me.

Tell me honestly how you would feel as a woman.

Context is every thing people. Before crying blue murder and accusing the man of been egotistic, and crucify him on the alter of Men vs Women. Our focus should have been on seeking to understand the context of his action and probing the Op to further get more details on why he acted the way he did. On getting more details can we go on to come to a conclusion.

#Mathewbriggs

EnlightenedSoul:


LordReed isn't a rare breed. LordReed is typical of a man in charge of himself. A man who wrestles with his ego only to be swiftly rabbit-punched into knockout submission, exactly the same way, every single time he endeavors to gain an ounce of control, will naturally have trouble understanding him. I can tell you now that they're levels to this shyt. Becoming a palooka, or in extreme cases, giving up completely to serve as the new water-boy just outside the ring. Handing in the gloves and shorts to fuel the seemingly unconquerable ringmaster E(go) instead, electrolytes & sweat-rag in hand like a good little water-boy aught. He never quite understood that rabbit-punches were the lay of that land. No WBO there, just you, your ego and the life you'd live by either controlling it, or it you.

They wrongly style themselves as "alphas", but live in the shadows, unable to garner that status, often threatened by the slightest of provocations, real or imagined - see thread(s) & see RL. They regularly fail at long term associations, especially with lovers. And no amount of the female (or even fellow male) ego-stroking they require could ever quench their thirst, and save them from the underlying malady of being a slave to their own egos, and as a result destructive to self and surrounding alike.

Such men crave loyalty, but never command it. And in truth only understand it at child level, hence the reason they're best kept as friends, tools of brief mutual gratification, or nothing at all. A women who ventures to love such a man does so at her own peril. LordReed is sensible, yes, but don't put him to extinction because of the sheer overwhelming amount of palookas and water-boys running amuck on here. There's always time and room for growth, knowledge, and self-improvement for those who desire it.

Wow! So stunningly apt! Mucho gracias.

Chillisauce:
Where do women see these kind of men they get married to?
Wonders shall never end.

[size=20pt]FROM NL!!!![/size]



Awon 'submissive wives' club. . .
#dinachi#

tI-fiakwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!!

Mondisweets:
If you are not ready to put your ego aside to make life more convenient for your wife, then you are not mature enough to handle marriage.

END OF DISCUSSION!

KanwuliaJara:


[size=20pt]FROM NL!!!![/size]

I'm surprised and happy to see you. Oya come and chook mouth since you're here. I have been wondering where you are all along





so good to see you

How did he become his father in-law's slave when the car was given to his wife not him? let her be her own father's slave, by accepting her father's hand-outs. why take panado for her headache that she is not complaining about?

Nonso23:

Or rather if you are not ready to be a slave to your FIL marry down.
Very more appropriate.

SAMBARRY:
I'm surprised and happy to see you. Oya come and chook mouth since you're here. I have been wondering where you are all along





so good to see you

The story was tooooooooooooo RIDICULOUS.
Till I realized it was all about a NIGERIAN HUSBAND.
Then I went back to sleep.

I was curious to know why the thread kept getting longer. . . .THEN FELL ASLEEP AGAIN!

DefiNATly an IGBO or YORUBA WIFE-KILLING-MACHINE man. . . . .FROM ONE THICK [size=20pt]IJEBUSH-OHAFIA[/size] town in the hinter region of NIGGARIA!!!!!

Na so dem dey behave! TWA!!!

Nonso23:

You actually are incapable of a little mental work.
Take your time and go through the first 4 pages of this thread. It will not kill you maybe the strain will fry a hemisphere of your brain but at least you'll have you answer in the end.

abeg you don't have any point jare. It's either you go to church or go and lie down and strategize how to be a billionaire instead of planning to do competition with your father in law




abi when last did you hear of dangote complaining that his in laws are meddling into his family issue .dig?





n symptoms of poor man whining be that

Honestly some posts here have been nauseating me to say the least. Why do they like suffer head like that. Tufiiiiiaaaa

KanwuliaJara:


The story was tooooooooooooo RIDICULOUS.
Till I realized it was all about a NIGERIAN HUSBAND.
Then I went back to sleep.

I was curious to know why the thread kept getting longer. . . .THEN FELL ASLEEP AGAIN!

DefiNATly an IGBO or YORUBA man. . . . .FROM[size=20pt]IJEBUSH-OHAFIA[/size]!!!!!

Mondisweets:
How did he become his father in-law's slave when the car was given to his wife not him? let her be her own father's slave, by accepting her father's hand-outs. why take panado for her headache that she is not complaining about?

I just taya.ahaaannn

Rxpetite:
if the man had a good relationship with the father-in-law, i don't think he would have reacted that way (assuming the man in question is reasonable.)

Problems like this don't pop out of nowhere. There's probably some bad history here. its possible the father did not approve of the man from the beginning or has a history of meddling in their family affairs

hmnnnn so what of matriachs in a family like kris kardashian

SAMBARRY:
Honestly some posts here have been nauseating me to say the least. Why do they like suffer head like that. Tufiiiiiaaaa

When I say a NIGERIAN HUSBAND is the MOST difficult animal to live under the same roof with. . . . una go gree?
Especially with THE SO-CALLED, DAFT RELIGIOUS CHRISTIAN WIVES. . . . . . .Bleeding and DYING SLOWLY. . . .or hacked to death like Xmas tolo-tolos!
Even if it takes 100% of NIGERIAN women to give testimony. . . .It will DO NO GOOD!

Thank my lucky stars for INTER-STATE MARRIAGES!

I cannot live 24/7 with ANY NIGERIAN MAN. . . .AND HIS CHILDREN. . . . under THE SAME ROOF!

NEVER!!!!
Arrrrrrrrrrrrrgh. . . We fit jam for party abeg!

Awon 'BLEEDING LOVE'. . . .TUFIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIAKWA!!!!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7_weSk0BonM

Elantracey:



Except they have issues there's nothing wrong with a father buying a car for his daughter , he was first her father before he became her husband , he should go and treat his self esteem issues .

abi o.he should sort out his head jare. Insecurity and fear or threat of his father in law taking his respect from him dey worry am

SAMBARRY:
abeg you don't have any point jare. It's either you go to church or go and lie down and strategize how to be a billionaire instead of planning to do competition with your father in law

amen!

Only a yeye husband would celebrate his poverty by claiming that his father in-law is interfering with his family by helping out his daughter

Of course that's my goal. You think I'll give you the satisfaction of asking you for anything





ehen kontinu loitering na.na me get nl or seun

Nonso23:


I'm back from church and intend to loiter around this thread for as long as i desire.
I don't need to be a billionaire to impress any sicko FIL that thinks we can both share my wife.
There is something called values. It doesn't change whether or not a person is a billionaire. I wouldn't expect your shallow mind to understand that anyway.
Dangote is a 3 time divorcee. Now that's a role model. No time to keep babies around as wives.

What is stopping you from aiming to be a billionaire too aren't you a feminist

SAMBARRY:
hmnnnn so what of matriachs in a family like kris kardashian

you mean what if kris jenner buys a car for her daughter?

Nonso23:

A man whose opinions and decisions are superceded by his sicko FIL is a slave.
When he begins to look up to the man for handouts like you are very much in support of he goes down a notch lower.
He becomes a beggarly slave.

I'm not saying he should depend on his father in law for everything but he should see support from his filas a way of helping him to get his feet firmly on the ground financially. COMPREHEND.be quick to read and slow to type

Specialist900:
Maybe it's how to call the FIL saying "I saw the car you sent to my wife, Thank you" that is the husbands problem

Thank you dey heavy for him mouth. LoL!

Rxpetite:
you mean what if kris jenner buys a car for her daughter?

I didn't say so.re read a reply to that post

EnlightenedSoul:


LordReed isn't a rare breed. LordReed is typical of a man in charge of himself. A man who wrestles with his ego only to be swiftly rabbit-punched into knockout submission, exactly the same way, every single time he endeavors to gain an ounce of control, will naturally have trouble understanding him. I can tell you now that they're levels to this shyt. Becoming a palooka, or in extreme cases, giving up completely to serve as the new water-boy just outside the ring. Handing in the gloves and shorts to fuel the seemingly unconquerable ringmaster E(go) instead, electrolytes & sweat-rag in hand like a good little water-boy aught. He never quite understood that rabbit-punches were the lay of that land. No WBO there, just you, your ego and the life you'd live by either controlling it, or it you.

They wrongly style themselves as "alphas", but live in the shadows, unable to garner that status, often threatened by the slightest of provocations, real or imagined - see thread(s) & see RL. They regularly fail at long term associations, especially with lovers. And no amount of the female (or even fellow male) ego-stroking they require could ever quench their thirst, and save them from the underlying malady of being a slave to their own egos, and as a result destructive to self and surroundings alike.

Such men crave loyalty, but never command it. And in truth only understand it at child level, hence the reason they're best kept as friends, tools of brief mutual gratification, or nothing at all. A women who ventures to love such a man does so at her own peril. LordReed is sensible, yes, but don't put him to extinction because of the sheer overwhelming amount of palookas and water-boys running amuck on here. There's always time and room for growth, knowledge, and self-improvement for those who desire it.

Ok noted. I agree with you. Lordreed is just too sensible and intelligent.

Nonso23:

A man whose opinions and decisions are superceded by his sicko FIL is a slave.

his decision or opinion over how to spend money that is not coming out of his pocket? This is hilarious! He dey mad?

When he begins to look up to the man for handouts like you are very much in support of he goes down a notch lower.
He becomes a beggarly slave.

You failed to make sense at all

Nonso23:

Fortunately not everyone is loudmouthed and garrulous about their goals.

And again, i can't be bothered about your goals or lack of it because it's of no importance to my well-being. Tell them to those who care.

don't worry God will soon give you yes my Lord wife.sit down there and she sits like a robot stand up there and she stands like a brute without capability to think. Shebi na wetin you dey find be that

















Peace

Mondisweets:
his decision or opinion over how to spend money that is not coming out of his pocket? This is hilarious! He dey mad?
You failed to make sense at all

absolutely