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Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 3:51pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
She has a well furnished house....you live in a rented apartment. You guys get married... Would you move in with her or insist on paying rent in someone else's house? |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by rittyben(f): 3:55pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Tough one. |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by temmyt20(m): 3:55pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
tough q......lemme hear other pple's point |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by waleadex(m): 4:00pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
If it's going to be temporary for a STRONG reason it's not bad. But it's traditionally wrong to make it permanent. 2 Likes |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by SELENAqueensy(f): 4:06pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
It ain't right |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 4:09pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
a gud rizin to double ur hustle.....every9 u spend count. women dnt av d long throat for words, if she vex u will 8 urself for d rest of ur life. Dnt do it!!!, somebdy shouted here. |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by jnrbayano(m): 4:10pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
striktlymi: Why not? Isn't she my wife? What I have belong to my wife and vice-versa. 1 Like |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by carlmerz(m): 4:19pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
What happened to your own house? Are you African? |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by haibe(m): 4:38pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
striktlymi:sure but not forever |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by Mynd44: 4:41pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Yes I can. I am not controlled by my ego. 7 Likes |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by TrishaP(f): 4:57pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
waleadex:What if there was no tradition? |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by taiocol: 5:02pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
My ego is something I respect so much, so It won't lemme do My religion and personal beliefs forbids it |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by jnrbayano(m): 5:06pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Mynd44: Thumbs up! |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by waleadex(m): 5:08pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
TrishaP:Then personal discretion should come to play... |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by Adaeze003(f): 5:15pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
I guess the question is for guys but I see nothing wrong in it. Like someone said tho, it should be temporary till you erect your own structure... 2 Likes |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by TrishaP(f): 5:16pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
waleadex:Sometimes u just forget tradition and do what you want. To me tho, I don't see anything wrong there, it's just understanding, trust and love that they need in their marriage and every other thing doesnt count. |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by waleadex(m): 5:21pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
TrishaP:Remember they're not into this alone. Family pressure must be considered too. |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by TrishaP(f): 5:25pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
waleadex:I know quite all right. But we are know most families abides with tradition, then what about you, what if you don't want such traditions. There are many things to consider in this,.. I don't want to say much. |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by FLAWLES(f): 5:29pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Mtsswww |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by extremelygolden: 5:32pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
In western countries, it is often the man that moves in with his wife, unless in some cases. So if where the woman is living is better and more secured, why not? At least, until they secure their own apartment as a married couple. To me, I see nothing wrong in it. 1 Like |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Itz very wrong |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by jmoore(m): 6:40pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Are both of you not one, huh? Some men will be suffering and smiling because of their ego, big ego. |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by Specialist900(m): 10:14pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
We go sell her house go find another |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by onegig(m): 10:18pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
jmoore:Abi. Help me ask them. As long as the house is comfortable and she's not driven by childish pride and is not prudish to remind you that she owns it every second of your life. I have no issues with it. Ain't it to sleep and wake up and live life? |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by IDEApro(m): 10:35pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
When I married her it was with both declared assets and undeclared liability. So ama move into my new apartment feeling like a boss. 1 Like |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by ogawisdom(m): 9:09am On Dec 23, 2014 |
Jesus I will neva do dt besides who is marrying who D man is d provider so he shld provide shelter n d woman is d helper Any man dt does move into a woman's houz after marriage lacks self respect n may ve been a neva do well n such a man can't b a husband as he lacks d capability Anyway there is a man in d houz and a man of d houz D worst dt shld happen is for d couple to put resources together n rent a new apartment if d man is really poor to save his face |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 9:11am On Dec 23, 2014 |
ogawisdom: Tell me please, who is marrying who? |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by Nobody: 9:44am On Dec 23, 2014 |
I can't see anything wrong with this with time a man of vision will build his own house. |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by ichidodo: 11:51am On Dec 23, 2014 |
If she gat her own spot why can't i be part of it? What happened to supporting her reach "her maximum potentials"??.. 1 Like |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by kelechiMarie(f): 6:05pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
ogawisdom:i been think say na woman dey marry manuoo ya knw therefore shall a man leave him papa and mama to cleave unto him wife. Anyway,i dont see d big deal o.Our house docs are in my mum's name: She bought d land,dad built and she's never mentioned it in an argument.It all depends on d couple |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by ogawisdom(m): 6:44pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
kelechiMarie: It is an abomination for a man to move into a woman's house after marriage. Ur parents may ve been d exception to d rule sha |
Re: Guyz, Can You Move Into Your Lady's House After Marriage? by kelechiMarie(f): 6:56pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
ogawisdom:abomination kwanuit's a thing of the mind brah.We lived in a rented house before and trust me you wouldn't know my mum owns I was snooping around dats how. We make life so damn complicated for ourselves 1 Like |
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