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Temptations That Can Ruin Your Relationship! by MrTAnonymous(m): 8:14pm On Dec 27, 2014
1. Constant lying
When you did something that you know your
boyfriend or husband wouldn’t approve of, it can be
tempting to lie to him about it. While it can be easy
to
lie, your lies will haunt you down the road. If you
really love each other, you should never be afraid to
tell the truth, no matter how hard it can be. A strong
relationship is never based on lies. Remember it.
One of the worst temptations that ruin your
relationships is the desire to cheat on your partner.
If
you are in a long lasting relationship and you meet
another man, everything can become so
complicated.
The only way to maintain your relationship strong is
to refuse to give into that dangerous temptation, if
you really love your partner.



3. Stealing your partner’s things
When you are in a long term-relationship and you
are
living together, it can be tempting to steal your
partner’s clothes or cash without asking him. While
many couples are okay with it, others are not
comfortable. Your boyfriend/husband has the right
to
know what you take or how much money you take.
Don’t take anything without his permission and you
will avoid lots of fights.



4. Spending more time with friends
When you are in a very long-term relationship, you
might get jealous of all of the parties and free time
your friends (especially single ones) have. But, don’t
allow the temptation of alone time to ruin your
relationship. Don’t forget that you can spend time
with your friends; you just need to discuss it with
your partner and rearrange your schedule.



5. Putting no effort into your relationship
Once you have been together for a long time, you
may feel so comfortable that you may stop putting
effort into your relationship. While comfort is a
great
thing, it can be dangerous as well. No matter how
long you’ve been together, you still have to put effort
into your relationship to make it last.



6. Constant fights
When you are in a bad mood, it’s so easy to scream
at your partner to let out your emotions, however,
he
could get hurt and it can lead to numerous fights.
Don’t risk upsetting your partner, scream into a
pillow if you are tempted to vent. It may sound
funny,
but it’s actually work. Never blame your sweetheart
for problems that he didn’t cause. It’s one of the best
ways to keep your relationship strong.



7. Taking your partner’s efforts for granted
Just because you can walk all over him, doesn’t
mean
you should do it. If he washes your clothes for you
and makes you breakfast every single morning, let
him know that his hard work is highly appreciated.
Treat your partner with respect and don’t take his
efforts for granted.
It can be hard to keep the relationship strong,
especially if one of the partners put no effort into it.
If
you want your relationship to stay strong, make sure
you don’t act on the aforementioned dangerous
desires. There’s nothing wrong with you, if you have
these desires, but just don’t act on them and ensure
your partner doesn’t act on them as well. Which one
of these desires is the most difficult for you to avoid
succumbing to? Do you know any other temptations
that can ruin a strong relationship?
Re: Temptations That Can Ruin Your Relationship! by Kylekent59: 8:20pm On Dec 27, 2014
Temptation leads to confusion.
Re: Temptations That Can Ruin Your Relationship! by temitemi1(m): 8:27pm On Dec 27, 2014
None...
Re: Temptations That Can Ruin Your Relationship! by yorex2011: 8:57pm On Dec 27, 2014
Some people need to see this
Re: Temptations That Can Ruin Your Relationship! by Dotwillis1(m): 9:23pm On Dec 27, 2014
No 3?? ...mehn datz a teribble habit
Re: Temptations That Can Ruin Your Relationship! by jaytee01(m): 10:38pm On Dec 27, 2014
Okay
Re: Temptations That Can Ruin Your Relationship! by naturally: 3:42am On Jan 07, 2015
Constant begging
Re: Temptations That Can Ruin Your Relationship! by Nobody: 3:55am On Jan 07, 2015
Are these temptations or actions/ attitudes/ habits?
Re: Temptations That Can Ruin Your Relationship! by Chimarto: 6:09am On Jan 07, 2015
Really.....

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