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Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Frankenstein: 6:42pm On Jan 07, 2015
I had this argument with my hommies about a girl I turned down when she made advances at me. Some of them argued that the opposite actually happened cos the girl is kinda tuush and all that. Some said she was merely flirting with me and not hitting on me, while my very close G mocked me for not taking the opportunity.

So, has anyone ever turned a girl down? Or do girls merely flirt with guys and we misunderstand it as wooing?

For the women here, have you ever wooed a guy and got turned down?

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Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Abduletudaye(m): 6:46pm On Jan 07, 2015
Its possible jor...I remember a female friend of mine who really liked me and wanted to upgrade the relationship but I turned her down politely...

Was having girl issues so I felt I would be aggressive towards her and I wouldnt like it...
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by SeverusSnape(m): 6:46pm On Jan 07, 2015
Yes,I've done it twice. It's no big deal.
IT WASN'T EASY THOUGH. It's advisable to do so politely.

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Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by elantraceey(f): 6:48pm On Jan 07, 2015
Why not ? Just the same way a guy can be turned down.
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Frankenstein: 6:50pm On Jan 07, 2015
SeverusSnape:
Yes,I've done it twice. It's no big deal.

Abduletudaye:
Its possible jor...I remember a female friend of mine who really liked me and wanted to upgrade the relationship but I turned her down politely...
Was having girl issues so I felt I would be aggressive towards her and I wouldnt like it...

You guys turned down a tuush girl?
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Frankenstein: 6:50pm On Jan 07, 2015
SeverusSnape:
Yes,I've done it twice. It's no big deal.

Abduletudaye:
Its possible jor...I remember a female friend of mine who really liked me and wanted to upgrade the relationship but I turned her down politely...
Was having girl issues so I felt I would be aggressive towards her and I wouldnt like it...

She asked you out?
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Jan 07, 2015
And how does that make you feel?
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Tallesty1(m): 6:52pm On Jan 07, 2015
Funny hommies you got there.
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Abduletudaye(m): 6:52pm On Jan 07, 2015
Frankenstein:


She asked you out?

Yes she did...but indirectly...as a sharp guy, i knew grin

But I turned down the package sha..she got pissed tho' hehe
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by mesoade(m): 6:54pm On Jan 07, 2015
2 of my hommies had done it . . It ain't anything bizzare,so normal
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by SeverusSnape(m): 6:54pm On Jan 07, 2015
Frankenstein:


She asked you out?
Yes, The first one was very bold(I've never seen that kind of boldness before in my life),she did not mince words, She was blunt. I couldn't tell her "no" directly, So I did it codedly. We are still good friends.
The other one was through the phone, I didn't waste time to decline.
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Nobody: 6:56pm On Jan 07, 2015
So bekus u guys turned dwn girls, una head dy swell? angry
According to study, gals turn dwn 5000 guys(Behind or untush) daily, and we dnt brag bou rit! angry

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Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by mesoade(m): 6:57pm On Jan 07, 2015
NinoBrown888:
And how does that make you feel?
same way they feel when you're turned down . . But mostly depends on the circumstances surrounding your friendship.
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Nobody: 7:03pm On Jan 07, 2015
mesoade:
same way they feel when you're turned down . . But mostly depends on the circumstances surrounding your friendship.


most guys would feel like the world is their Oyster..
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Jan 07, 2015
Sure na.
No matter how beautiful or frosh you are,some guys wl not have dat feelings for you still.
Tho' the effects wl be disastrous.
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Frankenstein: 7:09pm On Jan 07, 2015
EroticAngelina:
So bekus u guys turned dwn girls, una head dy swell? angry
According to study, gals turn dwn 5000 guys(Behind or untush) daily, and we dnt brag bou rit! angry
No. I'm not bragging. I just wanna know why some of my friends think I'm not normal for turning down that particular girl. And why the girl was so pained.
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by adesina1991(m): 7:10pm On Jan 07, 2015
;Dits your choice u either turn it down or fall in.@OP maybe she is not cute that's d reason why u turned her down because if she is the other way I trust you its your choice u either turn it down or fall in.@OP maybe she is not cute that's d reason why u turned her down because if she is the other way I trust you
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by basille(m): 7:12pm On Jan 07, 2015
Yep, it's possible. Most times they tell people otherwise and develop strong hatred towards the guy in question.
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Frankenstein: 7:16pm On Jan 07, 2015
adesina1991:
;Dits your choice u either turn it down or fall in.@OP maybe she is not cute that's d reason why u turned her down because if she is the other way I trust you its your choice u either turn it down or fall in.@OP maybe she is not cute that's d reason why u turned her down because if she is the other way I trust you
She's cute... too cute and well endowed. I turned her down because of her lifestyle plus she's high-maintenance. The kinda girl that asks for a yacht as a birthday gift.
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jan 07, 2015
Yup yup yup
girls could be turned down for sure,especially if she's ugly.
The guy fit even vex gan.
That's why i'll always advice the ladies:
maintain your street cred
green light is enough.
abstain from toasting.
Yours sincerely
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Abduletudaye(m): 7:23pm On Jan 07, 2015
EroticAngelina:
So bekus u guys turned dwn girls, una head dy swell? angry
According to study, gals turn dwn 5000 guys(Behind or untush) daily, and we dnt brag bou rit! angry

u don vex? cheesy
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by MrDojo(m): 7:24pm On Jan 07, 2015
undecided undecided
EroticAngelina:
So bekus u guys turned dwn girls, una head dy swell? angry
According to study, gals turn dwn 5000 guys(Behind or untush) daily, and we dnt brag bou rit! angry

undecided undecided abegggiiiiii
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Dotwillis1(m): 7:26pm On Jan 07, 2015
Itz natin new
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by basille(m): 7:26pm On Jan 07, 2015
KiidaACE:
Yup yup yup
girls could be turned down for sure,especially if she's ugly.
The guy fit even vex gan.
That's why i'll always advice the ladies:
maintain your street cred
green light is enough.
abstain from toasting.
Yours sincerely
Mando how far, so you self follow dey Nairaland. grin
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by MrDojo(m): 7:26pm On Jan 07, 2015
Ntin bad in turnin down a babe.....I kinda see it as a normal tin....
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jan 07, 2015
MrDojo:
undecided undecided

undecided undecided abegggiiiiii
I knw u? undecided abeg swerve jare! angry nonsense!
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jan 07, 2015
Abduletudaye:


u don vex? cheesy
No, im jes saying.

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Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Afrok(m): 7:29pm On Jan 07, 2015
U turned a girl down but keeps running after another girl who has given U smack down uncountable times? Smh... undecided. This life is really unfair cry.

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Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by MrDojo(m): 7:29pm On Jan 07, 2015
EroticAngelina:
I knw u? undecided abeg swerve jare! angry nonsense!

U talkin shiiit babe... tongue
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Jan 07, 2015
Frankenstein:
No. I'm not bragging. I just wanna know why some of my friends think I'm not normal for turning down that particular girl. And why the girl was so pained.
oh ok
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by adesina1991(m): 7:30pm On Jan 07, 2015
Frankenstein:
She's cute... too cute and well endowed. I turned her down because of her lifestyle plus she's high-maintenance. The kinda girl that asks for a yacht as a birthday gift.
that's was a good reason to turned her down.ladies of nowadays demands what they can never ask from their parent from us and I don't blame them we guys caused it.that's y I remain myself
Re: Can A Girl Be Turned Down? by Nobody: 7:31pm On Jan 07, 2015
basille:
[color=#== 000099]Mando how far, so you self follow dey Nairaland. grin[/color]
ahhhh,banyeee!!!! I dey oo,lemme whatsapp you .

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