Y is it that right guys get married to wrong women and vice versa.There is these woman that lives very close to my house,mhen,that woman has everything a man wants in a woman,so caring'nice and understanding.But her hubby is wicked,very cruel.Hm,she washes is clothes,clean the house etc.But there is no day the man wnt beat his wife. They dnt seem to understand each other.I dnt understand why'

MhizVee:
Y is it that right guys get married to wrong women and vice versa.There is these woman that lives very close to my house,mhen,that woman has everything a man wants in a woman,ve

not in all cases...
humans are not perfect

Love and compatibility are two different things

Melahou:


not in all cases...
humans are not perfect

maybe

She's the one who allow him to be treating her in such manner, domestic abuse is a crime and crimes should be reported to the relevant authorities. So it's either she quits the marriage, get him sued or stay put in the abusive union. But I sense that she wouldn't want to leave the marriage perhaps the man is the breadwinner and she can't survive on her. Or she doesn't want people to gossip her that her marriage crashed up. That's why women should thrive hard to earn their own money so they don't get disrespected by us the men

ronald4lif:
She's the one who allow him to be treating her I n such manner, domestic abuse is a crime and crimes should be reported to the relevant authorities. So it's either she quits the marriage, get him sued or stay put in the abusive union. But I sense that she wouldn't want to leave the marriage perhaps the man is the breadwinner and she can't survive on her. Or she doesn't want people to gossip her that her marriage crashed up. That's why women should thrive hard to earn their own money so they don't get disrespected by us the men

yea,the man is the bread winner of the family.

MhizVee:
yea,the man is the bread winner of the family.

That's actually one of the reasons he feels he can treats her like sh*t, coz he knows she has no where else to fall back on.

ronald4lif:



That's actually one of the reasons he feels he can treats her like sh*t, coz he knows she has no where else to fall back on.

yea,maybe

MhizVee:
They dnt seem to understand each other.I dnt understand why'

Can you see the problem yourself? You couldn't even understand the problem.
That is the challenge for most relationships. The understanding that you may not be able to understand your partner and understanding that you just have to compliment, overlook and work around it.
Relationship is hardwork folks.

However, with regards to your story, most men who beat their wives are usually beasts. They want to surpress, dominate and force their opinions on their wives most of the time. I pray no girl experience a violent man except for those who like sadomach dont really know how they write that.

dats one of the numerous ironies of life

The man stil beats her even when she was pregnant,hm.He really,really disgraced her

Calling some humans animal is a sign of disrespect to animal kingdom. The man must be feeling like a real man whereas his behaviour can't be found in the jungle where animals lives. I just hope and pray the woman doesn't suffer severe and permanent injuries, the trauma the woman keeps passing through everyday must be something else.

If the treatments continues, I fear for the future of their children. This life is really unfair ...