Hi,

Last August I met a level 100 beauty in my school. I'm a Level 400 student studying B.Eng Mechanical, so I still have a year left.

The girl is a real beauty, everybody keep talking how lucky I am to date her.

Well, I'm quite handsome. Got some money to take care of my self and have a car (I'm into farming, a family business). So I don't see a reason why she can not fall for me.

We dated for the whole semester, but I was not at school for the next semester (second semester) due to IT. So I should be back next year for my level 500.

There was this her friend and course mate which I always admire. We talk on phone sometimes and chat on whatsapp, my Ex is aware of that and have no objection to it. There's nothing going between us.

Our problems started when I was not around, she tries any possible means to pick a fight with me. I tried my best to make this work but all failed.

I got an intel last week that she's Dating someone now. So it's over.

Now, can I approach her friend / course mate even if it's for friendship and see if things can work between us? Do you think this is right?

I have what it takes to get almost any girl I want in the campus, but i feel like her friend is the one.

Thank you for your advice, and mind the write-up. I grew up in an area where my mother toungue is more popular and spoken than English. Even at school.

love Ve no barriers

sure?.then what's stopping u from ur Sis.?

soright4life:

sure?.then what's stopping u from ur Sis.?

I said "almost" and in the "campus". That means my school.

I don't have a sis by the way

Its a NO to me. I understand one can’t control one’s feelings, it just happens, and fighting it is futile, But you have to.

This might cause a huge rift between both friends bcus of u. There are better ways to avoid such.

Like u said your handsome looking and any girl would want u, then y not save yourself the ladies drama and go fishing else where.

TrishaP:
Its a NO to me. I understand one can’t control one’s feelings, it just happens, and fighting it is futile, But you have to.

This might cause a huge rift between both friends bcus of u. There are better ways to avoid such.

Like u said your handsome looking and any girl would want u, then y not save yourself the ladies drama and go fishing else where.

You made a very good point, thank you.

OP, I don't see why you can't date the other girl, afterall you don't owe your ex any loyalty nor explanation since she was the one that left you for another guy.
Abeg go for the other girl if she's a good girl, besides, how do you know the girl has not been admiring you all along and has been too shy to make her feeling known to you (Nigerian girls syndrome).
Since you people are already chatting on watsap, you can take it from there and build a solid frenship from there.

Best of luck.

numericalguy:
OP, I don't see why you can't date the other girl, afterall you don't owe your ex any loyalty nor explanation since she was the one that left you for another guy.
Abeg go for the other girl if she's a good girl, besides, how do you know the girl has not been admiring you all along and has been too shy to make her feeling known to you (Nigerian girls syndrome).
Since you people are already chatting on watsap, you can take it from there and build a solid frenship from there.

Best of luck.

Now I'm confused.

Thank you for the good luck, I really need that