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Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Nobody: 3:41pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Sex is everywhere. It permeates television shows, the Internet, and magazines. Even children’s movies often have thinly veiled sexual overtones. Today, society’s carefree thinking on sex out of wedlock is simply, “Why not?” Believing that “most are doing it anyway,” Most people say we're in the 21st century and that's now legal, but 99% of things that are legal are not right. Is this a bad thing? Most say no. To support this position, some cite the well- documented health benefits of being sexually active. some even say ""does sex belong only inside a marriage relationship""? What is wrong with reaping all the physical benefits of sex outside of wedlock so long as one is “smart” about it? hmmmm but I tell u, there are dangers for the sexually active person: transmission of diseases, unwanted pregnancies, and potential emotional scarring from a promiscuous lifestyle of multiple partners. see our generation where teenage pregnancies are rampant. you meet young people “where they are” and talk openly about sex. Educators hope to arm teens with enough information to dispel the mystery of sex so they can “decide when they are ready” to lose their virginity. “One of the things young people say a lot is that the sex education they get is virtually meaningless, it’s too biological and doesn’t relate to how they are feeling. Essentially, parents have concluded they are no longer able to stop children from having sex. The best they can hope to do is teach them about it. sexually transmitted diseases have reached an unprecedented level. Even the “safest” sex can result in unintended pregnancies This can lead to the tragic decision to end the unborn child’s life through abortion, something a woman will carry for the rest of her life. If the couple decides to go ahead with the pregnancy, children of unmarried parents are often susceptible to a host of physical and emotional problems. children born to women who did not intend to get pregnant have been found to have lower birthweight, poorer mental and physical health, lower educational attainment, and more behavioral problems than do children whose births were intended.” Men and women who are products of broken homes often have children out of wedlock as well, which leads to a vicious, multigenerational cycle of unhappiness. Couples who wait enjoy significantly more benefits than those who had sex earlier.. A healthy, happy marital relationship produces similar relationships in the lives of children who come from them. In short, happy couples produce happy children. It is a parent’s job to proactively teach about sex. Yet parents have to compete with what their children learn from this world’s “sexperts”—the hyper sexualized media, permissive sexual education at school, misguided how-to websites—as well as their peers. While these sources may supply some correct information about purely physical aspects, the majority of what they teach includes much error. Add to this the pull on young people to learn by their own experiences, which can be painful. Because of these factors, many parents, who do not truly understand the purpose of sex, are perfectly happy to outsource the difficult job. On the other hand, well-meaning parents who seek to discourage premarital sex might simply say: “Because I said so!” or even, “Because God said it’s a sin!” Others, feeling it is inevitable that their child will have sex, may hand their son or daughter a condom and tell them to “be safe.” In both scenarios, parents merely pass along what they feel is right or what others have told them—without ever proving the truth for themselves. By comiting to premarital sex you risk..... 1. The risk of disobeying God and letting Satan get a foothold The Bible, time after time tells us to flee sexual sins. Why? Because it is a major strategy of the devil to sabotage God's work on Earth. 2. The risk of shame Premarital sex imputes a spiritual state of shame that becomes a major weapon of Satan. God forgives you, but you will still face the fruit of the sin and you'll still be vulnerable to Satan's whispering accusations on your worth as a person and your value as an active individual. 3. The risk of sexual dysfunction People spend millions of dollars to correct sexual dysfunction through drugs and psychotherapy. Why? Because they entered marriage with unresolved sexual issues. For example, a man may think that he will be free from the curse of pornography once he gets married, only to find that the problems are even more noticeable and controlling. 4. The risk of placing your future children in spiritual harm's way The Bible clearly speaks of the concept of generational sin. What you sow (plant) spiritually may be reaped in the life of your children. Break the power of Satan's curse. Remain pure before God and you'll be tenaciously guarding the future of the next generation. , 5. The risk of depression Those who participate in premarital sex experience emotional damage that may lead to an increased chance of mental depression and emotional despair. 6. The risk of permanently damaging your testimony as a Christian or Muslim You'll never be able to honestly say, "I was a virgin before I was married." You'll never be able to live as an example of committed purity. 7. The risk of damaging the destiny of your future marriage There is no way that premarital sex of any kind could be a plus for your future marriage. It only causes suspicion, mistrust, and regret. 8. Risks of incurable disease Imagine that you have found that one special person with whom you want to share your life. And now you are forced to break the news that you have an incurable disease. Even though such diseases like herpes are generally not considered life threatening, there are no cures. Not only is it incurable, it fills a life with worries, awkward revelations, and continuous need for medication. Herpes and other STD's are everywhere. Why risk contracting an STD? 9. The risk of lost relationships When you choose to develop a sexual relationship with someone, you have immediately changed the entire definition of the relationship. God's intent was for a man and woman to enjoy sex throughout the course of a lifetime. There is no such thing as casual sex. Once you have developed a sexual relationship, that relationship turns a critical corner. After the relationship ends, you and your partner will experience the guilt and pain of promises broken. 10. The risk of death No one can deny that having sex before marriage can have grave consequences. disease like AIDS and its likes kills its victims. The choice is yours... 90 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by SeverusSnape(m): 3:54pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Yes!...I love this, I'm a proud virgin. 29 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Nobody: 3:59pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
SeverusSnape:I love this.... it doesn't have to be the girls alone.... guys are also involved.... don't use your joystick anyhow.... 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
SeverusSnape:I love this.... it doesn't have to be the girls alone.... guys are also involved.... don't use your joystick anyhow.... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by dannydaniels(m): 4:04pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
hnm.. .see wahala......well shaa we'll see to that 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by SeverusSnape(m): 4:12pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Samwell247:Yeah...preach brother! 3 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Spydamannn(m): 4:14pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
I wish u goodluck in your campaign 9 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by PHAYOL81: 4:16pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Nice write up.i'll try keep my sec virginity very intact 8-) 9 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by mirexxx(f): 4:16pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Nobody: 4:20pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Spydamannn: Amen, I know many will say how is this possible.... hmmm self discipline should be applied.... if we discipline ourselves not to.... then we won't.... others may but we shouldn't.....my friend does it doesn't mean we should follow their path.... I pray people heed to this.... I wonder what this generation will turn into..... 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Nobody: 4:22pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
PHAYOL81: see this funny brother oh.... you make me smile... God help u.... |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by naijaboiy: 4:44pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Well I don't care 7 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Nobody: 5:15pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
God bless you for this write-up 6 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Nobody: 5:33pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
kristina1: amen oh.... 4 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by HzRF(m): 8:04pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
I did not even read this before clicking on reply Since the day pple hav been shouting no premarital sex Nobody has ever said no premarital spending 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Arsenate(m): 8:50pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
good post for once. way to go. SAY NO TO PREMARITAL SEX. risks associated with this act far outweigh whatever benefits. I know what I'm saying. ...and yes, this very much worthy of front page. mods 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Simitrendy: 9:07pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Sex!!!! Keep ur body holy and acceptable unto God and our body is the temple of the Holyspirit 4 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Innodon(m): 10:04pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
ok |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by juliusocean(m): 10:04pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
mtweew Make sure u pratice and gain enough skillls b4 u marry so your wife/husband wont come here and complain 2maoo 9 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Eraddray(m): 10:04pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
#TEAMVIRGIN# 1 Like |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by daramz1(m): 10:04pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Na wa ooo |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by englishmart(m): 10:05pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
you can't have your cake and eat it... It's too late to turn back now. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Iykebestbt(m): 10:05pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Buhari for 2015 3 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Kingsleigh(m): 10:05pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Too long do kindly summarise |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Nobody: 10:05pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
U can lie o! |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Nobody: 10:05pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
ok! we have heard |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by bonechamberlain(m): 10:06pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
..too much attention is being paid to sex.. whether u re a Virgin or not without a good character and sound intelligence ur virginity is worthless... let us pay more attention to love because its the key to so many things... 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by MilesLamar(m): 10:06pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
thats why am still a virgin 3 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by onila(f): 10:07pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
TeamVirgin all day its not easy but we try 11 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Etizz: 10:07pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
I see nothing wrong to have sex before marriage..... 4 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Sex Before Marriage (must Read For All Youth) by Vikkie14: 10:07pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
The "pounded" wont be happy with you Op 3 Likes |
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