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How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by iseleiyanu(m): 8:00pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
My fiancee have been cheating on me like 4times in which I forgave her. I forgave because of d few reasons 1. Her parents are good to me in kind and generosity. 2. I kept on preaching to her and given her messages to listen to. 3. I thought she will change. 4. I ve neva fall in love b4 all I always do is chop and clean mouth bt she is d only girl I ve ever love in my life. Now she is pregnant, she do see me and her ex and both of us use withdrawal method bt I'm so smart in d act. Now I ve sent her away and I don't knw how to get out of d shock. I need advice pls. |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by Nobody: 8:11pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
This's why I don't advice any one to tolerate a cheating partner. |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by ireneony(f): 8:14pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
bros you can never be smart in withdrawal method that is nature for you..... It better you break up with her, and I think you should carry out a DNA test when the child is born...... But for now, don't be too strict on her, cos she does not need any emotional hardship for now. But wait oh, he be like say na those ekpekus wey u chop clean month, de backfire for you now ...na joke I de o |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by pato405(m): 8:16pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
time heals.....nothing else...just time you don't have to bother yourself cos she's NOT worth it. the right girl for you will come |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by iseleiyanu(m): 8:17pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
pato405: Thanks |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by rydow(m): 8:25pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
How are u so sure u are not even the baby Papa. The mistake u made at first is that u ought not to continue the relationship after u detect she was cheating it would have saved u from long thought about loosing her. But its just a matter of time bro,get back to the street and i know for sure u will get a faithful babe and moreover its 2015 all ladies wanna be faithful |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by Nobody: 8:28pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
Well you've been doing chop and clean mouth probably hurting those chics who believed you to be their rt man so it's just an experience of how it feels when you are being used. Just consider it an experience and move on. Its well hope for better in 2015 it's good you let the cheating girl go. With this new knowledge you will heal quickly. I know it hurts so I am sorry for your pain. Happy 2015. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by iseleiyanu(m): 8:33pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
andromida: Thanks |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by F22RAPTOR(m): 8:39pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
andromida:nice..couldn't have said it better |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by lilmax(m): 8:39pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
iseleiyanu:it's just karma just sit back and relax |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by F22RAPTOR(m): 8:41pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
andromida:Nice..couldn't have said it better |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by prettyjo(f): 8:43pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
You have forgotten your self worth cos i think dats the only reason why you will still be in such rship. The issue is not just forgetting the betrayal but you also have to forget the rship.She might betray you again,who knows |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by ireneony(f): 8:49pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
F22RAPTOR:this is not the time to criticize him but is a time to help him out.... For the last time stop spewing trash Na another year we de so, I go maintains for now |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by Tattooboy: 9:04pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
iseleiyanu:Nemesis |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
@ Op , With enough time on your side,you will usually get over heartbreak. But that doesn’t mean you should count on “time,” or “getting busier” (which makes time go by “faster”) to move on with your life. The only way to get over heartbreak is by letting your heart break — and then putting it back together. You might figure this out by accident, especially with enough time and support from family and friends. Or you can navigate your way. To ensure that you find the light at the end of the tunnel, and get back to living your life, you need to get mindful about heartbreak. WHAT's IN HEARTBREAK What does it mean to get over heartbreak? Does it mean that it no longer hurts? That you no longer love the other person? That what you once shared is no longer important? It can mean those things, but it doesn’t have to. The point of “getting over it” is that you can successfully continue on with your life — without that person. “Success” is by your own standards. Getting over heartbreak includes three crucial steps: *Grieving your loss *Creating a new identity 4 yourself and *Committing to your relationship with you When you do this successfully, it’s a no- brainer to get back to living your life. You’re ready to move on to new things. You feel happy on your own. Let your heart break Heartbreak isn’t just something that happens. You have to allow it too. Someone might abandon you — emotionally or physically. But if you don’t let yourself fully feel how bad that hurts — it’s not really heartbreak. To get over heartbreak, you have to first let your heart break. CETERIS PARIBUS |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by Luckygurl(f): 9:51pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
Withdrawal method in this time and age Mr! HIV, STI's and STD's are real, better go for some check up, lets start from there. |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by Missmossy(f): 9:57pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
Do DNA test when possible to be certain of the paternity of the unborn baby. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by F22RAPTOR(m): 10:10pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
ireneony:but..what did I say wrong....Hahahahaha.. na wa oh. see drama queen |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by F22RAPTOR(m): 10:22pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
ireneony:wait a minute, we have crossed paths b4....you are that lady with the low self esteem abi?...no wonder u attacked me like this. Biko, I am very sorry abt that comment. nor vex a beg. |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by ireneony(f): 10:25pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
F22RAPTOR:I don't know you, no one here knows you |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by F22RAPTOR(m): 10:30pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
ireneony:ehn..issokay. But you seem to have grown some self confidence. Congrats. thank me later |
Re: How Do I Overcome Thought/heartbroken Of A Betrayal Fiancée. by F22RAPTOR(m): 10:31pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
Op, I sincerely apologize for derailing your thread. |
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