This is story of a young married woman

"I am a 24yrs old woman , I recently got married 5months ago . My parents are strong christians and I was brought up to avoid anything premarital sex. At the age of 22yrs I met my husband , I told him that am still a virgin and I intend to keep it until when am married. He agreed to wait until after our wedding. We dated for two years without sex, which I really appreciated and it made me love him the more because he was so caring to me. Finally, on our wedding night , the long awaited night, he tried
to have sex with me but had premature ejaculation (ejaculation even b4 penetration) , after which he became weak and slept off . I felt really hurt that night because I was so eager to experience it , but, same time
felt maybe it's because of the wedding stress he went through. Now , it's 5months now after our wedding and
am still a virgin , and the same thing keep happening. Anytime I told him about it , he become angry and
scolds me, always telling me that sex isn't food and that what matters is love. Now , he is wants a baby and he suggested we do artificial insemination . That I abstain from sex before marriage , doesn't mean I don't like to experience it , So I don't expect my obstinacy to continue after marriage. I'm really confused and
unhappy ,I have prayed and prayed over it. I don't know what to do now...

Please I need your advice "

Yawns................ ........next

What do you want us to do??

So you did not test the koko?

Divorce him and move on.

Male virgin.

Thank God for making change my mind about abstinence before it was too late

Can you smell something false about this story? Or is it just me. Hmmm

Since you are both Christians, do it the Christian way. Go for counselling. It works. Don't feel your pastors have nothing to offer, they are humans, with loads of experience and spiritual maturity.

A case study.

A virgin couple went to see their pastor after 3 months in marriage. The pastor probed and found out they had not consummated their marriage. The groom said, they fast and pray often and sleep on the same bed. He thought sleeping on the same bed equals "sleeping with your spouse"

After counselling, they knew better.

marcelc:
This is story of a young married woman

"I am a 24yrs old woman , I recently got married 5months ago . My parents are strong christians and I was brought up to avoid anything premarital sex. At the age of 22yrs I met my husband , I told him that am still a virgin and I intend to keep it until when am married. He agreed to wait until after our wedding. We dated for two years without sex, which I really appreciated and it made me love him the more because he was so caring to me. Finally, on our wedding night , the long awaited night, he tried
to have sex with me but had premature ejaculation (ejaculation even b4 penetration) , after which he became weak and slept off . I felt really hurt that night because I was so eager to experience it , but, same time
felt maybe it's because of the wedding stress he went through. Now , it's 5months now after our wedding and
am still a virgin , and the same thing keep happening. Anytime I told him about it , he become angry and
scolds me, always telling me that sex isn't food and that what matters is love. Now , he is wants a baby and he suggested we do artificial insemination . That I abstain from sex before marriage , doesn't mean I don't like to experience it , So I don't expect my obstinacy to continue after marriage. I'm really confused and
unhappy ,I have prayed and prayed over it. I don't know what to do now...

Please I need your advice "

am not a doctor,4 that reason,i don't know ur husy problem,but if in case hes fat, let him try to luz weight,,and also try to experiment with porn movie with him,and see if something will happen good luk,,

Evina:
Since you are both Christians, do it the Christian way. Go for counselling. It works. Don't feel your pastors have nothing to offer, they are humans, with loads of experience and spiritual maturity.

A case study.

A virgin couple went to see their pastor after 3 months in marriage. The pastor probed and found out they had not consummated their marriage. The groom said, they fast and pray often and sleep on the same bed. He thought sleeping on the same bed equals "sleeping with your spouse"

After counselling, they knew better.

Lies. He probably wasn't attracted to his wife. How will he not know he's suppose to poke his wife.

obowunmi:



Lies. He probably wasn't attracted to his wife. How will he not know he's suppose to poke his wife.

What do you mean by poke?

Evina:


What do you mean by poke?

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Premature ejaculation is not even a problem, because it can be ameliorated by medical physiotherapy, or by a sex therapist. What if he were to be impotent? Thank God he achieves erection. She has no problem then. Meet a medical physiotherapist/sex therapist. No reason is strong enough to promote sex before marriage. My opinion though.

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Hmm was your husband equally a virgin? If yes, it means he is over excited even at mere sight of your nudity. That aside, he should engage himself in regular exercise and avoid pre-intimacy at all and ask him to relax his mind as if sex is nothing. Meeting an expert is a good option as suggested above. Wish u well.

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